With the development of the commodity economy, the people in this society are becoming more and more materialistic, and when this society is more and more material, women love money more, and men still love women more.
However, this kind of love between men and women will also become more and more secular, so it is no longer so sincere when they are with women, and many men are just for fun.
Men also feel from the heart that women love money more, so they don't care so much about women, and this attitude towards feelings is not a very positive attitude.
However, there are always some men who are good men, and being with such men is also a kind of happiness for women, and women must firmly grasp it.
As a woman, you must distinguish what kind of man is a good man, and you must also distinguish what kind of man is bad in this mixed society.
If men just want to play with women, the following three manifestations are obvious.
01. Not specific
When a man and a woman are together, if the man shows that he is particularly enthusiastic about this woman and is only enthusiastic about this one woman, it shows that this man still wants to be with this woman and has never thought about other women.
But some men are not like this, these men are dating you, but the phone is still chatting with others.
Just a few years ago, it was revealed that a college teaching assistant had a girlfriend himself, but he still had some feelings with other women. After the final revelation was revealed, it was found that the university teaching assistant had a relationship with seven or eight women, and several girls were deeply affected.
Men like this who are not single-minded, just to have fun, have never thought about the feelings of girls, and are with many girls, among so many women, they have never paid their hearts, just some play.
When women are looking for an object, they must see clearly whether the other party is a more dedicated man, and when they are with each other, if this man often does not let you look at the mobile phone, there is no doubt that this man must have cattiness in his heart, so he is wary of you in his heart, and he is afraid that you will find some small secrets of your discovery.
Under normal circumstances, after two people talk about the object, the man is very willing to show his mobile phone to the other party, indicating that the man has no cat in his heart, and such a man is also worthy of women's trust.
In addition, it should be added that this man only has one mobile phone, or this man has two mobile phones, but it will let you see, some men use some less commonly used mobile phones to chat with others, such men are not very credible.
Single-minded love is a particularly beautiful relationship for a girl, and a non-exclusive relationship is a kind of hurt for girls.
Unless you're also a less exclusive woman, every woman is eager to find a more dedicated man, and every woman doesn't want men to play with.
02. Not responsible
After a man and a woman are together, if they are not responsible for this woman, it means that the man is just playing with this woman.
Remember seeing such a post on Zhihu before:
A girl posted on Zhihu that she had been with a boyfriend, and at that time she had contact with each other when she was playing games, so the two people began to appear in private, and after the two people met, they lived in the same room, and on this night, the boy did something indescribable.
After the two men had these things happened, the next day, after a meal, the boy was separated from the girl. After the separation, the girl talked to each other, but the other party ignored the girl, so the girl felt very sad and asked for help on the Internet.
If a woman encounters such a thing, especially when she first talks about the object, she encounters such a thing, then this is the most tragic thing in a woman's life, and she will leave a bad impression in her life, and even be full of fear of feelings.
So if a woman meets an irresponsible man, you'd better stay away from that man. The best way is to judge before you that this man is irresponsible, if this man is irresponsible then you don't want this man to get you, you must keep a certain distance from this kind of person, it is best that even ordinary friends do not want to do it.
Especially when girls talk about the object for the first time, they should polish their eyes. The first time you talk about the object, it is particularly important for a girl, because the first time you talk about the object, you are particularly serious, and you are also very hot-headed, and at this time you are also easy to be deceived by the other party.
In the first relationship, if you fail, then, in the future relationship or even in the marriage, you will not be particularly happy, because this failed relationship will leave you with a bad impression, will be a shadow of your life, just like your incurable childhood.
03. Disrespect
A man who just wants to play with this woman will disrespect the woman.
Just like some girls, in fact, are still relatively conservative, after being with a man, girls still want to have a problem with something after marriage, but at this time, some men do not respect this woman very much.
Some men also say that if a woman doesn't give everything to a man, then it shows that the woman doesn't like men very much, so at this time, men will morally kidnap and feel that this woman doesn't love herself, so this woman will be like this.
In fact, if a man really wants to be with this woman, he will not be so anxious, and he must think that it is best to have something happen after two people are married.
In life, there are some men who are decent gentlemen, but many women feel that such men have problems. When a woman thinks this way, then the woman's three views are problematic.
Women should be glad that you have found a man who really loves you, such a man is a decent gentleman, and there is only you in his heart, and the object of conversation with you is not just to have fun, but to be with you forever, such a man will also go to the time of marriage with you.
To find a partner is to find a man who respects you, such a man will never force you to do something you are not willing to do, and will especially cherish you and feel that you are particularly precious.
In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, women must polish their eyes, some men talk to you, just to play, and sometimes some men have been with you for a long time, but they will not be open to the outside world. Well, such a man is also an irresponsible man, to put it bluntly, such a man just wants to talk to you for a period of time in love, and will not even fall in love with you, just ambiguous.