Between angels and demons, there is success. No one wants their children to be labeled as "demons", after all, these bad problems have a far-reaching impact. The biggest wish of parents is nothing more than to hope that their children will grow up healthy and then have a better future.
However, on the road to growth, many children do not have good character and habits as their parents expect. So-called: Seven years old, it seems that children's childhood looks like they hide their future. Sadly, many parents "pretend" not to find out because they love Ya and Wu.
In principle: when every child is born, he is ignorant of the world. Most of the habits they develop later are the education of their parents and the influence of the environment. Spoiled by their parents, some children make mistakes unscrupulously and create a series of troubles.
I just want to say: The Son does not teach, the Father is at fault. There are many ways to love children, and only coddling and indulging are the most wrong ways. It seems to be a simple bad problem, but behind it is hidden "fatal" injuries, and one day the child will bear these consequences.
These bad problems in the child's body, parents must be ruthless to discipline.
First, shirk responsibility and do not take responsibility
It doesn't matter if you are not brave enough or confident enough, but at the very least you have to be responsible. However, some children who think they are smart have learned to shirk their responsibilities in order to avoid responsibility and avoid bearing consequences. Obviously, he made a mistake, but he did not have the courage to admit that his parents must severely punish such behavior.
It may shirk responsibility and occasionally save parents a lot of trouble. But for the future of the child, it is definitely not a good phenomenon. Think about it: if you don't even have the courage to take on mistakes, how can you take on social and family responsibilities in the future?
Second, procrastinate and rub things
Those children who are always procrastinating and rubbing things, parents are better not to indulge, because they are too timeless. Maybe parents will make excuses and feel that "children are small", which is why things will be so slow. In fact, the habit of doing things does not have much to do with age, and rubbing is a manifestation of slackness and avoidance.
Behind the procrastination and rubbing, there are also hidden bad problems of children's involuntary. Most importantly, rubbing will become a habit that will affect children's lives, studies and work in the future. The children who rub their hands have a good attitude in their hearts and are not interested in anything.
Third, lose your temper and don't know respect
Parents should not condone the behavior of children's tantrums, let alone compromise. People's desires will always be filled with dissatisfaction, and the connivance of parents will only make children worse and become chips for them to blackmail adults. It's normal to have a small temper occasionally, after all, everyone will encounter unhappy and troublesome things.
However, the behavior of throwing things at will and arguing with parents is absolutely intolerable. Children who do not know respect from an early age will grow up to do their own thing and are likely to become "white-eyed wolves" in the eyes of adults. Parents and them are "cash machines" that only come to mind when they use money.
Write at the end: Educating children is like planting saplings. From an early age, it is not only necessary to water and fertilize, but also to pull out the branches that are not growing well, so that they can grow into towering trees. Don't be afraid of making mistakes, as long as the child is willing to admit mistakes, there is room for maneuver.
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