In life, some things need the supervision of others, need the urging of others, but there is one thing that absolutely does not need anyone's supervision, and you can complete it very well, that is, love.
As long as a person's heart truly loves another person, he will definitely take the initiative to understand the other party, to care for the other party, and to pay his own practical actions. This is most evident in men. Maybe when a woman falls in love with a man, they will behave very reserved and passive, but if a man really loves a woman, he will become brave and more active.
Because in men's hearts, they know very well that when they encounter love, they must firmly seize it, and if they are not careful, the opportunity will slip away. Boccaccio once said, "True love inspires, awakens the sleeping strength and hidden talents within him." ”
When a man has love in his heart, it will definitely change a lot. Men who are shy by nature will also become brave and active because of love; men who are not good at expressing themselves will also try to say some love words to please women; men who are accustomed to self-centeredness will also know how to think about each other and consider each other's feelings more.
Shakespeare once said, "Love is a puff of smoke blown by a sigh; there is its purified Spark in a lover's eyes; a lover's tears are the waves it stirs up." It is also the most intelligent madness, the bitter taste of choking throats, the honey that cannot be eaten by the mouth. ”
Once a man encounters his true love, he will definitely feel this way. Therefore, women should also understand that if they want to know whether a man truly loves you, don't just test the man, but know how to quietly observe the man's words and deeds, and understand his heart from some detailed performances.
The opposite sex gets along, men love a woman or not, these details are obvious, it is not pretend, women must learn to observe these.
01 When you need help, don't take the initiative to tell the man what his attitude is.
Lu Xun said: "If a person does not have the ability to help the person he loves, it is best not to talk about love or non-love. Of course, help does not equal love, but love cannot exclude help. ”
A man's heart loves a woman, he will always care about the woman, the eyes will always pay attention to the woman, but also look for some opportunities to help women, so that women can feel his sincerity, see his sincere attitude.
So, when you need help, even if you don't take the initiative to tell him, he can detect it in a short time and will take the initiative to care for you and help you.
When the opposite sex gets along, whether a man really loves a woman, the behavior in these details is obvious. If he doesn't really love you, he won't spend too much effort on you, maybe he will say some sweet words and know how to make you happy, but in these details, he will not care too much, and he will not pay attention to you at all times.
To know how much a man loves you, look at how much he will give you in these details.
02 When chatting, look at the speed at which men reply to messages.
Dora said: "Life is terrible and ugly. When two people are indeed together, love will turn from honey to chewing gum, the more chewed the lighter, faded to the later it is astringent and bitter, can't help but you not spit it out. ”
Love cannot give any guarantees, and no one can guarantee that he loves you now and will love you as always every day in the future. No matter how firm you are now, you can't guarantee that you will be so happy in the future. Good love is managed, not met.
If a man truly loves you, he will definitely treat you well, cherish your days together, and work hard to manage your love and enjoy the happiness that belongs to you. When chatting with you, he will naturally be very serious, listen to every word you say, carefully read every text you send, and reply to your message in the shortest time.
So a man doesn't really love you, and when he's with you, he may behave very well, but after separating from you, he won't spend much time caring about you, and he won't be so active when chatting with you.
Wanting to know how deep a man's love for you is actually very simple, look at the time it takes to reply to your message, and you will have a number in your heart.
03 When you are sick, he will only comfort you with his mouth, or will he find a way to take care of you.
Tagore said: "The difference between friendship and love is that friendship means two people and the world, while love means two people are the world." One plus one equals two in friendship; one plus one or one in love. ”
The biggest difference between a man who loves you or not is this. The man who loves you will feel that you are his whole world, and the man who does not love you will only feel that you are a person in the world, and for him, it is naturally not so important.
For this less important you, when talking to you, maybe he will behave very well, will know how to make you happy, and even say some sweet words, but these are good, only on the lips, generally will not be put into practice.
Just like when a woman is sick, what is needed most is that the man can give the most practical action, give the warmest companionship and care. If a man doesn't love you, it's usually the opposite, and what he says will be beautiful and sweet, but he will never really care about women, to take care of women.
Women should understand that when a man gives you the truth is only on the lips, it means that he has always given you the cheapest and least costly thing. Really good, he wouldn't give it to you at all, or never thought of giving it to you.
Whether a man really loves you or not, see these details, in fact, you will know. Women don't have to test men, they don't have to question men, just observe these quietly, and it is enough.