When a person is in contact with you, in the face of your courtship, he says to you, "I would like to be with you, but my parents objected, and I can only say sorry to you, and I dare not disobey my parents' orders." ”
When you encounter difficulties, are in adversity, and can't give him the life he wants for the time being, he will say to you, "I would love to be with you, but your current situation makes me feel anxious, I dare not be with you, I can't see hope, if you still love me, you should let me go." ”
The other party always refuses to hold hands with you on the grounds of "timidity", or after holding hands for a few days, refuses to hold hands with you, which can only show one problem: he does not want to hold hands with you, he does not love you.
There is a kind of love, called "brave", the person who loves you, will really love you, want to be with you, is his "honesty", get rid of the shackles, overcome anxiety, firmly hold hands with you, is his bravery.
1. Be bold and show your love.
When you have other members of the opposite sex around you, he will feel panic, will be inexplicably jealous, afraid that he will miss you.
After you don't contact him for a few days because you're busy at work, he'll worry that you'll forget her and he'll be afraid of losing you.
At this time, he will let go of his reticence, he will become brave when he is always shy about emotional problems, and he will become brave because of the fear of loss and strive to get the feelings he wants.
Seeing you with other members of the opposite sex, he will overturn the vinegar altar, indicating that he values you very much, you snubbed him for a long time, do not contact him, he will feel very difficult, will not be able to help complaining about you, saying that you do not pay enough attention to him; on some important days, such as Valentine's Day, May 20, your birthday, he will always take the initiative to contact you, give you small gifts, and express his heart to you; when the other party has such an external performance, it shows that he is bravely showing love to you.
The other party will bravely face your own emotional problems because of you, boldly show you love, and do something to make you happy, which shows that you have occupied his heart.
2. Be brave enough to accept courtship.
When a person interacts with you, his attitude towards you is surprisingly cold, no matter how you please him, he is not coaxed, and it is difficult for you to please him.
You give him gifts, he doesn't accept them, you talk to him, he doesn't listen, you ask him out to play, he will always find reasons to refuse; you do something for him, share his worries, he will think you are troublesome and turn you away; the other party will send such a signal, obviously do not want to accept you, do not want to be with you.
When the other party is in contact with you, when he sees you, his eyes will light up, and he can't help but secretly send you Qiu Bo to express his love, at this time, you will find that he is a very good person.
You say something emotional to him, he'll be happy for days, you give him a small gift, he'll be moved, and when you confess to him, he'll say to you, "No problem, I've spent my life with you." "He will be brave enough to entrust himself to you, and the courage to hold hands with you shows that he has given his heart to you."
3. Dare to share hardships and hardships.
The other party's willingness to live a rich life with you will explain two problems: the other party really looks at you, and is true love to you, which is the result you want to see, if this is the case, congratulations on finding true love.
There is also a very difficult situation, the reason why he will follow you is not because he looks at you, but because he looks at the living conditions you can give him.
The connection between you is conditional, the former being connected to you because you love you, and the latter being connected to you because you love the life you can give him. In other words, the reason why the other party will establish a deep connection with you is not because they look at you, or because they look at the living conditions you give him, the former, is really in love with you, the latter, is not really in love with you, for this, must not be unaware.
As the saying goes, "suffering sees the truth", the person who loves you, the feelings for you, can withstand the test, and the latter will leave you when you are in trouble, when you can't give him the living conditions he wants.
When you are in trouble and down, the other party is still brave to hold hands with you, to help you in the same boat, to share hardships, not because he is stupid, but because he has paid real feelings for you, and he has become so brave: brave to accompany you through thorns and thorns, walking a road covered with broken stones and mud.