I believe that there are many girls who are in love with their boyfriends, and they are in such a state. So this kind of long-distance relationship, from the girl's point of view, she must want to know whether this man really loves himself? Having been in love for such a long time, I also wonder if this man has changed his mind about himself? Most women want to know these things. So what kind of angle do we usually judge whether he really loves himself?
Although everyone is in a different state of love. But for this, in fact, we can judge it by some details. I'll explain it to you from six perspectives, and then you'll know how I'm going to judge.
First of all the first and most obvious is the case of a long-distance relationship where there is definitely some fixed amount of time between you and your boyfriend in contact. For example, in the morning, you say that in the evening you will send some greeting messages, or in the evening you will video it after work at a fixed time, and these things will slowly form a habit, form a fixed.
So if you find that there has been a change between you and your boyfriend, you go to talk to him at a fixed time, he always pushes back, or you leave something for him, he is always impatient to find some reasons, find some excuses to shirk, then what can happen to the relationship between you in this case?
Or that the boy has encountered some problems, then in this case it may mean that he does not love you or that he has a new situation, of course, at this time we can not make this decision, can only say that there is a situation like this, a change, the relationship between you is a problem, then you have to find the specific reason, to see if he has changed in the end.
So we can judge through some daily connections, through these details of things, whether he is truly in love with you, and whether he still loves you?
The second is that many of us now have a circle of friends, so you can look at some of the daily life of his circle of friends.
Of course, some boys don't like to send a circle of friends, then we can't verify this, but most boys will still send a circle of friends, then you can analyze it according to some dynamics of the circle of friends, and then you can see it.
How much of this kind of feeling he has for you, for example, sometimes he will send some funny paragraphs, or he will send some thoughts, then in this case, it may mean that he really misses you. So you look at his circle of friends, and you can judge it through some of the dynamics of this circle of friends.
Although sometimes, perfection cannot be judged, but we can see some clues and detect some clues through these series of things. For example, if he likes to send a circle of friends before, he will send his work information, he will send some chats between you or his thoughts about you, etc., then you suddenly find that he has not sent this dynamic for several months, and suddenly it has changed, that is, we have a problem.
At this time, you have to pay attention, so we go to see his circle of friends based on a consideration in this regard.
The third is that we look at a special day, let's say you know a anniversary, or some special day, such as Valentine's Day, etc., will he prepare gifts for you in advance.
Or will he come to you for all your experiences, there must still be some fixed time, or take time to meet and date, right?
It is impossible for two people to maintain this state of online chat for a long time, they can't see each other a year, so it is not OK, then there must be time to meet in the middle, then these special days you look at a preparation for it, whether he puts you in his heart, if on this more special day, he does not give you gifts, he does not take the initiative to come to you, and there is not even a word, then in this case still use me to say?
That shows that he doesn't love you so much, or that he has changed his mind, so in this case, the woman should pay special attention.
The fourth is that through his friends, we learn about him from the side.
Of course, this is very difficult, because there are many times I am in love with this boy, then his friends ah we do not know much so sometimes it is possible to know a few of his friends, his colleagues also have some contact information, then in this case you can understand his dynamics through them, of course, the information obtained by such a person is limited, and sometimes it is possible that this information is still inaccurate, but we can verify it through such a way.
For example, if you have the contact information of his colleague, it turns out that you find that your boyfriend in the circle of friends says that he is on a business trip, and you just happen to find that their company has not arranged it in his colleague's circle of friends, which means that he is lying, then in this case, there must be a problem with the relationship between you, otherwise he will not deliberately hide it, so through such a way, we can also judge whether this boy really still loves you.
The fifth is more practical, that is, when we meet, you have to look through some details.
In fact, you can judge it by being with him bit by bit, through the details.
For example, you are very good before, together is Li Long we are in this state, but you find that the last few times to meet ah, such words feel very strange, and then he always has a thing you can't see, then in this case, generally speaking, the sixth sense of girls is more accurate, then in this case, although you say that sometimes it may be redundant, but even so, We also have to calm down to see if there are some problems in the new situation, at this time you can calm down, and the boy to have a good talk, then when you meet is when the feelings of two people heat up, so ah, from this point of view we can also judge whether this man is true love for you, and still loves you.
The sixth is this kind of long-distance relationship, in fact, it is not appropriate to go on in the long run. End this state early.
There are a lot of long-distance relationships, and he insists on the biggest limit of less than two years, and he insists on less than two years. In fact, many times I have this difference because of this first difference, it has produced a lot of contradictions, and these things cannot be resolved. So if it is possible for my long-distance couple to end this state as soon as possible.
Two people still have to be together, even if it is a little farther away, it is difficult to meet. Therefore, long-distance couples want to have a good relationship with each other, and they must find a way to end this long-distance relationship as soon as possible. Another from the girl's point of view, if you and this boy are in love, you and him are a little bit, then now all aspects of the conditions are not allowed, there is no way to change the situation, you have to have a certain degree of trust, because in love, trust is very important there are many things, if you have some doubts in your heart, before you get a definite proof, don't be suspicious, don't go to this boy theory.
Emotional Lessons:
Be sure to remember this, be calm, girls in love, accept such a long-distance relationship. Of course, it is more difficult, so it is possible to try not to choose a long-distance relationship and a boyfriend, it is best to be in the same place, so that it is connected, for you you can feel that happiness, of course, this is the case, you need to remember what I just said about having a certain amount of trust in him, and then usually you have to keep an eye on it, in the usual basic process, in the process of your communication, through the details of things, you can see whether there is a problem with the feelings between you, If there is a real problem, you must remember to calm down and deal with it.