Do you know? There is a process in a relationship between a man and a woman.
The relationship between men and women can basically be divided into the understanding period, the insensitive period, the good feeling period, the ambiguous period, the love period these stages, the previous Binbin sister has introduced to everyone in the understanding period how to know the hookup, how to attract men, etc., today Binbin sister is ready to tell the girlfriends about some of the methods of letting men take the initiative to date you during the no-feeling period.
What is the insensitive period, the insensible period is actually that you have known each other for a while and have a certain relationship foundation, but he is in a stage where you are superficially good but do not feel it.
But Sister Binbin wants to say a premise, there is never any way to sit back and relax once and for all, you yourself must also take the initiative when you are active, be bold when you are bold, and do not be a quail that will only pose reservedly.
The first trick to get a man to take the initiative to ask you out: let him know you exist.
Sister Binbin has said before that if you want to get a man's attention, you must often appear in front of the other party consciously or unconsciously, show good feelings for him, but don't show too closeness, let him feel your presence all the time.
For example, if a man likes One Piece, you can chase after One Piece's anime, often chat with him about the characters and the hilarious plots inside; he is an electronic controller, you can visit the electronic forum, and talk to him about some of the new electronic devices that have appeared recently. Isn't that what you see in the circle of friends, let him feel your presence, and when he has something to need or some interesting story to share, he will think of you first.
This year, the most important thing is more contact, you may think that What Binbin sister said above is a common thing between ordinary friends, not between couples, but Binbin sister told you that this kind of contact opportunity is necessary, it is very necessary, as long as a certain frequency of contact is guaranteed, donkey lips can be on the horse mouth.
The second trick to get a man to take the initiative to ask you out: contact him from time to time.
The way and frequency of contact have a certain degree of attention, and the effect of telephone WeChat text messages is also different.
For example, whenever it comes to a holiday, send him a text message greeting, you can send it like this: "This text message is sent specifically to those who do not take the initiative to say hello to me during the festival, but this fairy forgives you magnanimously, or wishes you a happy holiday." "This makes the appeal you want to be close to a joke."
There are two important points to pay attention to, one is to let people see that you are a group, one is to cause the other party's guilt, so that the attack can be attacked and retreated, even if the man is still only a little interested in you, he will take the initiative to chat with you and reply.
In addition to the holidays, you also need to find some other reason to contact him every three or five minutes. Men generally have a very good sense of direction, you can send WeChat to ask him: from what street to what road how to go. After he tells you, you can thank him.
He may ask you, "Where are you going, what are you going, why don't you look up the map," and you can tell him, "I know you have a particularly good sense of direction and a particularly strong sense of the road, so of course I have to ask you about this authority." ”
Such an answer can not only make him feel happy, but also satisfy the psychology of helping people who do not understand. Another example is the most classic example of repairing a computer, showing your helplessness and weakness in this regard, and stimulating his desire to protect and help. Take this opportunity, you can invite him to dinner or drink tea to thank him, increase the personal relationship between you, a lot of human contact, he will think more and more of you, ask you out.
The third trick to get a man to take the initiative to ask you out: keep creating a topic around him.
Creating a topic around a man is like a high serve in a badminton game, you throw a ball, you have to find a way to get the other party to catch your ball, and then let him throw the ball back to you, this is the legendary points. Like a bag of potato chips, you can keep making a conversation around it.
You can chat with him and say, "Two days ago, I ate the potato chips that you also particularly like to eat, super delicious, what brand is coming?" ”
Later you can say, "I went to the supermarket yesterday, bought a big packet of potato chips, and I'll bring it to you tomorrow." Thank you I will take some practical action ah, seriously, I want to change a notebook, you help me reference reference? ”
You can also go on to say around potato chips: "Your favorite potato chip brand sponsored a talk show, I think you are particularly suitable, I think you have a unique personality, and talking is particularly interesting, I see a person above talking to you like it..."
You see, around a potato chip, you can have three layers of topics, the focus of the topic is to seem to be nothing, arouse the curiosity of the other party, but will not put too much pressure on the other party.
There is also a vivid example around Sister Binbin, a post-90s girl in the office said this to the boy she likes: I dreamed of you two days ago, you are ringing the bell in a temple... After she said this, the boy must ask for details, and she said again: "I won't be able to say it clearly for a while and a half, I'll tell you next time I meet." In this way, in the man's heart, it planted a brand of "next meeting".
Often use the three tricks that Sister Binbin taught you to chat with men, if the boy does not take the initiative to ask you to go out, believe me, he really has no feeling for you, he is just pretending to be stupid and not ready to break through this veil, this situation should be let go.
Today's content is here, let's practice a test question: Which sentence you said will arouse the male student's interest in taking the initiative to ask you?
A. It's the weekend, you go out with me to a movie
B. Didn't you say you liked Jay Chou the most? I have two tickets here, do you want to go together?
C. Recently opened a new Western restaurant, it is said that it is particularly delicious, more than 400 per capita, let's go to eat
Write your answers in the comments section and discuss them together.