The average height of a 1-year-old baby is about 75 cm.
Parents do not want the child to lose to others at any stage of life, sugar mother has a lot of friends, from the preparation for pregnancy and pregnancy began to pay attention to various details.
But the baby's performance after birth may disappoint parents. Not only did he fail to become the best among his peers, but he also "slowed down" other children in every way.
Early childhood moms: Never want their children to lose
During the time when Sugar Mom took the little candy to the early education class, it was obvious that the competition between parents was how big it was. Even if the child does not go to kindergarten, there is no shortage of comparison between adults.
The birthday of the baby in the same early education class is only 1 to 2 months apart, so everyone has a lot of common topics.
Interestingly, in this early education class, everyone did not compare family conditions and husbands' abilities as they imagined, but they were more powerful than whose baby.
What can a baby do? It is nothing more than discussing the age of turning, climbing, sitting, and walking, who speaks earlier and grows faster than whom, and the best baby will win the envy of many mothers, and everyone will learn from their mothers.
Little Candy looked like it was lagging behind babies of the same age, but I didn't compare it with everyone, nor was I anxious and anxious, because I knew that Little Candy was no worse than babies of the same age.
Today, the children of the early education class have entered the elementary school campus. The baby who often took the first place in the early education class is now very ordinary, and parents are a little disappointed.
And those children who, like little candy, are "slow" in some ways, and now their bodies and learning are good in all aspects, and they have not been lagging behind.
Babies develop a beat slower than their peers, but may have "staying power"
Babies who look stunted as children may not be problematic. Because each baby has individual differences, it may not always be the first to be ahead.
1) Late speech does not mean poor language ability
I remember in the early education class, there was a baby who would call out to his parents for 6 months. While other parents felt incredible, they also rushed home to start practicing the baby's speech, but the other babies were reluctant to open their mouths.
The time for the baby to learn to speak is related to various factors such as family environment and genetics. Speaking late does not mean poor language. In general, the sound that the baby makes around 4 to 5 months is unconscious.
That is to say, if the baby calls out the mother prematurely, it may not be able to correspond these two words to the identity of the parent. Babies who talk late may have enough "staying power" and speak more clearly and accurately after careful consideration.
2) Being short when you were a child does not represent future height
Many parents start to compare their height when they are young, thinking that babies of the same age are higher in infancy and will not be shorter in the future.
In fact, the baby's height is a standard range, the child looks shorter than the same age baby, it may be a press to the lowest line, one stepping on the highest line.
As long as the baby's height and weight are within the standard range, the baby is not developed backward. Even if it looks slow for the time being, there may be "staying power" to catch up in the future.
3) The "slow beat" of intellectual development may also be an illusion
Around sugar mothers, some babies can only read nursery rhymes when they are 2 years old, and some babies who are 2 years old already know hundreds of words and can memorize ancient poems.
It seems that the former is a beat slower than the latter, but this does not prove that the two children have differences in intellectual development. Children who look clumsy as children may just be an illusion. When they really learn, they show their "staying power".
Baby development "slow beat" Don't worry, parents should be clear about the following truths
Sugar mom understands everyone's mood very well, and will be anxious when she finds that her child is lagging behind. Everyone pays attention to letting children win at the starting line, and the children they take care of carefully are really lagging behind? Parents should be clear about these truths.
Before the age of 1, it is not too late for babies to learn to speak: most babies do not speak until they are about 1 year old, and they become clear and fluent.
Before your baby is 4 months old, you don't have to rush to let him speak, as long as we let him see the shape of his mouth and hear our pronunciation when we speak to the baby.
About 6 months can guide the baby to make a sound, but the baby can't say it, and don't force him. At this time, his speech ability is not strong, and it is too difficult to practice too much, but it makes the baby reluctant to open his mouth.
Smart before the age of 6, there is "water": the older generation often describes children like this, before the age of 6 smart is not necessarily really smart, the future road is still long.
Children's memory methods are different from adults, and the reason why some babies are particularly smart when they are only 2 or 3 years old is because their memory mode at that time is "remember fast, forget fast".
Therefore, some babies are very clever from an early age, but after going to primary school, they appear mediocre, and even more and more backward, because their thinking patterns and memory patterns are changing.
Height may be overtaken at any time: the height development of the baby when he is a child is "slower", excluding the cause of illness, there is a lot of "staying power" will surpass his peers.
There is a golden period for children's height development, the first golden period is 0 to 1 year old, the second golden period is about 6 years old, and the third golden period is puberty.
Children who are tall before the age of six, that little is easy to be overtaken. In the same way, children who are shorter during primary school will also surpass the height of their peers after puberty, which is the performance of "staying power" feet.
The child's "slow beat" does not mean that there is no hope, so the child has "staying power"
The above 3 aspects that parents are most concerned about, parents do not have to pursue the baby to surpass others, more importantly, the quality of these aspects of the development process.
First, respect the rhythm of your child's development. Not all babies develop according to the law of "three flips and six sittings".
Exercise appropriately according to the actual situation of the baby's body. It is also normal for each big action to be about 1 month late, and too much advance will hurt him.
If you want your baby to learn to speak and speak clearly as soon as possible, parents should infect their children with a good language atmosphere. If the parents are always silent, the children will not open their mouths.
There is no need to pursue the baby to learn to say "long sentences" too early, first say simple words and phrases well, and then go to say long sentences and memorize ancient poems.
Secondly, the baby's height should be grasped from an early age. The baby's height development is "one beat slower" than that of peers, which may be related to genetics and also related to the care of parents.
Parents should remember to start supervising their children's sleep as soon as possible to ensure that they enter deep sleep before 11 o'clock at night, so that growth hormone is secreted and help the baby grow taller.
Pay attention to the nutritional collocation in the daily diet, no matter how much rice you eat, you also need meat, eggs, milk and vegetables, and other multiple nutrients to match. In addition, allowing children to have a positive psychology and emotions is also beneficial to height development.
Even if the child's height does not grow up quickly, the body is also "accumulating strength", and the height is only a matter of time sooner or later.
Candy Mother's Heart:
Children develop better and faster than their peers, which is something to be happy about. But in contrast, it is also important for children to have "staying power".
【Today's topic】Do you think your baby is lagging behind his peers?