One of the things you are most afraid of in your relationship is that you are trying your best to get closer to the other party, and he is always trying to escape from you.
Someone who doesn't love you, no matter how good you are, is worthless in his eyes.
Some women did not understand and desperately corrected themselves. In fact, if a man loves you, your shortcomings are all beautiful and lovely in his eyes.
There is no right or wrong in love, the person you like may not be the same frequency as you, after paying, if you can't get feedback, forget it.
There is no need to take the good youth to make a bet that is doomed to not win, and there are more beautiful scenery ahead in life.
If in a relationship, the man is willing to take the initiative to give you these things, then you do not have to struggle and hesitate, he is actually saying "I love you" in disguise.
01 Take the initiative to explain to you the relationship with the opposite sex
In today's era, who does not have three or two friends of the opposite sex around, colleagues also have "men and women matching, work is not tired", men and women in the normal range of interaction, is not nothing.
But if a man voluntarily explains to you his relationship with the opposite sex, don't doubt that he is proving that he is still single, and you can be safe with him.
In "The Rest of Your Life Please Give More Advice", Gu Wei and Gao Hun are classmates and colleagues, and the two are known as the "Golden Boy and Jade Girl" of the department, and Gao Huan has always liked Gu Wei, and between words and demeanor, they are trying to close the relationship with Gu Wei.
However, Gu Wei and her, only the friendship between classmates and colleagues, do not want to go too deep to develop.
Gu Wei fell in love with Lin Zhi's school at first sight, and when the department was rumored that Gu Wei was the vice dean's "dragon-riding son-in-law" and had an unusual relationship with Gao Huan, he had been trying to open up the distance with Gao Huan.
When the small sick ball ball was discharged, the department held a farewell party for him. Gu Wei has always had a cleaning habit, and when eating cake, Gao Huan prepared tableware for him, and Lin Zhixue blurted out, "Dr. Gu's cleanliness habit is really..." Gu Wei had already picked up disposable tableware and ate the cake.
Gao Huan wants to share a piece of cake with Gu Wei to declare the closeness of their relationship, but Gu Wei avoids saying that he wants to eat with Qiu Qiu.
Afterwards, he explained to Lin Zhixue, "Gao Huan and I used to be classmates, now we are colleagues, and we will only be colleagues in the future." The purpose was not to be misunderstood by Lin Zhixue, but Lin Zhixue, who had a large nerve, thought that he was afraid of her spreading rumors.
If it is not because of love, how to be misunderstood, it is because it cares too much, so we don't want the other party to be confused, suffer from gain and loss, and have no sense of security.
02 Take the initiative to care for your body
It is said that men are thick lines.
But it is just that I have not met a woman I like, and once a man is careful, women will not be overwhelmed.
Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue looked for Teacher Lin who had run away from the hospital, and as a result, Lin Zhixue's stomach was painful because of the menstrual period.
And Gu Wei, a straight man, actually ran into the convenience store to buy tampons for her, and also specifically asked the cashier's little sister girl what measures to take to alleviate the pain when she came to the menstrual holiday, intimately bought a warm baby and hot drinks, and also took off her coat to keep Lin Zhixue warm.
The mother and fetus have been single for 30 years, and Gu Wei has never been able to look at other women squarely, and even deliberately keeps a distance, but when inviting Lin Zhixue to a meal, it is necessary to consider the nutritional blessing.
A man can only care for a woman when he cares a lot about her.
For example, Lin Zhixue's wrist was swollen because of practicing cello, and Gu Wei personally hung up an expert number for her but pushed that it was Xiao Du's queue.
After Lin Zhixue returned home, Gu Wei was worried that she would secretly practice the piano, so he called Ms. Li to deliberately test, heard lin zhixue's piano player, in order to avoid her from continuing to practice, he said that he needed to rent a house, and deliberately assigned her a difficult task.
Love is deep, love is deep, only men really like you, will worry about the impact that the body may cause to you. He thinks not just about the immediate, but about the health of the long-term body.
Don't say that when you are uncomfortable, the other party only knows to say "drink more hot water" or look like you didn't find it on the phone, in the end this is the difference between love and no love, it is really obvious.
03 I can't see you crying of sadness and being hurt.
Men will always have a protective desire for the woman they like, hoping to be her strong arm and give her a warm arm bend.
Lin Zhixue fled from the hospital because of his father, and later chased him to the train station, and finally couldn't help but cry. At that moment, Gu Wei was very distressed, but he didn't know what to do.
After all, it was still only Gu Wei's unilateral liking, but he finally awkwardly stretched out his arms and wrapped Lin Zhixue in his arms to soothe her emotions. He has always had a habit of cleanliness and never easily touches people, but Lin Zhixue has repeatedly broken the prohibition in front of her.
When I went to watch Lin Zhi's school performance, I found that she was finally reduced to the point of knocking the triangle iron. Knowing that she must be uncomfortable in her heart, after the performance, she was picked up by her classmates because she encountered her classmates' cello.
The man who loves you will save you from the depths of the waters. Gu Wei stepped up painfully, and the question of "who are you" was probably "I am her boyfriend" if it were not for Lin Zhixue to answer it and let Gu Wei answer it himself.
He couldn't see the girl he liked being bullied by others, and he couldn't see her lost appearance.
True love for someone, as the old saying goes, like and cough, can never be hidden.
Gao Huan saw that Gu Wei liked Lin Zhi's school, because after seeing that he liked the appearance of others, he realized that from beginning to end, he had never liked her.
Therefore, Gao Huan will blindly target Lin Zhixue, because she is jealous in her heart. Originally, the two had known each other for so long, but there was no spark. The green plum bamboo horse was not invincible, and the two had known each other for only a while.
Qiu Qiu told Gu Wei, "I know your secret, you like the school sister." ”
Not only because he often smiled at her, he also went to the ward in the middle of the night and quietly dressed her.
Love is like this, and there is no reason to talk about it. Like is like.
Some people wait for years and end up with nothing more than disappointment. Some people come suddenly, but they return with the same full load.
Emotional things are often doomed, not yours, and it is useless to force them. If you meet someone who takes the initiative for you, please know how to cherish it.
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