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People live a lifetime, who does not want to have someone to accompany themselves to old age, but what couple can really grow old with a white head. A lifetime is so long, it is difficult to avoid some changes, so white-headed old age has become a dream that many people can not hope for. In particular, some people's wives go early, and after their children become a family, they leave themselves alone. So many people will have the idea of remarriage, but remarriage is also risky. If you meet the right person, then your old age is very happy, if you meet the wrong person, then this life is completely over.
When it comes to remarriage, everyone actually thinks differently. Some people think that remarriage is normal, but some people feel that it is shameful to remarry when they are older? When you are old, what will it feel like to remarry that round house?
My name is Zhou and I am 60 years old. My life has been full of twists and turns, ups and downs, and I have hardly had any peace of mind. I grew up in the village, a native of the countryside, no intelligent mind, no beautiful appearance, like many rural aunts, I am just an ordinary rural woman.
When I was a child, my family was poor and had no money to study, so my culture was not high, I didn't go to society to find a job, and I could only stay at home and do trivial things. Because the conditions at home were not very good, I just turned 18 years old, and my family forced me to go on a blind date. So under the introduction of the matchmaker, I got to know my wife.
My wife has a gentle personality, and is not impatient and orderly, and I really appreciate his personality because it is exactly what I don't have. I am an acute child, I like to do things crisply and neatly, I don't like to drag mud and water, which is exactly what my wife is missing. So we both got married not long after we were so attracted to each other.
After marriage, I gave birth to 4 sons, the pressure of life was particularly great, I thought of having a daughter at that time, but I did not expect to have 4 sons. Since the birth of our children, our standard of living has dropped dramatically, because there is no way to give them better conditions with our income. I can only barely make ends meet and support my family.
Later, my wife chose to go to the city to work, and although the salary of a construction worker in the city was quite high, it was particularly tired. But there is no way, there are still a few children waiting to be fed at home, and no matter how tired they are, they have to grit their teeth and insist. However, it is gratifying that because his wife is particularly serious about his work, he was promoted to an official before long, his income slowly became higher, and the living conditions at home were slowly getting better.
Just when I thought our lives were safe and secure, the accident suddenly came. One day, when the old class was checking the progress on the construction site, he suddenly and accidentally fell from the upper floor, and because the floor was too high, there was no time to rescue him, and he died on the spot. In this way, I lost my wife and left me alone with 4 children.
I don't know how I survived that time, but the burden of my family was all on me at once. 4 children still have to study and are not yet able to take care of themselves. Not only did I have to take care of them, but I also had to find a way to work to make money, and once I fell, the consequences were unimaginable. Later, under the introduction of relatives and friends, I went to the city to work as a nanny and entrusted my children to the neighbors.
Slowly the children grew up, they started to go out to work, they started to start a family, and I slowly began to grow old. The sons began to have their own careers, and slowly began to start families one after another, get married and have children. Our hard days are finally coming to an end, and the good days are finally coming.
After the children had their own jobs and families, I was left alone. They all joked with me and said, "Mom, maybe you can find a wife to accompany you for the rest of your life." Otherwise, we all go out to work, usually have less time at home, and you are lonely. Find a wife to chat with you, take a walk or something, at least not so lonely. "After listening to my son's words, I think it's time to think about myself?" After a lifetime of working for them, I have never really lived for myself once.
Ever since my sons had this idea, they've been looking for me to date everywhere. Later, once by chance, I was playing tai chi in the park and met Uncle Wang. Uncle Wang is not a bad person, has an amiable personality, and is quite considerate and very considerate of me. Later, after understanding, I learned that Uncle Wang was actually the same as me, he was also a middle-aged widow, and now he was alone, so they often looked for opportunities to match the two of us together.
At first, I always felt that when I was old, I was still looking for someone, and I was not afraid of other people's jokes when I said it. But slowly I found that Wang Dai was really a good person. Be a person worthy of entrustment for life. So slowly I also began to have more and more contact with Uncle Wang. We would often go shopping together, play tai chi together, chat together, and nag. Slowly, I also got used to this kind of life with Uncle Wang, as if I couldn't see him one day, I felt uncomfortable, as if something was missing.
After a period of time together, I decided to take Uncle Wang home to get to know my sons. After they met, they praised Uncle Wang one after another, saying that he was a very good object and could be worthy of lifelong trust.
So we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a marriage license with the blessing of everyone, and we got married. Ben thought that when I was old, I wouldn't be so solemn, but I didn't expect that Uncle Wang had to give me a wedding. Although it is not necessary to say it, there is no need to worry that you are still very, very happy. After all, there are not many people like me who can still wear wedding dresses.
On the wedding day, thirty or forty tables of friends and family were invited, and the hotel's outfit was my favorite, all blue roses, as if immersed in a blue ocean. When the wedding was over, we swore to each other. This life does not seek to be long, but we can do it with a white head and grow old.
After the wedding, we had endless words, holding Uncle Wang and leaving tears of happiness. "I've been alone for so many years, and I never dared to imagine finding a man who loved me so much at my age." Thank you for making me a princess at 60. Uncle Wang touched my head dotingly, smiled and said, "Since I decided to be with you, I will definitely give you the best, we are not young, now when will we not give you until then?" No need to say thank you to me, we will be a family from now on. The money is in your hands, and everything is up to you. "I'm really so happy that I want to be able to immerse myself in the ocean of happiness for the rest of my life."
It was finally time to rest, and the things I had been afraid to face were finally coming. The first time I was together, I was particularly embarrassed, after all, I was not young, and I felt quite ashamed. But I didn't expect that Uncle Wang was very considerate, he especially knew how to care about my feelings, and the two of us were very tacit, he gave me too many surprises, I didn't feel embarrassed at all.
Unconsciously, we have been together for several years, and I always play with Uncle Wang like a little girl. But he always accommodated me, no matter how I was, he always held me in the palm of his hand like a princess, and did not let me suffer a single grievance. People around me envied me, saying that I was so old, and it was definitely a blessing that I could meet such a good person in my previous life.
I'm glad I was able to meet my current wife, who spoiled me like a child. But marriage needs to be cautious, after all, it is risky to remarry after all. If you find it well, it will be as happy as I am, and if you find it well, you will only spend the rest of your life in pain. Now many people look for a wife with a purpose, so we must also be cautious when looking for a wife, polish our eyes, and consider whether the other party is worth it.
Good times are always short, thank you for reading this, I hope the story between us will continue, the bar is ready to listen here, is your story ready?