I once read such a sentence: a woman is the feng shui of a family, and a woman can influence three generations.
At first glance it may seem like an exaggeration, but later I think so.
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Although we often say that women are like flowers, how many women can still be beautiful after marriage? Whether a woman can be glamorous or not depends a lot on her other half.
Her friend Xiao He was a classmate in college, when she was thinking about graduate school, she would never dress herself up all day like others, and some people ridiculed her for not being able to marry out like this. But she didn't think so.
Four years flew by, and everyone went their separate ways.
Later, I successively received news of everyone's marriage, and the most surprising thing to me was Xiao He.
When I saw her again, I was like a different person, and I almost didn't recognize her. She took off her heavy black glasses, her long hair was slightly curly, her demeanor was elegant, and the whole person looked so radiant.
Later, I learned that she had a husband who regarded her as a treasure.
His husband does everything in every way, and he will consider her feelings in everything he does, although many things seem to be just small details, but they are enviable.
Because the details that defeat marriage are always not noticed, the disappointment accumulated becomes despair, and finally goes to the end.
As the saying goes: near Zhu is red, near ink is black. If a man is brilliant and excellent, then his woman must not be far behind.
People who put family first and put their wives in their hearts will naturally go further in their careers.
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There is also a saying that good women want three generations, and bad women destroy three generations.
And it is. The arrival of the wife means the formation of a new family, and if the wife is virtuous and virtuous, then she can be filial to the superior, and she can also educate excellent children; on the contrary, the whole family will become a chicken feather.
Xiao Zhou is my distant cousin, and no one is surprised when it comes to her marriage.
Xiao Zhou's education is not high, and he hastily married at the right age. The man also has no ability, but is addicted to gambling and drinking.
At the beginning, the two were still able to live in harmony, but over time, family expenses became a problem, and men not only did not think of ways to make money, but they were not polite to Xiao Zhou, often scolding her.
The originally soft-spoken little girl became old in a few years, and the two often quarreled unscrupulously at home, which was also overbearing and rude to the in-laws.
In this way, a family is restless all day, and the relatives who were persuaded at the beginning have long ignored this, not because they don't want to care, but because they are cold.
Until now, their state has not changed in the slightest, and the children have turned to the age of school, but the two have always been indifferent and go their own way.
When I saw my cousin again, she became like a middle-aged woman, and it was hard to imagine that she was only in her 20s. The experiences she had experienced over the years were unimaginable, but it was clear how unhappy the marriage had been.
Home and everything is happy, wife xianfu xingguang. But how can a husband who does nothing and ignores his wife ask for the appearance of a good wife and a good mother?
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Every man should know a truth: parents determine your starting point and your wife determines your end.
Remember the saying that has been circulating: "Behind every successful man there will be a woman who pays silently." ”
I think the other way of saying it makes the difference: "Behind every glamorous woman must also stand a successful man who cares for his wife." ”
It is true that the wife is a family feng shui, but without a husband who understands love, then the woman will not become so virtuous.
Until now, I can always hear some husbands complaining and counting their wives, blaming them for why they don't dress up, and going out to eat and meet friends is not embarrassed to take them out.
And they seem to have deliberately forgotten the truth behind this.
If the family is happy and happy, the husband has a successful career outside, the children study hard, the old people in the family are cheerful, and the women have enough time to dress themselves and enrich their souls, how can such a woman not be beautiful.
Only when a man pampers his wife, the wife will be considerate of her husband and maintain a good family, which is the attitude that a good family should have.
The husband is the pillar of the family, and the wife is the façade and feng shui of the family.
Only when husband and wife support each other and make each other more excellent can the family move towards a brighter future.
Men must understand that you do not need to make much money, but you must raise the whole family, to love and care for each family; women must understand that if the man is wholeheartedly devoted to you, you must create a warm family for him.
A family of feng shui, in which women are also men, nothing more.
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