When we are young, we always have a lot of rebellion against the interference of our parents. I think that I have grown up, have my own views and opinions on things, and I want to live according to my own opinions.
After all, the age of youth is the most important thing, the ego is the most important. However, as the years passed, I grew older, and when I became a parent, I found that the words that my parents once said to you were actually golden and good words.
It's just a pity that I was too young at that time to understand the misery of life. Thinking that parents don't understand themselves, they are too narrow-minded.
In "Please Give Us More Advice for the Rest of Your Life", the love between Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue makes us yearn for, but when they decide to be together, the opposition of Gu Wei's parents has hurt the hearts of many parents who care for their children.
Gu Wei was born in a medical family, his parents were Kochi, and his family was superior. The road to Gu Wei's growth has been smooth, and he is already the backbone of the department at a young age, or an associate professor.
In the workplace, such a high-quality man can be described as the object of competition for many women. Otherwise, the vice dean's daughter Gao Huan would not have known him for more than ten years and approached him without abandoning him.
Even Gao Huan's work was done on Gu Wei's parents, and Gu Wei's father and mother also regarded Gao Huan as a daughter-in-law, and invited them to the house to eat every three or five minutes.
But life is always unexpected, Gu Wei did not choose Gao Huan as the marriage partner, but chose the patient's family Lin Zhi School.
One is an excellent doctor with a promising future, and the other is a junior in school, his father is suffering from cancer, and his family is ordinary.
Such an obvious gap, simply from the perspective of love, may not feel anything, but when it comes to marriage, it will face many practical problems.
Gu Wei's parents learned that after Gu Wei had been single for thirty years, they had chosen such an object, and disappointment was inevitable.
Although from the perspective of the audience, Lin Zhixue is like a fiery little sun, lighting up the way forward in Gu Wei's life, but from the perspective of Gu Wei's parents, in any case, Lin Zhixue is not an ideal daughter-in-law.
The main reasons are manifested in the following aspects:
First, the most realistic problem. Lin Zhixue's father suffers from cancer, although there is a part of medical insurance reimbursement, but cancer is not an ordinary disease after all, the cost is not cheap, but it may not be able to cure, which will inevitably bring a certain burden to the family economy.
There is an episode in which Shao Jiang, the brother of Lin Zhi school, wants to take Teacher Lin to a foreign country for treatment, but Teacher Lin refuses. It is precisely because he understands that his illness may not be cured, but the financial pressure that may bring to the family will be greater than ever.
Even the second half of the wife's life and the future of the daughter will be gambled together. Although there is nothing wrong with lin zhixue and his mother's idea of saving their loved ones, the reality is more cruel.
Second, Lin Zhixue is a college student, who has not yet entered the big dyeing vat of society, and does not understand the hardships of work.
Moreover, the nature of the doctor's work may be called to the hospital anytime and anywhere. Once or twice you may feel nothing, but getting married and living is a lifelong thing, without empathy, it is easy to discount the marriage.
Lin Zhi school is studying art, her major is cello, and art students like her are everywhere, if you can't mix in your field, it may be difficult to work steadily and satisfactorily.
Third, Lin Zhixiao Gu Wei is 10 years old, and Gu Wei, as a doctor, works hard and stressed every day, and returns home not to have a wife to arrange everything, in turn, to take care of the family, it is bound to be more tired and harder.
When we are young, we always feel that love is greater than the sky, as long as two people love each other, they can defeat everything.
However, we ignore the essence of life, even if there is the support of both families, but marriage still needs two people to live, life after marriage, chai rice oil salt sauce tea vinegar, a trivial place, only love is definitely not enough.
If you only pay attention to the wind and snow, I am afraid that once you have children, the days will soon become a pot of porridge. The two people's work pressure, financial troubles, coupled with the hardships of parenting, do not understand each other, lack of empathy, contradictions are naturally more.
No matter how good love is, it can't withstand such a toss. How many lovers who love vigorously, who are not looking forward to the beauty of the future into marriage, but what cannot go on is also an indisputable fact.
Standing in the position of Gu Wei's parents, as parents, they are anxious about their son's marriage, believing that the living environment of the two is large, the age difference is large, and there are more contents that need to be adapted to, and it is also very normal not to be optimistic about this marriage.
TV series often deliberately amplify the aura of the protagonist, believing that all difficulties will be solved as long as there is love and heart.
However, in real life, judging by the combination of Gu Wei and Lin Zhi school, it is indeed not suitable.
Although there are some couples with similar situations, after a lot of hard work, they finally live a happy life, but the hardships can be imagined.
If you don't have enough perseverance and can't maintain your original intention, I'm afraid it will be really difficult in the end.
After all, parents are people who have experienced decades of marriage, and they have already had too many feelings about life, and what they say is not necessarily all reasonable, but when they are children, they must also listen carefully to their suggestions.
Who in the world is a parent who does not want their children to achieve true happiness?
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