How to make boys can't forget themselves after dating, take the initiative to ask themselves again, many girls always can't understand the mystery. Sister Binbin told you that the love of the world is not for no reason, and if you want the person you love to remember you, you must use the heart anchor hint to enhance your attractiveness.
Let's start with a real case from our community:
Three months ago, a girl was introduced by a friend and dated an IT man, and the girl had a good impression of the boy. The boys were a little nervous, but they still told the girls a lot of interesting things in life. When every time the other party said something about a good smile, the girl responded happily: "It's fun! You are really funny, what amusing things will happen in the future, you must tell me about it. ”
The result? Since then, boys often ask girls to watch comedy movies, small theater dramas, and have fun twisting. The relationship developed very quickly, and now, two people are flashing marriage!
It seems very simple, in fact, the girl inadvertently planted a heart anchor in the boy's heart, so that he could not forget the girl's good, can not forget the appreciation of himself.
What is a heart anchor? Anchors, as we all know, are placed in the water to control the hull. The heart anchor is to implant a conditioned reflex in the object's subconscious, so that you can control him unconsciously.
Psychologist Pavlov did a psychological experiment: he fed the puppy its favorite food at the same time every day, but he had to ring the bell every time he fed. After repeating for a period of time, as soon as the bell rings, the puppy will automatically secrete saliva and rush to the bell shaker happily.
Here, ringtones and food rewards form a conditioned reflex. If giving good food is a reward, the ringtone is the signal of the reward, that is, the anchor that controls and attracts the other party.
The above girl's appreciation of the boy's behavior of telling jokes and the boy's satisfaction have a conditioned reflex, because every time the boy sees interesting things and funny stories, he can't help but think of the girl's praise.
In this way, the heart anchor that the girl can't forget the other party is successfully established. Therefore, learn to plant a heart anchor in the boy's heart and establish the reward reflex pattern of the two of you, your attraction will be stronger, and the boy's touch and affection will think of you more.
So how should girls plant heart anchors so that boys can't forget you?
First, seize the emotional peak of the other party and effectively set the heart anchor.
In general, it is easier to establish a heart anchor in the other person's extreme emotional situations, such as when he is very happy, angry or embarrassed.
For example, when you are dating and driving, there is an unintentional rear-end traffic accident, he will be more depressed, and he will feel faceless. If it is the other party's responsibility, it will be very angry, at this time you should not show a state of accusation and indifference.
Show tolerance and do what you can to help. For example, take out the safety sign and put it in the back of the car, dial 122 to report the crime, and so on. When the accident is resolved, you can smile at him and show that you don't care. It can be said that "safety is the most important, and human safety is more important than anything", so that the boy will feel that you understand, tolerate and care about him.
The next time he encounters such an embarrassing and dangerous scene, his mind will involuntarily come up with your smile, the words you understand, and he will not forget your reasonableness.
Second, use the senses to create some different anchors.
An easy way to do this is to give the guy a funny, liking nickname after you've dated two or three times. It can be the name of a character in a game that you play very high together, or it can be a funny and cool thing that you have experienced together. Because every time you call a name that belongs to your unique memory, it is like hearing a bell, it will touch his good memories.
If you have entered the period of ambiguity and can be intimate with each other, then be sure to add seasoning to those sweet things.
For example, the first time you kiss, you can sneak in a piece of fruit-flavored sugar that he likes to eat. For example, the taste of strawberries, people's sense of taste has a memory, and during the slow melting process, the boy will definitely remember the taste of your first kiss. In this way, when he eats strawberries in the future, he will often think of the sweet moments when you are together, which is a very prominent heart anchor.
In the process of love and interaction, you must have done something similar intentionally or unintentionally. It may not be so typical, but there are always similar ones. For example, you will give each other a nickname of love, and you will always coax the other party to call "Mighty and tall Mr. Xu". When one day you quarrel, you also call him that, maybe you can "resolve" the contradiction.
Binbinjie stressed that the more the heart anchor you set, the more attractive it is when the boy is in a strong emotional and psychological state. For example, the traffic accident scene mentioned earlier, the intimate moment of kissing, and so on. If the other person is absent-minded or the scene is too ordinary, then everything you bother to do he may not notice, and the heart anchor cannot be established.
Every love is unique and heartfelt, and everyone's heart anchor is different, so you need to explore it yourself. In the process of using the heart anchor, it is only the use of some memories to cause emotional resonance, rather than the mandatory substitution of the other party into the memory, everything to the point.
Well, the heart anchor is constantly being built. When you plant more and more heart anchors in his subconscious, more and more solid, it will be difficult for him to leave you. Because your heart anchor has been deeply burned on his heart, become an exclusive mark, become a habit, the boy will be firmly attracted to you!
Today's interactive question is to pick the options you think can be used as a heart anchor to attract boys:
A. Spray a niche brand of perfume
B. Wear red clothes
C. Share your favorite songs with him
D. Pick a rainy day for a date