For a family,
The greatest blessing is not:
There are all the RVs, countless money,
But to raise filial piety and sensible children,
Respect for elders, considerate parents,
Always with a grateful heart,
Be a kind and filial person.
Children of filial piety to their parents,
Good character, know the gratitude chart,
Cheerful personality, mental health.
Children who do not filial piety to their parents,
When I was a child, I mostly had these 4 kinds of performance,
If you do not correct it in time, it is easy to go astray!
1. Extreme selfishness
Everything is self-centered,
Do as you please, willfully,
Just be happy and happy,
I don't care about other people at all.
If you don't reach your goal, you won't give up,
Not satisfied, crying non-stop.
Such a child, extremely selfish,
If you do not educate well, you will be in trouble in the future.
As a parent, lead by example,
Teach children to think in empathy, know how to converge,
Don't raise your child into an extremely selfish person,
Learn to share and share, be courteous and humble,
In order to attract people's likes, people's love.
2. Excessive coddling
Loving children is the nature of parents,
Hurting children is a common human condition.
But love must be measured,
Once excessive turned into coddling,
will develop a child's arrogant character,
Influence later academic and interpersonal interactions.
Children who grow up overly doting,
They will take the good of others for granted.
They don't know how to respect others, and they are the most dependent.
Once you enter the society,
There is no independent ability, and everywhere you hit a wall,
Coupled with the arrogant personality, not being welcomed by others,
Over time, it can lead to psychological depression.
3. Profligacy
Some children,
Do not know how to save, squander,
Like to compare with people, uncontrolled consumption,
I have developed the habit of spending money in a big way.
Leave the hardships of parents behind,
Do not cherish the efforts of parents,
Such a child is the least loving.
As a parent,
Do not think of infinite satisfaction in matter,
It's good for kids.
Teach children to be thrifty and thrifty,
Know that money and food items are not easy to come by.
Only in this way will children know how to cherish,
Get rid of the vice of profligacy.
4. Rebellious and willful
How the child's personality is, depending on the family environment,
As a parent, if you are impatient with your children,
Blame and scold at every turn, for a long time,
Children are bound to have a rebellious mentality,
Be wary of your parents and no longer trust them.
Every child will have a rebellious period,
Parents need timely guidance and patient communication.
Don't always be busy working to make money,
Take time out of your day to listen to your child's voice,
Over time, you understand the psychology of the child,
The child understands your good intentions,
The parent-child relationship becomes harmonious, and the child will be more sensible.
As a parent,
Not only has the responsibility of raising children,
It is also the responsibility of educating children.
Love the child to have a ruler, hurt the child do not excessive,
While caring for the health of children,
Also pay attention to the child's psychological changes.
Take time to spend more time with your children,
Be patient and teach your child.
Husband and wife should be more affectionate, do not quarrel and scold.
Only children who grow up in love and are well-educated,
Grow up to be a kind and loving,
People of good character and filial piety to their parents!
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