To parents: education is a collision of love, the better the cooperation between parents and teachers, the more successful the children are, and they are encouraged together!

School education is important, family education is more important.

You know, parents are the lifelong teachers of children, and the influence of parents on children is far greater than that of teachers.

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Education is the most taboo

It is that parents are afraid of trouble

How many parents have said this: "Teacher, the child will be handed over to you." ”

How many parents believe that when the child reaches the age of school, education is mainly in school, and the responsibility lies mainly with the teacher.

Whenever a teacher contacts a parent and wants to discuss a child's problem with the parent, the answer is always:

"Teacher, I'm too busy to bother you with your education!"

"Teacher, you top us ten sentences in one sentence, please help me teach him."

However, parents should know:

The family is the child's first classroom, and the parent is the child's first teacher.

In addition to schooling, the vast majority of what children learn comes from their families and parents.

Every absence of parents is a delay in their children's education.

The most feared thing about education is to save trouble, and the fear of trouble in parents is definitely the child.

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No matter how good a teacher is

None of them can make up for the lack of family education

What are the main responsibilities of a teacher? It is to teach and educate people.

Teaching well and nurturing people is the teacher's mission and the teacher's responsibility.

However, no matter how good and responsible the teacher is, there are always times when they can't reach it.

In the process of growing up, children must learn two things, one is to learn the humanistic qualities needed to be a person, and the other is to learn the cultural knowledge needed to do things.

Parents are mainly responsible for their children's duty as human beings, and teachers are mainly responsible for teaching children the ability to do things.

In other words, parents are more inclined to educate people, and teachers are more focused on teaching.

Parents and teachers, the two are complementary, complementary to each other, complement each other.

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The last thing you should be lazy is your parents

The last thing you should be free-ranging is a child

Li Ka-shing said: "The greatest success in a person's career cannot make up for the failure to educate children." ”

Moreover, a child's childhood is only once, and education cannot be repeated.

If it is not well educated from an early age, it is really difficult for children to change when they grow up.

As the old saying goes: "At the beginning of man, nature is good." ”

Once the parents are absent, there will be a loophole in the child's life and personality that can no longer be filled.

The laziness that is stolen from the child today will become the deepest regret in the future.

On the road of children's education, the one who should not be lazy is the parent, and the last thing that should be freed is the child.

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When encountering problems, understand the teacher

Learn to deal with it calmly

It is difficult for teachers to treat each child like a parent – not because of the sense of responsibility, but because of the different roles and different ways of focusing.

Teachers care and care for students as much as parents, and I don't think it's necessarily a good thing. Teachers should be more rational than parents.

When children do not receive special attention and feel lost, parents should remain calm and use wisdom to do a good job of "making up the stage".

The easiest way is to communicate quietly with the teacher.

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The better parents work with the school

The more successful the education

The better parents work with the school, the more successful the education will be. I can say very responsibly that any parent who does not cooperate with the school will result in tragedy, and this has been invariably in my educational experience.

Therefore, in front of the child, parents should vigorously defend the school and the teacher - not to pretend to be a play (because the child can detect it), but to do the child's work in a sincere way of empathy.

I once read a short foreign article saying that after a class, the teacher accidentally lost a child. When the child was found, the child cried very sadly because he was frightened.

The child's mother saw this, crouched down to comfort her child, and said:

"It's all right, that sister is very nervous because she can't find you, and she's very upset, and it wasn't intentional, and now you have to kiss that sister and comfort her."

The child tiptoed up, kissed the cheek of the staff member crouching next to him, and gently told her, "Don't be afraid, you're all right." ”

I think that's how a kind, tolerant, empathetic child is taught.

Write at the end:

If you want to educate children well, you must cooperate with each other and assume your own educational responsibilities, which is the best education for children.

Achieving a child is the result of the joint efforts of teachers and parents.

There are no perfect teachers, there are no perfect parents, and we all have to work hard for our children.

It is our common goal for children to learn to do things, learn to be people, and become a better person.

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