Opening Remarks:
There was once a popular phrase on the Internet that children love to say:
"I love to learn, learning makes my mom happy, my mom happy, the whole family happy."
It may seem like a joke, but it will make people feel to some extent: in a family, a woman is a mirror of how good or bad the family is, a woman is happy, and the whole family is happy.
Feng Menglong once said: Words in anger will be leaked.
Most of the words spoken when people are angry will expose your emotions and easily hurt others.
A woman, in a family, should be gentle and amiable in the eyes of the child, a warm harbor in the heart of the husband, if the woman's emotions are always difficult to control, it is difficult for a home to be harmonious and happy.
In life, it is very normal to have emotions.
However, emotions must know how to control, in order to be able to reasonably release negative emotions and purify the soul.
If women do not know how to control their emotions, it will most likely make the people around them feel not love, happiness, trust... It is fear, anger, sadness, etc., as if you are in a deep well, unable to extricate yourself, suffocating.
Therefore, a woman's emotions affect the quality of a family's feng shui.
The woman's bad mood makes the family restless
In the TV series "Meet the Season", it was thought that the two families would let go of their former hatred in the finale, but it was Jian Hongtu who faced the disaster of imprisonment, and Ning Shu began the road of revenge again, and Jian Hongtu and Ning Yu still had no luck in missing out again and again.
The two families did not have a very smooth life.
Originally, everyone took it out alone, it should be a very wonderful life, there will be a good future, there will be a beautiful marriage of people, in the end, but so desolate, I have to say that all this has a lot to do with a woman: Ning Hui.
That morning, Ning You's father was fired from the factory, she scolded her husband for being too provocative, encouraged her husband to go to the factory director to make trouble, and as a result, her husband Cui Hao stabbed Jian Hongtu's father Jian Zhiguo, and then, he himself jumped off the building to commit suicide.
And when her husband died, she did not realize the reason for this, not only did she completely become Tang Yingjie's third child, but also preferred sons to daughters, cultivated her son's hatred, let her son be full of revenge, but also let her daughter suffer grievances, and finally her son went to extremes, and her daughter's marriage was unhappy.
Therefore, when a woman treats her home as a garbage dump and vents her emotions at will, then the feng shui of this home has begun to be broken.
A home, the good or bad of the situation, the key to success, is not that there will be a big person, nor fame and fortune, left and right, rich and glorious, but this home, very warm, very happy.
If a woman is in this family, she is suspicious of the east and the west, scolds her husband and scolds her son, dislikes her husband for not earning money, dislikes her children's poor learning, and vents her complaints to her family at will, seemingly unintentionally, but in fact has added indifference and irritability to this family.
A woman with a good personality, she will be gentle as a spring breeze, gentle and amiable to the pillow person, soft and soft to the child, know how to communicate, have words to say euphemistically, and make a home full of joy and laughter.
The woman's good mood makes the husband more motivated and makes the child more progressive
Only with good emotions can we have a good life.
Many people pay attention to health, but most people forget that emotional stability, no anxiety, no panic, is the most important thing in health care.
In a family, the more stable a woman's mood, the more she can calm the uneasiness of her family, she will not be in a hurry, she will not be a little angry, she will not be irritable and irritable, and she will hurt her family with the most hurtful language, and she will not use poisonous tongue to curse her relatives.
Treat the child, she will not scold, nor spoil, but give him encouragement, when the child is naughty, she will not shout at the child, but use her own attitude to teach the child right and wrong.
Remember the little kid who went to the police station to "turn himself in"?
The child was naughty and scratched other people's cars, and the owner found out that it was this child in the monitoring. His mother did not make a big fuss, but led him to the police station to turn himself in, let the police uncle carefully analyze the right and wrong for him, and formulated "punishment measures" for him, and finally the child also realized his mistake, crying that he would never do it again.
The more correct the mother's three views, the less likely the child is to make mistakes.
When encountering this kind of problem, perhaps, some parents will not be able to control their anger, and may even hit the child, but this is likely to cause the child's rebellious emotions, and a mother who controls her emotions, she will use the right way to let the child know that he is wrong, and will let him know clearly where he is wrong.
And, for men, how fortunate to have such a wife!
Gentle woman, she will involuntarily let men grow love, admiration, want to protect her, rather than fear her, escape her.
When a man encounters a problem, she will not make a big fuss about him, nor will she play a small temper and complain, but will think about how to solve the problem quickly, she will not think about the east and the west, nor will she limit herself to pessimism and cannot extricate herself.
Just like in "The Biography of Zhen Huan", the empress and Concubine Hua are two extreme personalities, one with a calm and sophisticated mind, and the other with extreme emotional instability.
In the face of Zhen Huan, a person with a plug-in, always attracted the emperor's heart, the empress was superficially unmoving, but she repeatedly let Zhen Huan be recruited, while Concubine Hua was too public, knowing that Zhen Huan was pregnant, but also let her kneel for several hours under the poisonous sun, not only for Zhen Huan's miscarriage, but also completely lost the emperor's only pity for her.
Of course, we are just giving an example of the importance of emotional stability in women, not that you have to play tricks in love.
Rather, it tells you that only emotionally stable women can get stable, sweet, romantic love.
In marriage, a woman's emotional stability is related to the happiness of the family, to the formation and growth of the child's personality, and to the husband's career and luck.
The more stable a woman's mood is, the larger the pattern, and the easier it is for a home to have "good feng shui"
Women's emotions are related to patterns.
The larger the pattern, the more emotionally stable the woman.
Because first, she can afford to put it down, will not indulge in the past, will not expect the future, but with her heart to do the best in the present; second, she can not be confused about big things, small things are not calculated, she will be very cautious, she will pretend to be confused, no matter what fate gives her, she can face it calmly; third, she will always maintain femininity, know the world without sophistication, experience and never be naïve, have her own ideas and opinions, will not go with the flow, and will not be attached to others.
Therefore, a family, if there is such a woman, must be able to grasp the future of this family, but also can bring good luck to this family.
No matter what happens to this family, this woman will use her tenacious will to lead the family out of the predicament.
Once saw a documentary.
A woman, whose husband died early, she relied on a flat shoulder, carried more than a hundred pounds of things a day, walked three times on a bumpy mountain road, worn out more than a hundred pairs of shoes in nineteen years, and supported three children, the eldest son and eye disease, and the two small children were twins.
Later, the twins were both admitted to key universities, because of the family's difficulties, tuition fees were not enough, the two children who went to school said to let each other go to school, and the strong mother said: You all have to go.
It can be seen that a great mother, she did not let her children drop out of school and go to work because of her family's difficult situation, but let them learn knowledge, so that they can go out of the mountains and have a better future.
Yu Qiuyu once said: If the pattern of life is large, it will not sink in the trivialities of life.
Deeply.
Life will always be as we wish, but if there is a woman with a big pattern in a family, she will certainly be able to make this family endure wind and rain without decay; it will go through hardships and not fall.
Conclusion:
A home, where prosperity lies, lies in family harmony and family health.
And, an emotionally stable hostess will definitely let this home, go out to have someone to worry about, at home the lights are amiable.
A good woman is a pillar for men and a role model for children, and a good woman will coordinate family relationships and make the family more prosperous.
If a woman, all day long with a straight face, saying this, scolding that, always pessimistic, messing around, saying words are even more hurtful, never restraining emotions, in the long run, this family will not be at peace at all times.
We always like to say that the women of Wangfu are the most endearing.
The high probability is that this woman has a gentle temperament, emotional stability, empathy, can understand men's difficulties, will educate children, know how to think differently, not mean, and be reasonable.
Such a woman, for a family, is free of many troubles and disputes, and with such a woman, men are not tired and more motivated.
Therefore, an emotionally stable woman is a good feng shui of a home.
She does not have to be beautiful as a flower, nor does she necessarily care for her family and love her family, she does not necessarily have a temperament, nor does she necessarily have a high eight buckets, she is just emotionally stable and will run the family, and the emotional mild pattern is large.
In this way, a home must prosper.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!