Early childhood education has always been the focus of young parents, especially for novice parents, who have just been promoted to the role of parents, and they are not yet mature, let alone educating their children. As a result, some young parents go to study various parenting courses in order to be able to be competent and qualified parents.
To say that early childhood education, some time ago, the German education series became popular in China, and won the praise of many young parents, and many people in the comment area said "hardcore", let's see how "hardcore" it is.
First of all, Germany in the implementation of early childhood education "independent education", as long as the child after the age of three, German parents will try to let the child do what they can do, if there are some things beyond the child's ability range, as long as it does not exceed too much, the child can achieve after the effort, or parents provide a certain help, the child can also achieve, then the parents will ask the child to try, which will not only exercise the child's independent ability, but also exercise the child's problem-solving ability.
Secondly, Germany's early childhood education is mainly "relaxed", German teachers will not tie children to kindergartens, but take children outdoors, in the activities to obtain creativity and social skills, and children's physical fitness can also get a certain exercise. In fact, for children in today's society, the gap between "hard power" will not be too large, but there will be a large gap in "soft power", especially in terms of innovation ability and social ability, which are lacking in children now, and it is precisely because of this that the cultivation of this aspect is also very necessary.
In addition, early childhood education in Germany also attaches great importance to the cultivation of children's concentration, by allowing children to be in outdoor activities, so that children's spirit can be better edified, so that physical fitness can also be enhanced, so that children's concentration and attention can also be enhanced. In this regard, the teacher will especially let the children focus on observing some outdoor things, and then let the children get together and share what they see and feel, which will play a greater role in helping the cultivation of children's expression ability and concentration ability.
Finally, if you want to say the most eye-catching, then it should be the aspect of children's sex education. In Germany, after the child goes to kindergarten, in fact, the teacher will slowly begin to popularize the content of sex education for the child, for three-year-old children, the teacher will popularize gender awareness, tell the children that there is a difference between men and women, and even make some rubber human bodies, so that children can clearly understand the human organs. You know, if this happens in China, I am afraid that many domestic parents will find it difficult to accept, while in Germany, German teachers think that this is a very normal popularization of sex education knowledge.
In the process of children growing up slowly, teachers will slowly expand the scope of sex education according to the age of children, in the German children's sex education system, teachers at each stage will be responsible for their own field of science, and even some German students said that after going to junior high school, their teachers will even directly show the correct use of contraception in popular science courses, in order to enhance students' self-protection awareness and awareness of protection, which is too "hardcore" in our parents' view.
If you want to raise children well, parents also need to pay attention to these three problems
In fact, in addition to the above frugal ways of education, parents should pay attention to these problems in the process of educating their children. First, parents should be willing to squeeze out more time to spend on their children, now many young parents do not have the heart to accompany their children, some say that they are busy at work, some say that they want to socialize, but in fact, even if they are busy, if they want to squeeze out time, they can still accompany their children. The growth of children needs the company of parents, and it must be high-quality companionship, rather than playing with mobile phones while perfunctory children, such a way will hinder the growth of children.
Second, parents should have enough patience, children are like a hundred thousand whys, always like to ask "why" like parents, and often do the wrong things, or the parents to account for the good things to mess up, for these situations, parents must have enough patience, otherwise it will hit the child's self-confidence, let the child become more inferior, thus affecting the child's character growth.
Third, parents also have to try to learn, children are growing, parents are constantly growing, not who is born to be a parent, parents are also the most difficult occupation. It is precisely because of this that parents need to learn how to be a competent parent and escort their children's growth.
Conclusion: Each child's personality is different, parents should develop educational methods according to the child's personality, rather than copying the same set, otherwise it is difficult to play the maximum benefit.