"How can you be lazy like this, preferring to starve to death rather than work?"
"He's only 23 years old, but alas, he's the best-looking boy in the family!"
"O iniquity! Parents have been accustomed to it since childhood, and ten fingers do not stain the spring water. When his parents went, he followed. ”
In 2009, when the snow was falling in Luoshan Mountain, Henan Province, and the cold was overwhelming, the villagers of Zhutang Township were talking around a person, sighing, and feeling the departure of the deceased.
The man's name was Yang Suo, and he starved to death at home at the age of 23, which caused a huge sensation in the village and alarmed the reporters of the TV station to interview him.
Yang Lock
What is puzzling is that in today's peaceful and prosperous world, when the country is rich and the people are strong and the economy is prosperous, as long as there are hands and feet, they can eat a mouthful of rice. And Yang Suo was in the young and powerful young adulthood, how could he starve to death at home?
"Hey, he was lazy!" In the face of the reporter's interview, cousin Yang Deyu sighed.
The words horrified everyone present. It has been heard that "death from overwork" can lead to sudden death by severe overdraft of the body. But what is the meaning of "lazy death"? What kind of lazy life did Yang Suo experience?
The "Little Emperor" of the Yang Family
In 1986, accompanied by a lively cheer, the Yang family in Zhutang Township, Xinyang City, Henan Province, gave birth to a beautiful baby boy.
"Call Yang Suo, we old two will lock him tightly around him and never be separated!" Hearing the good news, Father Yang smiled and closed his mouth, and he was so excited that he couldn't sleep for several days.
After the elders of the clan heard about it, they were overjoyed, and specially spent a lot of money to create a long-life lock to send to Yang Suo, hoping that he would live a long life and live a hundred years, and he would eat and drink for a lifetime without worry and worry-free.
Unexpectedly, this lock could not lock Yang Suo's happiness and happiness after all, and even his life could not be locked.
As the only seedling in the family, coupled with the fact that his parents have old children, Yang Suo has undoubtedly become the heart and liver treasure of his parents and is regarded as a treasure.
The Yang family has been farming for generations, and the family conditions are not good, but the parents have favored Yang Suo as a little emperor and have done everything to create the most superior and comfortable life for him.
No matter how busy the family's farm work is, there will definitely be one person left to take special care of Yang Suo, treat him as a little young master, eat and drink Lhasa, and even walk and close the door must be soft and gentle, for fear of alarming this treasure.
Tough toddler experience
"Oh, baby, slow down, don't fall, Mom hurts!"
On a breezy evening, the villagers gathered together to nag and talk.
Children chase and play in the open space, occasionally fall to the ground, immediately get up, pat their knees, and continue to laugh and run.
However, there is a mother and son who are incompatible.
Yang Suo, who was four years old, trembled and learned to walk on the flat ground, and the Yang mother next to her opened her arms, afraid that her son would bump and touch, and kept chanting: "Baby, slow down!" ”
"Big sister, how old are your children, and why can't they walk?" A middle-aged woman asked incomprehensibly.
"Four years old, he is my lifeblood, I am afraid he will walk and fall." While answering, Yang Mu stared at her son nervously, unwilling to leave for a moment.
Snapping, Xiao Yang locked his feet and slipped, stumbled to the ground, and cried loudly. Yang Mu hurriedly picked up her son, and blamed herself while coaxing: "Suo'er doesn't cry, it's all bad mothers..."
Since then, Yang Suo seems to have grown up on his parents, never left his parents' arms, and his feet have never touched the ground.
Whenever the villagers kindly persuaded: "When the child is older, it is time for him to learn to walk, and he cannot hold it all the time." ”
Yang Suo's parents always took it as a sidekick, but they did not say angrily: "My baby is not the same as other children, he is the hope of our whole family." Can't walk what's wrong, we're happy to hold him! ”
The days of not being able to walk lasted for another two or three years, and by the time Yang Suo was six or seven years old, his weight had reached more than fifty pounds. Every day he snuggled into his parents' arms and watched his peers running and playing.
Occasionally, he would ask curiously, "Mommy and Daddy, the other children are running and jumping, why can't I get off the ground and walk?" ”
Mother Yang smiled, hugged her son in her arms, and said softly: "You see them, they often fall, how painful!" Lock in mom's arms, very safe! ”
However, the physical strength of the elderly parents obviously could not keep up with the rate of Yang Suo's weight gain. Soon, Yang Suo's parents were struggling more and more to hold their sons, and they were breathing heavily when they walked.
Therefore, Yang's father had a sudden idea, he found a large basket and began to carry his son with a flat shoulder.
Whenever Yang Suo went out, the people in the village would stop to watch and talk about it. It wasn't until Yang Suo was eight years old and his parents could no longer pick it up that Yang Suo learned to walk.
Eat storm
After the problem of walking is solved, the problem of eating also comes. As the "little emperor" in the family, Yang Suo never had to eat with his hands, but was fed by his parents one bite at a time.
The conditions at home are backward, and Yang Suo's parents are full of soup and water, drinking porridge with pickles. But for the baby son, they prepared the best food alone.
Yang Suo ate meat all the time, did not touch the green vegetables, and developed an extremely picky eating habit.
Once, Father Yang took Yang Suo to a banquet in the village. When Yang Suo saw that there was no food he liked on the table, he cried loudly and rolled at his father: "I don't want to eat these, I want to eat chicken legs!" ”
When Father Yang saw the situation, not only did he not get angry, but he left the table in front of all the guests and rode his bicycle to the town to buy chicken legs.
When Yang Suo saw the roasted chicken leg, he put away his tears and smiled happily.
However, the next scene stunned all the guests present. Father Yang held the chicken leg in one hand, and the other hand slowly tore it into a thin strip and fed it to his son's mouth, and from time to time he had to wipe the residue from the corner of his mouth for his son.
The onlookers looked at this scene of deep affection between father and son, their jaws were about to fall to the ground, and they couldn't help but say: "He's so old, why don't you let him eat himself!" ”
"It's all right! I was very happy to watch the child eat so deliciously. Father Yang said with a smile.
In this way, when Yang Suo was 10 years old, when his peers could eat by themselves, and even helped his parents clean up the dishes, he was still being chased by his parents to feed.
Under the excessive doting of his parents, Yang Suo developed a selfish and arrogant personality, only liked to eat alone, and never knew what "sharing" was.
Once, Yang's father bought his son two fragrant lard buns. Then, Yang Suo played with his friends while holding a lard bun.
The child next to him had long been salivating over the lard bun and wanted to take a bite, but because of Yang Suo's wayward personality, he did not dare to ask for it.
After a while, Yang Suo got tired of eating and casually threw a lard bun on the ground. The little partner saw the situation and hurriedly stopped: "Yang Suo, don't waste it, can another lard bun be given to us to eat!" ”
Lard buns
Hearing the pleas of his friends, Yang Suo did not have the slightest sympathy, threw the remaining lard buns on the ground with force, and even lifted his feet and stepped on them twice.
The friends stomped their feet in anger and said, "Yang Suo, you waste food, we don't play with you!" ”
"If you don't play, don't play, who is rare!" Yang Suo angrily skimmed his lips, turned his head and flew away.
Confused parents
"I am Yang Delong, the reincarnation of a true dragon!" Only to see a big fart child shouting in the class, his eyes are blind to everything, and he is the only one.
"Yang Delong" is another name given to him by Yang Suo, who hopes to be as powerful as a "dragon".
After attending elementary school, Yang Suo had long been arrogant and indulged by his parents. In front of his peers, Yang Suo always regarded himself as high, thinking that others were shorter than himself and had to let himself go in everything.
Because he was used to being served by his parents, Yang Suo was too lazy to do everything, including studying and writing homework. Over time, Yang Suo's grades were always crane tails, and he became a latecomer in the class.
In order to encourage Yang Suo to study well, the teacher patiently encouraged him over and over again: "Yang Suo, people's brains are like a machine, if they don't move often, they will rust." Your brain is very smart, you have to use your brain often. Hands and feet must also move, sharp point. ”
Who admitted that Yang Suo not only did not take the teacher's advice to heart, but went home to complain to his parents.
The Yang family's parents are also unclear people, unanimously believing that their son has been bullied, so they rushed to the school to find the teacher's theory: "My son is very smart, how about not writing homework, he listened to it and remembered it!" ”
The teacher helplessly opened Yang Suo's bag, poured out all the snacks inside, sighed, and said: "The school can't bring snacks, and then he has snacks in his bag, books are not complete, how to study well!" ”
"What's wrong with eating something, my baby is hungry when she is studying, do you want to continue learning with an empty stomach?" The Yang family's parents obviously did not take the teacher's admonition in their eyes, but desperately defended their son.
After the teacher listened, he was speechless for an instant, unwilling to play the piano to the cow again. Since then, as long as Yang Suo has not run into a particularly serious disaster, the teacher has never looked for Yang Suo's parents alone.
In addition, the teacher also arranged for Yang Suo to sit alone and do whatever he did in class.
After graduating from primary school, Yang Suo felt bored reading and desperately lost his temper with his parents. The parents, who have always been obedient, gladly agreed and went through the procedures for their son to withdraw from secondary school.
Since then, Yang Suo has become a complete "otaku", staying at home all day long, stretching out his hands and eating to open his mouth, never doing housework, and practicing "laziness" to the extreme.
Both parents died
In 1999, Yang Suo's father suffered from liver cancer and unfortunately passed away, and Yang Suo's good days came to an end.
On the day of his father's burial, Yang Suo changed his previous brutal and willful nature, and cried out in pain.
Relatives and friends thought that Yang Suo would "turn back the prodigal son" and grow up overnight. Unexpectedly, all this is an illusion.
Within a few days, Yang Suo returned to his usual appearance as a "young master" and continued to live a life of being served by his mother.
Yang Suo went home
The villagers kindly persuaded Yang Mother: "His father is gone, you should teach Yang Suo the most basic life skills, let him take on the responsibility of supporting the family." ”
Mother Yang shook her head disapprovingly and said, "The child has no father, he is already very pitiful, and I hurt him even more!" ”
In this way, the burden of the family all fell on Yang Mu. One day, Yang Mu, who had become ill from overwork, collapsed in the field and was sent home by the villagers.
A tired Yang mother had to entrust her son: "Lock, can you go to the field to see?" ”
"If I don't go, I'll farm!" Yang Suo resolutely refused. Yang's mother saw that her son was so desperate, and she couldn't help but scold.
Who would have thought that Yang Suo, who had a glass heart, actually gave a good beating to the old mother on the hospital bed, and scolded and grinned in his mouth.
The tomb of Yang Suo's parents
This blow shattered all of Mother Yang's expectations for her son, and completely woke up Mother Yang.
Soon, when Yang Mu was washing clothes at the head of the village, her eyes were blackened and she was directly planted in the river and died on the spot.
Since then, Yang Suo has completely changed from a "rural young master" who does not know the hardships of the world and does not understand the hardships of his parents to a "lonely man" without a father or a mother.
The end of laziness – death
The first to find Yang Suo's body was his cousin, named Yang Deyu, who was a contract foreman with a well-to-do family.
Yang Suo had a total of eight cousins, all of whom were not very good-looking. But Yang Suo, who has been pampered since childhood, is the most handsome and the most unproductive.
After the death of his parents one after another, Yang Suo did not wake up, but carried out "laziness" to the end.
He sold all the valuables in his home in exchange for bread, biscuits, potato chips and other out-of-the-box food.
Day after day, year after year, Yang Suo sat at home eating mountain air, and there was no longer any economic and food source. In order to survive, Yang Suo went door to door in the village to beg for food.
Yang Suo begging outside
When the villagers saw that Yang Suo's parents were dead and lonely, they would also send him some rice noodle grain and chicken, duck and fish meat.
But lazy Yang Suo only eats ready-made things, watches fresh food spoil, and is unwilling to deal with it.
Cousin Yang Deyu saw that Yang Suo's life was so depressed, and his heart could not bear it, so he found a job on the construction site for him.
However, Yang Suo felt that the construction site was too hot, and took advantage of the lunch break to slip away, and the cousin was angry enough.
Cousin Yang Deyu
Then, the villagers worked together to find a job in a restaurant for Yang Suo. But Yang Suo desperately looked for opportunities to be lazy, and often hid in the kitchen to eat the chicken legs prepared by the kitchen for guests, so angry that the manager immediately fired him.
The last time, Yang Deyu found a spare security job for Yang Suo, and thought that this time he would be able to settle down and live honestly. But within two days, Yang Suo disappeared without a trace.
After that, Yang Suo completely "locked" himself at home, did not change clothes, did not take a bath, and did not even bother to go to the toilet, directly solving the problem on the spot.
When you are hungry, you lie down and sleep. When he was too hungry to do so, he picked up food that others had thrown away to fill his hunger.
In this way, the young man who was once energetic and white and pure was completely reduced to a lazy man with dirty long hair and black body.
The starving Yang Suo
In 2009, on the eve of the Spring Festival, his cousin Yang Deyu came to Yang Suo's house with a number of New Year goods to prepare for him to have a good year.
Pushing the door, 23-year-old Yang Suo had already died of exhaustion. According to the forensic medical identification, Yang Suo had been dead for many days, and the cause of death was excessive starvation.
And Yang Suo's home was almost empty, and the house was surrounded by walls. It turned out that throughout the cold winter, Yang Suo relied on burning furniture for heating.
After Yang Suo's deeds spread, social news reporters rushed to the village to interview him, and published his real people and true stories in the newspaper, with the headline "Some people are really lazy."
The Yang Suo incident appeared in the newspapers
In 2010, actress Chen Shanshan was deeply touched by Yang Suo's story, so she used his life as the background to shoot the documentary "Sin Love", hoping that everyone would take it as a warning.
Yang Suo's tragedy stems largely from his parents. Yang's father, Yang Mother, in the name of "love", over-doted and killed his son, and finally buried Yang Suo's life with his own hands.