As a daughter, can you tolerate parents robbing the rich and helping the poor for their sons?
The writer ShiYi once said: The root cause of disputes in multi-child families is not the love of brothers and sisters, but the injustice of parents.
The injustice of the parents will directly lead to the separation of the children. In particular, parents also have the courage to take their daughter's property as their own, and use these properties on their sons at will, and they also call it a return that daughters should give to their parents.
However, when parents rob the rich and help the poor, can they think about their daughter's feelings? Have you ever thought about your daughter's future? Perhaps, in the eyes of many patriarchal parents, daughters should pay for their parents and brothers.
01, the daughter earns millions in 10 years
The daughter of other people's families is the treasure of her parents, holding it in the palm of her hand for fear of melting, and holding it in her mouth for fear of melting. But Luo Xia is a typical representative of her father who does not love her mother, from childhood to adulthood, her parents say the most to her, nothing more than to help her brother well, because the younger brother can pass on the family lineage.
As a result, Luo Xia became the economic pillar of the family. Since she graduated from college, Luo Xia has begun to work hard to earn money. But most of the money she earns every month is sent back to her parents. As for the parents, it is natural to subsidize the son.
The parents of other people's families are distressed that their daughters are suffering outside; but Luo Xia's parents are eager for their daughters to bury their heads in work and earn more money for themselves to support their sons. Therefore, Luo Xia has worked outside the home for 10 years, but the number of times she has returned home is countless.
It's not that she doesn't want to go back, but every time she goes back, her parents think she has money, either to ask for 5,000 buyers of electrical furniture, or to buy things for her brother for 10,000. In short, In the eyes of her parents, Luo Xia is a moving cash cow.
Later, Luo Xia learned to be smart, although she still sent back living expenses to her parents every month, she would also leave some private money for herself. Her parents asked for money many times, and Luo Xia did not respond to any more requests.
After this, coupled with his diligent work, he was soon promoted and raised, and in just 10 years, he made millions. And this money, Luo Xia has not told her parents, because she wants to buy a house herself.
02, was snatched away by the mother's family to buy a house for his brother
However, there is no wall in this world that does not leak wind. No matter how Luo Xia hid it, her parents finally blew up that she had millions of private money. And this money has always been remembered by parents.
Ever since they learned that Luo Xia had the money, her parents tried to trick her into paying for it. When her brother buys a car, her parents ask her to pay for it; when her brother gets married, her parents ask her to pay for it. When her brother wanted to buy a house, her parents were crying and making trouble, and her family kidnapped her and she had to take money to buy a house for her brother.
Luo Xia naturally did not want to, her millions, how hard to earn, no one knows better than her. But her parents completely ignored her feelings, and only thought about her brother, and her brother's food, drink, and sleep, and her parents had to take care of it to the end.
Luo Xia's refusal made her parents' faces change. In the eyes of parents, no matter how much a daughter has a career, it is not as important as her son's marriage and family. What's more, when she worked hard to give her daughter out of college, she was nothing more than thinking of letting her daughter work and earn money and help her raise her son.
The parents were good at talking badly, but Luo Xia was still unwilling. Her parents had no choice but to kidnap her, saying that they had spent so much money to support their daughter's college, and that her daughter was now making money, but she did not return her parents at all.
The accusations of her parents were very difficult to hear, and Luo Xia felt very uncomfortable in her heart. But her parents ignored her emotions, and still said with a straight face: We still have to rely on your brother to pass on the generations, your money, do not leave your brother to buy a house and get married, do you have to save it yourself, in vain to cheapen outsiders?
03, parents hate 300,000 is too little, the daughter does not give anything
Luo Xia didn't know how to reply to her parents, because she finally understood that she was an ATM in the eyes of her parents. Her parents or brother need money, and she is willing to be the wrongdoer.
Luo Xia thought of several confessors who had been rejected by herself, and then thought of her age, but she had never talked about a relationship, and she couldn't help but feel sad for herself.
It's not that she doesn't crave love and marriage, it's not that she doesn't crave happiness, it's just that under the constant squeezing and sucking of blood from her parents, she has no way to enjoy the love that should be enjoyed at her age.
Luo Xia did not take out all her savings, but gave her parents 300,000, and this 300,000 down payment was enough for her parents to buy a good house for her brother in a small county. But if her parents and brother ask to buy a house in the provincial city, there is nothing she can do. After all, she is about to turn 30 years old, and it is time to think more about the future for herself.
But the parents who got 300,000 did not give up, because they felt that 300,000 was too little. It takes 300,000 to buy a house, 200,000 to decorate, plus a bride price and a wedding, and no 7-800,000 can't do it at all.
But this time, Luo Xia said that she would not compromise at all. She took back 300,000 bank cards, and since her parents were too few, she didn't give anything.
Today's Topic:
Do you support Luo Xia's approach?
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