After 25 years, looking at the marriage of Wang Yan and Wang Zhicai, I realized that marriage is the best choice

Wang Yan is a well-known actress, and there is another identity, that is, the wife of Wang Zhicai, a hundred million real estate developer in Beijing.

When she was young, Wang Yan graduated from the Beijing Dance Academy and starred in film and television works such as "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 2", "Wulin Foreign History", and "A Lifetime of Slavery".

In 1996, Wang Yan and Wang Zhicai registered their marriage in Australia and gave birth to their son Qiu Qiu after marriage.

That year a night of popularity, marriage and children, the focus of the focus back to the family, time flies, more than twenty years, life did not leave vicissitudes on her face, her life is not as hard as you think.

On the contrary, living in the giants allows her to have enough time to know herself, arrange her own life, and she has not left a single family career behind.

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Wang Yan is a native of Qingdao, born in 1974, an ordinary family, his parents are workers, because of his talent for dance, he began to learn dance at the age of 6, and was selected to enter the Beijing Dance Academy at the age of 10. Because the family's economic situation did not allow her parents to accompany her, Wang Yan, who was only 10 years old, left home and went to Beijing alone.

After more than ten years of hard work, Wang Yan university was admitted to the Beijing Dance Academy. In The North Dance, Wang Yan lives frugally, loves to eat sheep scorpions, and chews bones that are the cleanest in the class. Because of her family's general situation and high living expenses in Beijing, she ate the fruit to eat the pear, and also ate the pear core.

However, Wang Yan did not fight, ate and drank enough, loved to sleep, and achieved good results.

After graduating from The Northern Dance, she was assigned to the Railway Literary Troupe. She has acted in "Plum Blossom Branding", played the young Pan Hong in "Heaven and Earth", and played the heroine in "Strange And Pretty Girl Hot River".

One day, the teacher said to Wang Yan, "Yan, introduce you to a boyfriend." Wang Yan, who has a gentle personality, is not easy to shirk, so he went on a blind date. This boyfriend is Wang Zhicai.

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Wang Zhicai was born in Beijing in 1962, his mother is a descendant of the Manchu Qing Dynasty, a worker in the Beijing Watch Factory, and after not willing to be mediocre, he went south to meet the widowed and rich woman Gao Lu in Hong Kong. The two fell in love at first sight, fell in love and married, and had a son. After marriage, life was constantly disputed, and the two divorced. The shares left by Gao Lu's husband became Wang Zhicai's first pot of gold.

At that time, real estate was just starting out, and Wang Zhicai went to Beijing to take a number of plots of land in the central urban area and invest in the development of real estate.

The shrewd Wang Zhicai wanted to find someone who was sincere with him and did not want his money, and to be his wife.

When he met Wang Yan, he did not enter the star hotel, but had the intention to test her, inviting her to eat pies and cabbage soup at a small shop nearby.

In the first contact, Wang Yan neither disliked his stinginess nor was he too attentive. And Wang Yan's gentleness and elegance impressed Wang Zhicai, and later, Wang Zhicai often looked for Wang Yan, and Wang Yan also reacted flatly.

Later, once, Wang Yan fell seriously ill because of acting, afraid that her parents were worried and did not dare to tell them. Alone in a foreign land, lack of care and companionship, Wang Yan sometimes especially wants to find a boyfriend, can support each other.

At this time, Wang Zhi only knew the news, sent food to accompany the bed, inseparable, one day to celebrate her recovery, and even sent a room of flowers, Wang Yan was touched by Wang Zhicai's care and romance, this is the taste of love, also father and brother. Soon the two established a relationship.

Wang Zhi is a careful man, and it is this carefulness that makes Wang Yan's life full of warmth, "He is a delicate person, much thinner than me, he is very good at taking care of people, very careful to everyone, compared to him I am a person with thick lines, no matter personality or other aspects, not as careful as him."

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After falling in love, Wang Yan put down her domestic job and went to Australia to do business with Wang Zhicai, and the rich life in Australia made Wang Yan very grateful to Wang Zhicai for the comfortable life he brought him.

The next year the two married.

But the commercial sea is up and down. In the 1997 global financial crisis, Wang Zhicai Macau Company faced bankruptcy. Wang Yan did not abandon his company to accompany Wang Zhicai. In order to reduce the pressure of life, she returned to Beijing to take over the filming of "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 2", playing the role of Qing'er, although not the main role, but zhishu Dali, the eccentric Qing'er was played by Wang Yan and gained a large number of fans.

Overnight hits, the drama continues. At first, she did not recognize Wang Yan's mother-in-law, and began to praise her daughter-in-law every time.

Wang Yan does not make bad films when filming, likes to polish her acting skills, does not like to be lively, goes home after acting, and rarely eats and plays with the cast and crew. For such a wife, Wang Zhicai is very assured, so for her career, "very supportive, want to shoot, do not shoot."

In addition to the economic crisis at home, Wang Yan filmed more dramas, usually the rhythm of one drama a year.

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In 2005, the real estate boom, Wang Zhicai tun under the Beijing center of the land, the price doubled, earning a lot of money.

Wang Yan and Wang Zhicai's mansion is located in the "Wangfu Century" with absolute geographical advantages in Beijing, going north to Ping'an Avenue, south to Chang'an Avenue, and the Forbidden City of the Forbidden City in the western district.

The interior of the mansion is also enviable, with a sky pool and a large garden on the top floor football field. The interior decoration is like the Grand Palace, with golden splendor, golden spiral staircase, and handrails are exquisitely carved. Shining golden in the sun.

At the end of 2005, Wang Yan became pregnant. At that time, the two had no plans to have children, and both were too busy. After learning of the pregnancy, Wang Yan was the first to tell her husband with a joyful mood. Later, Wang Yan said, "This is the most dazzling moment of my life" and "I am very proud".

The husband was surprised at first, but then he was extremely excited and a little flustered. Because Wang Yan liked to watch the World Cup and liked Zidane, his son's nickname was Qiu Qiu.

At that time, Wang Yan was a caesarean section, when the child was taken out and cried, she looked at the child with a weak face, her eyes were hot, tears swirled in the eye sockets, and the tears were held back, and later, she said, she wanted to make a good impression on the child's first glance.

Watching the birth of the child, the child's father did not appear until she was stitched up and pushed out of the operating room, but still did not find. Later, I learned that Wang Zhicai was too excited, anxious to see the child, watched the nurse give him a bath and swim, and forgot Wang Yan.

On this matter, Wang Yan could understand Wang Zhicai's mood of having a son in middle age.

After being discharged from the hospital, Wang Yan suffered from postpartum depression. I often lose my temper, and sometimes my husband comes home from work and sees his son who is sleeping, and he can't wait to hug him. At this time, Wang Yan would yell, "Put down the child, you can't move him." ”

At this time, Wang Zhicai would always put down the child, say "look at your mother this tigress", and leave sadly. Wang Yan, the elder of Wang Zhicai, was more tolerant of Wang Yan at this time, never confronting Wang Yan head-on, but caring more, picking up various festivals to send gifts to please Wang Yan.

As you learn more and more, Wang Yan said, "You will find that you will be very similar to him, although there is a big difference in occupation and age, but in essence things are very similar." ”

Wang Zhi is a Pisces, very careful, good at creating romance, he once wrote a letter to Wang Yan, if you want to spend a good life, you want two people to combine, because half the earth will not turn, so every adult, an important task is to find their own matching other half, ten years have passed, I would like to say that I have loved my wife.

Wang Yan is an Aquarius, she herself said that she belongs to a relatively weak, Wang Zhicai is more passionate, for the feelings of the two, Wang Yan said that she hopes to "hold the hand of the son, and the son with the old", she prefers to be with her for a long time, and is very envious of the golden marriage.

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Speaking of Wang Yan's own children, I have to say her stepson. Wang Shuo, the son of Wang Zhicai and Gao Lu, and Wang Xiaofei, Wang Ke, and Wang Yu are known as the four young people in the capital, the good friend of Fang Zuming, and the ex-boyfriend of Zhou Xun. Bubble stars, make trouble, dare to be bold, not bad money.

In 2010, he collided with Wang Ke's two vehicles in Wangfujing, Beijing, and his weapons were facing each other. A year later, he was arrested at home for drug involvement.

There is such a Chaos Demon King in the family, can he get by? And Wang Yan is her little mother, the difference between the two is 8 years old, this relationship, so that Wang Shuo is often ridiculed.

This also made Wang Yan, who had just had her own child, feel worried. She also began to worry about whether her ball would also become a person like Wang Shuo in such a rich environment.

This year, she focused on all her home, immersed herself in the study of children's education, educational psychology, and used family conditions to visit various experts and scholars.

With the growth of The Ball ball, theory and practice, she has made small achievements in children's education, and even published the book "Perfect Mother".

Through study, she understood that although Wang Shuo had given enough materials and money since he was a child, because his parents were divorced and his father was busy at work, he could not take care of him, and he was lacking in family affection. From the perspective of his friends, Wang Yan gave him space and care, helped resolve the contradiction with his father, and let Wang Shuo feel the warmth of the family and be recognized by Wang Yan.

When Qiu Qiu was about five years old, 7 nannies circled around every day, pocket money was 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, and the nanny at home played games, all of which hid tens of thousands of dollars, and whoever found it belonged to whom! He also claimed to be the little emperor of the family.

The ball showed signs of badness. Wang Yan wanted to make him suffer a little and put him in the countryside for training.

At first, Wang Yan was scolded by the pig's head, but in the later stages of the activity, Qiu Qiu gradually understood things, helped others find his mother, and showed a kind background.

Wang Yan is very strict with the ball, and the ball has slowly become sensible and business-minded. In ice hockey, good physique, momentum, like a little wolf. Watch the tablet at home and follow the rules. The school organized a donation campaign, and he showed a unique business acumen.

These Wang Zhicai looked in his eyes and admired Wang Yan very much, and he was also very grateful.

In this family, at first Wang Yan didn't care about anything, and Wang Zhicai gave Wang Yan enough space for freedom. "Big things and small things are all in his hands, I feel like I am not suitable to do these things, that is, after having children, I slowly learn how to take care of my family, learn how to take responsibility for a family, before I was too free, too unrestrained, do not think about anything, children really gave me a new life start." 」

Slowly, Wang Yan has an opinion on life, and can cope with things at home, such as her mother-in-law is older and does not like to check, Wang Yan will be like a child, gentle persistence, not blindly coaxing. She has regarded her mother-in-law as a family, which is more of a heartache and a direct expression.

Wang Yan's life at home is actually short among parents, she said that she rarely tells her husband about her troubles, and her lover rarely confides in her troubles. The solution to the problem is to think for herself, and many times, she prefers to share happy things with her lover.

"On the one hand he was too busy. He is a very responsible man, always feel that as a man, I should let me and my children live a rich life, he has his sense of responsibility and self-motivation. Seeing that he was so busy, he couldn't bear to add to the chaos. He does real estate, I am an actor, interlaced like a mountain, some things he does not understand. ”

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In 2010, Wang Yan, who was preparing to enjoy leisure time, received the news that Wang Zhicai was involved in a gambling game and owed 69 million yuan in debt.

Although the family has trillions, 69 million yuan is not a small amount, Wang Yan was physically and mentally exhausted during that time, so in "Ace to Ace", the emotions are out of control, the true feelings are revealed, the work is hard, and it is difficult to say a word.

Paying for the family for twenty years, the child grows up and understands things, experiences the child's adolescence, Wang Yan knows how to let go, and she also has time to develop her own career and grow up with her children.

"Before giving birth to a baby, I didn't have much ambition, nor did I want to pursue filming as a lifelong career, so I felt that filming was a film, and I didn't want to fight for anything." But now the mentality has completely changed. After having a baby, I always felt that I had to work hard and set a good example for my baby. I often think privately that I have to make my baby proud of having a wonderful mother when she grows up. In this way, I feel that there is suddenly a pursuit, and the work has momentum. Wang Yan said.

The recently released "Allure and Qing Huan", Wang Yan played Nanmen Rong, 20 years later and Zhong Hanliang cooperated again, netizens said that the years have not erased her temperament, gentle and good voice, super good mental state, very stunning.

"Shang Food" and many other popular TV series, although it is impossible to compete with young flowers for the protagonist, but the interpretation of supporting roles and the proportion of pinching are also highlighting their skills, winning the pursuit of a vote of fans.

Recently, in the scene of "Hao Yi Line", white sports tops, slim and slender figure, refreshing and free.

In the short video of "Trend", Wang Yan is in the flow of light and shadow, the style is still the same, from the bottom of the eyes to the soul, it is timeless tenderness.

Wang Yan shared a group of recently filmed blockbusters on social platforms, with a graceful posture, no trace of extra flesh around her waist, and Wang Yan's exquisite side face, which made her less gentle and more cold and noble.

Along the way, Wang Yan said, "Some people choose their careers first, some people choose their families first, some people give up their careers after marriage, I am the beginning of the choice of families, children, and now that the children are older, I want to choose a career and grow up with my children." ”

Once she was Bai Feifei, a poppy that bloomed in the desert, beautiful and incomprehensible; once she was Qinggege, Lan Xin hui, gentle and generous; now she is herself, with poetry books in her belly, independent and assertive, and living for herself!

Everything is just right, choose family or career first, what does it matter?!