When my wife was addicted, anyone could touch her, but I didn't dislike her until I met my son's teacher

01.

XiaoZhu is a woman with a hard life, who has not had a companion for nearly 30 years.

The reason why she has not been able to marry is that everyone in the village knows that she is a crazy woman, and it is very frightening to start a madness, and no one dares to approach her.

Wang Bin had also heard this from the introducer, but he didn't quite believe it.

Because the thin beads he had seen were a cute woman with a thin body, fair skin, and two red halos on her face.

Moreover, unlike other women, Xiaozhu would dislike him as a mute, but curiously learn sign language with him, very gentle.

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The first time they met, he was impressed with her.

There was no way he could associate such a woman with a madman, but the introducer was very good friends with him, and he would never deceive him with such a thing.

But it didn't matter, he thought he was a mute anyway, and as long as she didn't care, he was willing to marry her.

Fortunately, Xiaozhu also liked him, although the first time they met, they were all communicating on paper, but she could feel that he was a good person, polite, and did not dislike her as a madman.

Probably because of the sympathy of the two bitter people, Xiao Zhu and Wang Bin quickly came together.

02.

In fact, Xiaozhu really has a crazy disease, and her crazy disease is most likely from her mother.

Xu was the reason why her father had left early and dropped her oil bottle, and her mother had disliked her since she was born.

In the memory, her mother hated her, usually she sat on the bed no matter how much she cried, her mother was sitting on the side with her ears plugged, that is, sometimes when she slept at night, she put her hand on her mother, and her mother pushed her far away, as if she was something dirty.

This made the little one, once very eager for her mother's warmth, once insecure.

It's just this warmth, she never got.

When I was 5 years old, a cool late night, Xiaozhu woke up from the embarrassing urine and found that her mother did not sleep next to her, and her heart was a little panicked.

She looked around and shouted a few times without getting a response, so she immediately got up and went to find her mother.

But in the courtyard, she saw her mother standing on the well, looking up at the sky in a daze, and if she took another step, she would fall.

She was so scared that she cried and cried and begged her mother not to stand there, begged her mother to hug her, and saved her mother from abandoning her.

However, her mother did not look back from beginning to end, and jumped down in front of her.

Frightened, she ran to the well, lying on the edge of the well and frantically calling out to her mother, crying madly, crying until her voice was hoarse, and finally fainted directly.

It wasn't until she woke up again that she found herself lying on her grandmother's bed.

Since that time, she's gone crazy.

Because of this disease, she was disliked by everyone and had no friends.

Fortunately, Wang Bin did not hate her.

03.

The first time Xiaozhu fell ill in front of Wang Bin was six months after they were married.

It was the autumn harvest, there was a lot of work in the field, and they had to work every day until the evening to come home.

And that night, Xiao zhu just wanted to go back to cook for Wang Bin earlier, so he went home first.

Unfortunately, on her way home, she met a bastard from the village next door.

The saw that she looked good, and wanted to tease her, grabbing her calloused hands, saying some frivolous words in her mouth, and saying that as long as she followed him, she would never let her suffer in the future.

The flirted recklessly, his hands still touching her in an unknown depth, and he constantly insulted her with words and actions, forcing her to have a nervous breakdown.

At that moment, she threw away the like crazy, crying and shouting and running around asking her mother to hold her, and she began to undress while running, and she shouted bitterly, like a child calling for her mother.

Her cries attracted the onlookers of the villagers, who watched her naked and begged for hugs everywhere, thinking that she seemed to be addicted, but everyone also looked at her coldly and was afraid, but none of them wanted to reach out and put on a shame coat for her.

Fortunately, Wang Bin, who had returned from the field, saw this scene and quickly took off his clothes and rushed up to cover her, holding her deadly until she calmed down.

After the family calmed her down, he called a doctor, explained her symptoms to the doctor half-by-analogy, and learned from the doctor that she was stress psychosis and would become ill if she was strongly stimulated.

But he did not feel that she was dirty, but remembered the childhood things she and he said, and couldn't help but feel sorry for her even more, wanting to treat her better and make up for the lack of love she had been missing over the years.

He felt that only by treating her better could she remember less of the past and have fewer illnesses.

04.

Under wang bin's care, Xiaozhu almost never fell ill again.

She also bore him a son named Ball Ball.

Balls were born healthy and cute, and they rejoiced and were glad that their children would not have to live as unsound as they did.

Wang Bin couldn't speak, but he still tried to open his mouth and tease the child.

However, God refused to take care of them after all.

Qiu Qiu has not liked to talk or laugh since he was born, and no matter how they tease him, he is an expressionless face, and even when he is two years old, he will not call people.

This made Wang Bin very worried, afraid that Qiu Qiu would have some strange disease, and he would be blindsided like him.

Therefore, he specially took out most of his life savings and went to the provincial city with fine beads and balls to see a doctor.

Unfortunately, after a round of examinations, the doctor told them that the ball was probably autistic.

They don't know what autism is, so they are scared and ask the doctor what to do? They also cried and grabbed the doctor's hand, asking the doctor to save their children, and never let the children be laughed at like them for a lifetime.

The doctor saw that they were so pitiful, and had to comfort them, saying that as long as they patiently cooperated with the treatment and accompanied the child more, it was possible to cure.

They felt a glimmer of hope and went home with the ball.

05.

Wang Bin must cure the disease of the ball.

But such a huge medical expense is simply fatal to a farming family like Wang Bin and Xiao Zhu.

The money they earn from selling crops every year is not enough for them to pay for medicine.

There was no way, Wang Bin could only go out to find a higher-paying job to treat Qiu Qiu and maintain his life, but he was a mute, a lot of work could not be done, and some of the salaries were too low to be suitable for him.

It was the village chief who saw Wang Bin worried like this, so he introduced him to a job as a masseuse, although this job was not decent enough in the eyes of the villagers, but it was the key to help him solve the current dilemma.

Xiao Zhu stayed at home to take care of the children, and took a look at the land by the way.

Although Qiu Qiu still didn't like to communicate with people very much, every time he was willing to respond, Wang Bin and Xiao Zhu were satisfied.

06.

As the days passed, it was time for Qiuqiu to go to school.

There is no doubt that Qiu Qiu is not suitable for school life, he does not talk to his classmates, and he always stays in the corner by himself.

Sometimes I don't say anything, I just grab it.

The classmates did not like him because of this, and always took advantage of the fact that the teacher was not bullying him, and the only way he resisted was to cry, and the sound of crying was loud.

The teacher saw him like this, felt that he was influencing other children's classes, and thought of letting him quit school to go to a special school.

This is undoubtedly to give Wang Bin a dull stick, he so hard to send the ball to the ordinary school, is to hope that the ball can get better as soon as possible, if you let the ball go to that kind of special school, wouldn't it make the ball worse.

He was really afraid, so he wanted to let the ball stay, and almost knelt down for the teacher.

It was Xiao Zhu who advised him that anyway, the ball would only aggravate his condition here, and he would always be bullied, which was different from when they were ridiculed, and it would only make the ball feel worse.

Instead of this, it is better to change the environment of the ball, perhaps this will help the disease of the ball.

He thought about it and felt that there was no better way, so it was better to let the ball try, after all, the teachers in the special school were more professional and could teach the ball better.

Unexpectedly, after The Ball went to the special school, the mood seemed to relax, and sometimes when he returned home, he would smile at them.

It was also the teachers of the special school who told them that they could find something that the ball was interested in and or some sensory training to guide the ball and learn to communicate with him in depth.

07.

Wang Bin and Xiao Zhu listened to the teacher's words.

On that day, after reviewing the hospital in the city with the ball ball, they met a piano shop on the road, and the melodious sound of the boss immediately attracted the attention of the ball.

He stopped in front of the piano shop and refused to go for half a day.

The first time Wang Bin saw him look at the piano behind the glass door with such obsessive eyes, he was a little excited and wanted to buy a ball for the ball.

But the piano is so expensive that it is simply not something that an ordinary family like them can afford.

However, Wang Bin is easy-going and gentle in his daily life, and he refuses to give in to the fine beads and balls.

He riveted enough to make money, he did the work in the store, even the cleaning work was next, and the fine pearl daily meals and a steamed bun, finally saved enough money, the cheapest piano in the store to the ball ball moved to the house.

The ball stroked the piano, sat down on the chair, pressed the white key one by one, and smiled for the first time.

Wang Bin looked at Qiu Qiu's smile and felt that all this hard work was worth it.

However, the ball has no teacher, and the things that pop up at the beginning are not at all the same as the piano shop owner, and because he is an autistic child, when he encounters this situation, he is very grumpy, holding his head and crying madly at the piano.

Wang Bin and Xiao Zhu had only read books for a few years, where would they use such a thing as a piano, and in desperation, they could only ask the piano shop owner to teach ball ball.

The boss saw that Wang Bin was a mute, but he worked so hard for the child, and felt that such a fatherly love was very touched, so he agreed to teach the ball and play the piano for free.

But Qiu Qiu was afraid of strangers and was reluctant to teach him.

They were also helpless, and finally they could only let Xiaozhu learn from his boss every day, and then go home to teach the ball.

Xiaozhu learned piano with her boss during the day, and when she returned home at night, she taught the ball to recognize the keys over and over again, and played with the ball over and over again.

Slowly, Qiu Qiu became familiar with the keys and scores and began to practice his own music.

Children with autism are born slow to learn things, but they have enough patience, and the ball is willing to practice over and over again, and it has gradually become more effective.

Later, Qiu Qiu would even pull Wang Bin and Xiao Zhu to listen to his songs, and exchange feelings about the songs with them.

Wang Bin and Xiao Zhu's years of hard work finally saw hope.

08.

Later, Qiu Qiu began to be able to go to school normally.

He goes to school during the day and at night at home, practicing the piano himself or going to the piano shop teacher to study.

He also understood things, knowing that Wang Bin did not have the ability to invite him to a good piano teacher, so he worked hard to study it himself.

After a long period of persistence, Qiu Qiu was finally admitted to the Conservatory of Music.

When Wang Bin saw the admission letter, his eyes were red, and Xiaozhu was even more overjoyed, holding the ball and crying uncontrollably.

Yes, even though life is hard and difficult.

Even if one of them is dumb and the other is crazy, they can complete their dreams of themselves and the ball through unremitting efforts.

Now, their children can finally live a normal life.

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