In 2014, when Qingge Ge Wang Yan took his son to Guizhou to experience life, the ball fell to Wang Yan several times, and also called Wang Yan stingy: the pocket money mother only gave 1,000 yuan at a time, and the father gave 20,000-30,000 at a time! In the end, Wang Yan ruthlessly "left" his son and secretly left. Unexpectedly, this decision has made a big change in the ball!
During the filming of "Baby, I'm Sorry", Wang Yan came to Guizhou with her son Qiuqiu, and before coming, Wang Yan asked her son: "What is Guizhou like in your eyes?" ”
Qiu Qiu said happily: "Guizhou is definitely very rich." Wang Yan asked his son why he said this, and his son replied, "Because Guizhou has a noble word!" ”
Unexpectedly, soon after, Guizhou subverted the perception of the ball.
It is inconvenient to go out, and it is a long way to go out, from day to dark, before walking to the farmhouse to stay.
Qiu Qiu found that his real Guizhou was completely different from what he thought, the iPad was confiscated, and he began to be grumpy, even saying that his mother was a pig's head.
When she heard her mother say that she was going to school tomorrow, she was even more angry. In his opinion, it was not easy for him to come to this place, and it would be very painful to go to school again.
Wang Yan looked at his son so unreasonable, always regarded himself as a little emperor, felt that everyone should listen to his own words, and did not have great respect for his mother.
So he decided to take advantage of his son's lack of attention and secretly left.
Qiu Qiu woke up in the morning to find that her mother was missing, and she was very angry, but she had no choice but to follow the little girl to school.
Along the way, Qiu Qiu made trouble while telling the little girl that he was specially taken care of at home. Going out in a luxury car, there are 7 people in the company who serve him specifically...
This is really the first time that The ball has suffered like this, the mother is a star, and the father is a rich boss.
When he saw that his mother was not around, he began to complain about the photographer.
When I got to school, I fell asleep on my stomach on the table.
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Just when many people think that the ball may not be able to stick to it, what they did not expect was that the ball slowly accepted the life of cutting pig grass with the little girl and doing farm work.
Now, looking at Wang Yan's son, he has become a "child of someone else's family" like a changed person, and he has completely lost the image of the little bully king.
When this documentary was broadcast, many people were questioning Wang Yan's educational methods, how to raise children into such a rebellious and market servant image?
At that time, I was really worried about her, after all, in our minds, the image of Qinggege has always been perfect. I didn't expect that the son who was educated would be like this.
Fortunately, later through education, Wang Yan's parenting method did not turn over again.
1, can not spoil the child too much.
In the show, the performance of the ball at the beginning of the game, at first glance, is that the child is spoiled at home, so he dares to shout at his mother and is so disrespectful to his mother.
Wang Yan is also aware of her son's problems, so she took the ball to participate in the filming of the activity of "Baby, Sorry", and it is precisely because of this activity that the ball learned to understand others in the labor.
We love children, but we can't spoil children without boundaries, otherwise we will only spoil children.
2, should be a good example for children.
It is said that the child is a copy of the parents, the impact of family education on the child is very large, what the child looks like, depends on how the parents do.
If the husband and wife are affectionate, they will also give the child a good example. Therefore, in marriage, dad should respect mom more, dad loves mom, is the best education for children.
3. Be a friend to your child.
Now Wang Yan talks about the relationship with the child, the two are like friends, which is very good.
We must maintain a good parent-child relationship with our children, and at the same time, we should let our children know that their parents have a bottom line, and that things that touch the bottom line principle are wrong, and that they are wrong and bear the consequences for their actions.
There is no fixed method for educating children, everyone has their own method, and the one that suits them is the best. Our aim is not to teach the child to be a dogmatic, timid person, but to raise the child little by little into a good person!
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