Although young parents have paid more attention to this aspect over the years, in terms of large aspects, they still face a large gap, especially for adolescent children who lack education in this area, and correspondingly, it has also brought a lot of impact.
Case: The little couple's "edge wiping" behavior accidentally won the lottery, and they couldn't believe it
Friend's daughter is only 18 years old this year, some time ago friends found that the daughter's belly seems to be slowly getting bigger, pressed to hold her, or took her daughter to go to the examination, the result of this examination found that the daughter is pregnant, and has been three months, which makes her and her daughter feel very shocked.
At that time in the hospital, her daughter repeatedly denied, "No way, he and I have not acted, how can we get pregnant." At this point, the friend felt even more strange, and then the doctor asked, has there been any closer contact?
Later, her daughter replied, "I had contact, but because we were all scared, we didn't continue." "At this time, my friend himself is very strange, since no behavior has occurred, how can he get pregnant?"
The doctor shook his head and sighed, even the parents did not know, no wonder her daughter did not know how to protect herself, and then explained, "Sperm is active, they will swing through the tail into the fallopian tubes, even if no behavior has occurred, men may also shed a part of the sperm, so there is a probability that they may become pregnant!" ”
After listening to the doctor's explanation, I understood that I could only choose to take away the child, after all, the age was too young, and this would probably bring a lot of harm to my daughter, and now there is no way, and I can only adjust it in the later stage.
In fact, when it comes to this kind of "edge wiping" behavior, many young parents do not have this awareness, and not knowing may also lead to pregnancy, which shows the loopholes in children's sex education, which shows its importance.
01 How terrible is the "edge wiping" behavior? You must give your child science, otherwise it will cost a lot in the future
Perhaps after reading the above cases, everyone will feel that it is only a possibility of pregnancy, but in fact, the harm is more than that, because after pregnancy, if you want to do abortion, there are many risks caused, and most of the many edge rubbing behaviors only occur in some adolescent children, so this is why you want to give children science, if you do not pay attention to it at the moment, it is likely to bring greater costs to children in the future.
Many people in their youth is because of the edge rubbing behavior accidentally won the lottery, resulting in only the choice to take the road of abortion, and the harm of abortion is not small, may lead to women leaving "habitual abortion" lesions, affecting the situation of pregnancy after marriage, there are also some women after abortion to do curettage surgery, resulting in the formation of the uterine lining, in the later pregnancy process is prone to uterine rupture, these are great effects.
Of course, more than that, after the unexpected pregnancy, women who have done the abortion, if they do not recover well in the later stage, are likely to leave difficult pregnancies, or even infertility, perhaps some young women feel nothing, or feel that the later stage can be slowly conditioned, but in fact, after really entering the pregnancy preparation period, it will be found how difficult the reproductive system is to regulate, and some people even have been pregnant for up to five years without effect, in fact, this is affected.
02 How to enter sex education for adolescent children?
In fact, there are many parents who do not want to educate their children now, but many times do not know how to educate their children, and feel that the topic of "sex" is really difficult to talk about, so they find an excuse for self-consolation, thinking that anyway, the child will slowly understand when he grows up, but he may not wait for the child to understand this, the child may be hurt, if you understand these truths through the cost of being hurt, then it is inevitable that it is too much to lose, but it is better for parents to educate in advance.
In fact, in view of this, if parents can start sex education for their children from an early age, then they may not feel so difficult to talk about, but if they start to pay attention to it from the child's adolescence, in fact, it is not too late, that is, to choose the appropriate method, parents themselves must first calm their minds, open this aspect of the topic with the child in a chat way, and how to protect the child's science, and it is best to tell the child that sexual behavior cannot be started prematurely, and must pay attention to all aspects of the problem, such as health problems, protective measures, etc. And we must repeatedly emphasize with the child, otherwise some children really do not take these things seriously, and it is actually themselves who suffer losses and are injured.
Conclusion: There are children who have received sex education, and those who have not received sex education, in fact, there is still a big gap, so do not feel that this aspect of education is not necessary, parents must first pay attention to themselves, in order to let children also pay attention to this problem.