Lead
In the later years of blind date is popular, many old people tend to find a wife in their old age, after all, this kind of spend the least amount of money to find a person to take care of themselves, if you hire a nanny, then the economy can not withstand such a big pressure, after all, old, there is no way to make money.
The 62-year-old Aunt Sun confessed: "The blind date in his later years is not reliable, and I have clearly seen the intention of men to find a wife in their later years." "Next, let's take a look at the story of Aunt Sun."
Protagonist: Aunt Sun
I'm 62 years old and this is my 7th year of retirement. Before I retired, my wife was already retired, I was very envious of my wife's life after retirement, I didn't need to go to work every day, I stayed at home to live a comfortable old age, as a result, I was not retired, my wife went one step ahead of me, I was really angry at the time, obviously said to go through the old age together, my wife went first.
I raised a son with my wife, the son's work is in the field, the time to go home is very short, you can only go home once a year, and the time is very short, generally three days, you have to go back to work. When my wife had not died, I still did not feel lonely, I was still very happy, my son was not at home, I could occasionally bully my wife, and as a result, my son was no longer at home, and my wife was no longer there, leaving me alone.
To tell the truth, after retirement, I am really bored to stay at home as a woman, in addition to being able to grow flowers at home, raise a pet cat, there is no one around to accompany me, originally I wanted to ask for a nanny, but I calculated, my pension is only 3500 yuan, I can't afford to hire a nanny, if I hire a nanny, my life will not be able to go on.
So, I thought of a blind date, and I couldn't afford a babysitter to find a wife for myself, which should always work. However, I went on blind dates more than twenty times, and the other party did not look at me because my pension was too low, until I met Lao Yue, I found the ceiling level among men, too faceless.
Lao Yue is my last blind date, he is 62 years old, the same age as me, the pension is 6,000 yuan, there are two houses under his name, one for rent, one for self-occupation. At first, we talked very well, after all, his conditions were very good, I was very impressed, he was also very satisfied with me, and there was nothing wrong with it, until he made two of his requests.
First, he asked me to manage my pension for him and hand over the financial power, and he believed that men were the pillars of the family and should manage the expenses of the family, not the women.
Second, he asked me to spend half a month with him and remarry, but remarried can have a wedding, notify relatives and friends, but can not get a license, otherwise his children will not agree.
When I heard these two requests, I was angry on the spot and said bluntly: "I came to the blind date just to find a wife, I did not come for your money, marriage is not licensed, what are you thinking?" Your children are not at ease that your house is just divided, then you are not used for blind dates, and financial power is even more impossible to give you, because money is the basis of my life, and my pension money in my old age has been given to you, so what to do? ”
epilogue
Aunt Sun's words are very reasonable, after all, the pension is the last guarantee for the elderly, remarriage in the old age is just to find a wife, why give up their pension for a wife, if there is a contradiction, Aunt Sun is easy to get back her pension.