The recent hit drama "Heart Residence" must have been watched by many viewers;
After watching this drama, many people have seen a lot of their own shadows in the protagonist;
As a drama starring many powerful actors;
"Heart Residence" can be said to be another king explosion after "Human World".
This play reflects a lot of family conflicts and truths;
Let's take a look at the show with Sponge today.
First, the door is not right, the household is not right, there will be problems
First of all
Families with improper doors and wrong households will more or less have problems
For example, Shi Yuan's family was once a big family;
At that time, the Gu family moved to Shanghai, and Gu Qingyu's grandparents rented the Shi family's house;
The family was very poor and could only rent the smallest and darkest hut in the north;
The two families are very different, and the status of the two families is very different.
Later, the Shi family's family fell in the middle of the road, and Shi Yuan's parents were forced to go to the countryside and leave Shanghai;
What was once a beautiful Miss Sea, turned into a rough peasant woman;
Shi Yuan's mother suffered from depression because she could not accept the huge gap in her life;
Shi Yuan's mother hopes to return to Shanghai and restore the glory of the family;
She pinned all her hopes on Shi Yuan.
Shi Yuan once had excellent academic achievements, was good at piano and foreign languages, and was also good at sports;
He was a talented person in the school, strong enough to enter Fudan University;
As a result, the exam failed, the volunteer filling was not smooth, and only read the specialty;
After graduation, Shi Yuan stayed in Shanghai, became an ordinary tour guide, and lived a busy life in the wind and rain.
Shi Yuan failed the college entrance examination, and Shi Yuan's mother's wish was disappointed;
As a result, her depression worsened, and with the addition of other diseases, her body almost collapsed;
In order to cure her illness, her family savings were spent, and Shi Yuan was saddled with millions of external debts;
Shi Yuan's family returned to Shanghai, but could only live in a dirty hutong far away from the bustling streets;
Shi Yuan's friends are all market figures who sell fish and vegetables.
And the Gu family's life is getting better and better, buying a house to catch up with the demolition;
Gu Shihong became a teacher, Gu Qingyu became a workplace elite, and could afford to buy 10 million yuan of real estate;
Far beyond the caste of Shi Yuan;
The rise of the Gu family is in stark contrast to the decline of the Shi family;
Shi Yuan's mother's psychological imbalance;
Gu Qingyu appeared as a daughter-in-law, which greatly expanded the unfortunate life of Shi Yuan's mother;
The final struggle of this declining aristocrat was to refuse to become a relative with her family.
Second, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Love is a matter of two people, but married life is something that several families need to run together;
Different lifestyles, contradictions in ideas, contradictions in personality;
It is the original appearance of this colorful world;
What marriage needs is management, inclusion;
If everything in life must be calculated, and there is no mutual respect, it is tantamount to digging one's own grave and harming others;
In a word: do it and cherish it.
In "The Heart Dwelling":
After Feng Xiaoqin, played by Haiqing, married her husband in Shanghai, she initially just wanted to live a peaceful and stable life;
But when Feng Xiaoqin raised her own little tiger, she also wanted to own her own house;
In the play, Feng Xiaoqin does not want to manage the big family alone, and wants the children to have a separate room;
Have a stable home with your husband in the future;
At first, Feng Xiaoqin wanted to borrow money from the rich sister through her husband and buy another house.
Feng Xiaoqin knows that the house with her husband and father-in-law is very large, but he thinks that the children will grow up in the future
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If we live together like this, contradictions and problems will continue to arise.
In order to own her own house, Feng Xiaoqin thought of many ways, and even borrowed money from neighbors;
Feng Xiaoqin's regret is that the house she wanted could not be realized, but in the end her husband left her forever.
In real life, there are many such families;
There is a certain gap in life experience between young and old;
Therefore, there is also a certain spiritual gap between young and old;
It is precisely because of this generation gap;
A variety of perceptions arise between young and old, eventually becoming contradictions in real life;
From the perspective of both sides, there is no problem with the generation gap;
But with age and role, ideas vary.
Therefore, the first truth of life that is most worthy of being seen through,
Even when the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law's family live together, there are basically contradictions.
In the play, Feng Xiaoqin lives with her husband's family;
There is no contradiction on the surface, but the contradiction behind it is already very deep.
Feng Xiaoqin did not get her own house in the end, but at least wanted to change her life.
Third, the combination of strong women and weak men, yin sheng yang decline
After watching "Heart Dwelling";
The second truth of life that is most worth seeing through is that women are strong, men are weak, and both sides of their lives become unconfident.
Feng Xiaoqin is a strong woman in the play;
Whether in front of outsiders or in his own home, he manages his husband;
As the nursery rhyme in the play says, "You manage him as if you were a son."
Feng Xiaoqin in the play is really like this, taking care of her husband is like taking care of her own children;
Everything had to be done according to her own ideas;
After a long time, the lives of strong women and weak men will make both sides very uncomfortable;
In real life, there are also many families where women are strong and men are weak;
Just like "Heart Dwelling", because women are too strong, so men are weak;
"Heart Residence" is the epitome of family in real life.
In real life, there are many cases where women are strong and men are weak;
But on the surface, it is not said, just silently hiding behind the back and living unconfidently.
Changing this phenomenon is actually very simple.
The stronger party should know how to find ways to get along with each other;
How to converge on their strengths, and how to use their strengths where they should be.
Fourth, in the family, we should also stand on the other side's point of view
After watching "Heart Dwelling";
The fourth truth of life that people should see through is:
In family life many people do not know how to think about each other.
Home has been known as a warm harbor since ancient times, but many families have finally lost their warmth;
Can not become a port of heart docking;
The reason why many families lose their home warmth is;
Most of the time, families don't think about each other, but always live in their own world.
Gu Qingyu in the play is a great person;
But as soon as she returned home, she brought home a series of actions by the company;
Before her brother died, she analyzed what was right and valuable to her brother;
However, according to her analysis, there were also family conflicts, and her brother died suddenly;
For family members, they cannot be analyzed by their ability to work;
That's not a job, much less a place to generate income.
If you want a better family, you can't be self-centered;
Once self-centered, people feel very uncomfortable;
Those who are self-centered and don't know how to think about each other;
You will find that many things cannot satisfy your heart;
You will realize that your elders cannot satisfy you;
What your elders didn't do what you wanted;
What your husband or wife does not meet your standards;
Self-centered people live very tired;
The whole family will lose the temperature they deserve because of their own tiredness.
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Well, what other truths of life do you see in "The Heart Residence"?
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