Speaking of bringing a baby, in people's traditional concepts, many people think that this is a woman's business, and men only need to be responsible for earning money to support their families.
However, with the development of society, women's economic status is getting higher and higher, and their sense of autonomy is getting stronger and stronger, and in many families, women earn more than men.
As a result, outside the female protagonist and inside the male protagonist, it has also become a reality.
Even, the mother-in-law also took the initiative to "request" the son-in-law to take over the responsibility of taking the baby, giving him ten thousand yuan as a bonus every month, asking such a good thing, are you envious?
This is not a paragraph, it is not a fantasy, this is what really happened.
On March 20, 2022, according to netizens, in Xiaoshan, Zhejiang, there was a man surnamed Shen, after his wife gave birth to a daughter, his mother-in-law consulted with him whether he could help with the child at home and give him a bonus of 10,000 yuan per month.
According to this Mr. Shen, a door-to-door son-in-law, his wife is busy at work, while he is more flexible and has plenty of time, and his source of income is mainly based on investment.
After the wife gave birth to her daughter, the mother-in-law took the initiative to tell him to let him help with the child at home and give 10,000 yuan a month as a bonus.
Considering the actual situation of the family, coupled with the mother-in-law's initiative to "request" and the high bonus, Mr. Shen finally agreed after a psychological "struggle".
The mother-in-law offered to bring the baby to send him money, which was beyond Mr. Shen's expectations, because at the beginning, relatives also felt that he was a bit humiliated to do so.
However, Mr. Shen believes that as a husband and father, it is an unshirkable responsibility for him to take care of his own children, and it can also be regarded as contributing to the family in his own way.
Mr. Shen said that since taking the child, I know that it is too hard to take the child, the day is actually fine, mainly at night, really tired, a night to get up four or five times, he because of staying up late, recently also gained nearly 10 pounds.
Finally, Mr. Shen said that although the mother-in-law gave 10,000 yuan a month, the money was also spent on the children in the end, all of which were a family, all for the sake of a better family, and the family's goals were the same.
"The door-to-door son-in-law at home with the baby, the mother-in-law took the initiative to send a monthly bonus" thing, after being spread to the Internet, caused a heated discussion among netizens, many people directly called: This mother-in-law is too arrogant, where am I.
Netizen comments
Some netizens said: This role is reversed, and this mother-in-law is still better than the mother-in-law.
Some netizens also said: My mother-in-law said that it is duty to take children, but you can't spend men's money, and now women are independent.
Some netizens said: Such a mother-in-law gives me a hand, the daughter-in-law with the baby is free and not flattering, the son-in-law with the baby treatment is so good, it is really envious.
There are also netizens who say: It is really unreasonable, the daughter-in-law takes the baby to guard the baby 24 hours a day, and also comes with cooking, cleaning up the housework and washing clothes, there is no dime, and you have to look at the face.
The editor has something to say
Have money to take, and can be with children every day, such a good thing, Xiaobian is also very envious, who still lacks a son-in-law, I also give my son a name.
The economic base determines the superstructure.
According to insiders, the situation in Zhejiang is that most people are very rich, and there are many sons-in-law at home, and the reason why the mother-in-law is so arrogant, the family's economic conditions are good is the prerequisite.
In fact, this mother-in-law is very smart and has a very high emotional intelligence.
Let's imagine that if the mother-in-law does not give this 10,000 yuan bonus to the son-in-law, let the son-in-law take the baby at home, and the son-in-law will also pay without complaint or regret.
However, the small family has no money, and the mother-in-law also has to give the daughter behind her back, and give this ten thousand directly to the son-in-law as a bonus, so that the son-in-law is also acceptable in her heart, at the same time, the daughter does not have to work so hard. In the end, the money is still spent on the children, which can be said to be a lot of money.
Whether men or women, at home with a baby, it is not easy, it can even be said to be great, such a choice, deserves the respect of all of us.
In this regard, what do you think, welcome to leave a comment, thank you.