Children rebel and always oppose their parents, and sometimes they can still be angry that their parents have headaches and chills, is this the child's personality? In fact, I think this is related to the education of parents to their children from an early age.
Children are not filial piety, from an early age will be signs, and parents have not been able to correct in time, at least the child is getting bigger and bigger, more and more independent, the easier it is to become an unfilial child in the eyes of parents. Don't say raise children to prevent aging, he is very good if he does not cause you trouble.
I occasionally have free time, I like to take children and the elderly around, take advantage of the children's learning time is not so urgent, take advantage of the health of the elderly can also cultivate emotions.
Every time my son went out with his grandmother, he showed his warm masculinity, and he didn't let his grandmother have anything in her hands. Although my father and I, as well as his own hands, had a lot of things in his hands, he would rather take more of them himself than let grandma take them, he said: "Grandma is too tired to walk, and I can't carry her." ”
Grandma often said, "When you are old and blessed, this is a filial child." ”
We raise children, of course, not to give ourselves such a simple pension in the future. However, a child with filial piety brings us infinite emotions all the time, which is also the greatest happiness in life. Therefore, the filial piety of children makes us very proud.
There are many neighbors and fan friends, when talking about children, always enviously said: "How do you educate your children so well?" Will my son also be filial to his parents in the future? ”
Whether the child will be filial to the parents, although we cannot predict things in the next few decades very accurately, but from some characteristics of the child's personality when he is a child, we can still see some clues.
The first feature: children scold the elders, do not know how to respect the children of the elders.
Nowadays, the phenomenon of parents hitting their children is rare. On the contrary, in some public places, it is often seen that some children speak ill of their grandparents, even swear words, and some beat up their parents.
A child's filial piety to his parents is an upbringing that needs to be cultivated from an early age. If you have the habit of scolding your parents at a young age, you will not be a filial piety child when you are older.
The second characteristic: children are particularly selfish and selfish, thinking only of themselves.
Some children are very selfish, they want to eat what they want to eat at once, and it is difficult for parents to get something out of his hand. The child wants to buy toys and food, and the parents are not satisfied with him, he will lie and play tricks, and he will not listen to a little reason.
Some children, after a little older, do not consider the economic conditions of their parents, only consider their own material enjoyment of life, such as some college students, only care about their own fun, no money to manage their parents to ask for money, never consider the hardships of parents to make money.
The child only has himself in his heart and has not considered his parents, indicating that he has never really loved his parents, and it is also a sign that he will probably not be filial piety in the future.
The third characteristic: children like to shirk responsibility and have no sense of responsibility.
Every child may do something wrong, and some children will change when they know it is wrong, can take responsibility, and are willing to accept criticism and punishment from their parents. When the parents are old, taking care of the parents is also a great responsibility, and the child's sense of responsibility is needed to bear. Therefore, responsible children are generally very filial.
However, some children are different, as long as they make mistakes, it is the reason for others, the reason why they are not good at learning is because the seats assigned by the teacher are not good, and the food they do not eat well is because the food made by their mother is not fragrant. Children like this who like to shirk their responsibilities, when their parents need his care, will probably find reasons to shirk their responsibilities and are unwilling to pay hard.
The fourth characteristic: the child is very dependent on the parents, and the independence is very poor.
Children are particularly lazy, but it is not a good thing, if your child always comes to the clothes to open his mouth, when he grows up, you will most likely not expect him to be filial to you. Children are lazy, dependent, and unwilling to take care of their parents.
As a parent, although you don't necessarily have to expect your children to retire, you always hope that when you are old, you can get the care and care of your children. Therefore, it is also very necessary to cultivate children's filial piety from an early age.
If you want your children to be filial to each other in the future, parents should pay attention to the cultivation of their children in these aspects.
Attention should be paid to cultivating children's independence.
The child's independence should be exercised from the moment the child is born. Drink milk from your own bottle, crawl to get your own toys, learn to eat by yourself, and walk by yourself without adults. Children with strong independence will have the ability to take care of their parents in the future, and they will not rely on their parents, rely on their own efforts, but be filial to their parents.
Cultivate a sense of responsibility in children.
The child's own affairs, we have to take responsibility for himself. For example, homework should be checked by yourself, and your school bag should be packed by yourself, and gradually cultivate children to be a responsible person.
It is necessary to cultivate a grateful heart for children.
Parents earn money to spend on their children, and now this seems to be a matter of course. So many children are extravagant and wasteful, and do not know the hard work of their parents to make money. We should let children know that it is not easy for parents to raise children, and it is not easy to cultivate children to know gratitude, and children will be filial piety in the future.
Pay attention to cultivating children and their own feelings.
Whether the child will be filial piety or not depends on whether he and his parents have deep feelings. If the child has no feelings for his parents, he will not be very filial piety. Therefore, parents accompany their children from an early age, and they will harvest a filial piety child in the future.
What kind of a child is when he grows up is closely related to the education of his parents. Do not want the child to be filial piety in the future, parents still have to guide well, in case the heart is cold in the future, and the child is still being crooked.