【Peace of Mind】
Dear Da,
I went to visit your house that day, and you were a very stable person, very introverted and low-key boy.
Home visits only to learn that your family is a very great local business family, our county's large taxpayers, and your parents are charity entrepreneurs in our county. And you are so low-key, always simple, even walking home by yourself, which is also your mother's education.
When I asked about your ideals, you said that when you went to Rizhao that time, you saw that there was a lot of garbage on the beautiful seashore, so ah, you want to go to Rizhao Beach to clean up the garbage when you grow up, and give Rizhao a clean and beautiful environment.
Your mom and I both laughed. I said dear child, picking up a garbage according to our family's conditions is still an easy thing, but it seems that we can do bigger things, if we especially like this job, then be an environmental expert, how?
At this point, the child laughed.
Dear Zee,
I went to your home to visit that day, you are a special love of reading, love to travel, love to think, love to speak, have independent thoughts, have a kind heart of excellent children and students, I am very shocked by the high level of your reading and the scope of your walking!
When I asked you about your ideals, you said very neatly: "Grow up, be an entrepreneur, a big boss, make a lot of money, and then marry a good wife." ”
Your mom and I both laughed, but I fell into thought.
Dear children, I know that your ideals have a profound influence on family education, your family is very rich, is a dear child, do you know that the truly noble family is not only rich and has books and knowledge and level, but also what should be there? That's home and country feelings!
Our most beloved Premier Zhou has set great aspirations for the rise of China since he was 14 years old. When the great Wang Yangming was young, he firmly adhered to the ideal of being a saint: "To establish a heart for the world, to establish a destiny for the people, to continue to learn from the saints, and to open up peace for all the worlds... Dear child, since you have become a person who reads thousands of books and travels thousands of miles, you should have a broad mind, lofty ideals and sincere feelings of home and country!
Your mom is very happy and she says that her child has a new direction tomorrow.
Dear Rainy Mother,
In an essay after the start of the winter vacation, I saw the joy of the child receiving red envelopes in the rain, this relative is 800 yuan, and then increase the gift.
I said to Yu'er's mother: Our children are innocent, don't let money blacken our children!
You say, "Rest assured, it's a process, and I've received all the money." And one day he asked me for a house. I told him that if you were to graduate from a prestigious university, you would hate my houses, and you would have your own big house.
Dear rain mother, we have too many parents to educate children, just like you, "there is a golden house book in the book, and there is a beautiful jade in the book", unfortunately, the root of our family education is forgotten by many people! Family education is the root and soil of a person's growth, this should be a person's moral education, our parents and adults should give children a good adult influence and guidance!
Children should be a kind person, a grateful person, a hard-working person, a person with ideals, a person who is upward, a person who loves family and patriotism, a person who loves mankind...
Dear friends, please do not put all your mind on your child's learning homework, and do not focus a little amateur energy on your child's personal happiness.
Our current family education has included "teaching children for the country" into the educational content, and our parents' careers should not be too short-sighted, too narrow, too selfish, the more so, the more difficult it is for adults to become talents, and the growth of children will be prone to problems! Aren't the countless accidents of children in our country now caused by our lack of family education?
The more we cultivate children's lofty ambitions and perseverance, the more we cultivate students' moral character, the more students go far, the more they are not afraid of various failures and setbacks, and the more they can become adults, serve the country and the people, and make his achievements!
Dear friend, take advantage of the fact that the child is by your side today and take the time to talk to him and her about the child's dream. We have a "Cloud Dream Reader Conference" on the weekend, welcome to actively participate in Oh!
Dear Friend Lin,
I specially asked Teacher Feng today, this child's mobile phone addiction can be changed.
You first want to believe that children believe in their own belief in the future, it also takes time, it takes our patience, we adults need to change our own wrong ideas, wrong language, wrong methods, and then change from our own parents.
Well, the child who has a lot of mobile phone addiction is because the parents are addicted to mobile phones, and another important reason is that the parents are not fun, there are no friends at home, right, he can only walk into the mobile phone this friend.
Many parents ignore the needs of their children when they are very young, give their mobile phones to their children to play, let their children use their mobile phones as toys, as nannies, and as mothers, but it is difficult for her to get the mobile phone back from her children.
Dear friends, today is the last day of March, we want to greet the new April with love and faith, we want to use our own changes to meet the children's tomorrow!
Dear friends, please be a good friend of the child, please make a good gift for the child, please be a good toy for the child, we do not believe that we will not have feelings and love as the mobile phone! Think about it, why are children obsessed with mobile phones? We can fight with ourselves and play with our phones, but we just can't fight with our kids!
I believe that every parent who loves children will work hard!
Dear friends, if you talk to your child about your heart, talk about the future, and understand your child's hobbies and ideals, maybe today's pain will not occur.
Man is to live in hope, to live in the vision of the future, because there is no realistic partner and toy, there is no yearning for the future, so he put himself in the mobile phone!
Dear friends, it's still too late!
Your friend Li Yuanlan
2022.3.31
Author: Li Yuanlan, outstanding teacher of Dongping County Experimental Middle School, member of the National Class Teacher Growth Research Association, director of the Moral Education Research Branch of Primary and Secondary Schools of the China Education Association, and host of the Xinyu Home Visit Studio. ）