"If her illness is found early, she can still save a life, but YuanYuan insisted on giving birth to a child for her husband, gave up the chemotherapy that saved her life, and at the age of 26, she walked away like this, which is really uncomfortable."
On December 10, 2014, the host, Qiu Yuanyuan, refused treatment because of cancer, risked his life to give birth to a child, and finally passed away.
When her Classmates in Beijing learned of the news, they said something like this.
At the most beautiful age, in order to give an explanation to her husband Zhang Qixuan, Qiu Yuanyuan disregarded his own life safety and gave birth to a baby with a serious illness.
Who knew that at the child's 100-day birthday party, her husband Zhang Qixuan did not appear, and Qiu Yuanyuan's life was completely over on the day of the child's 100-day banquet.
Qiu Yuanyuan's approach touched him, but Zhang Qixuan quickly found a new person and remarried after his wife died.
I have to say, is it really worth it for Qiu Yuanyuan to do this, and what kind of life Zhang Qixuan is living now.
01.
In September 1988, Kew Garden was born in Linyi, Shandong Province, and when he was a child, Kew Garden lived a relatively poor life.
Before Kew Yuen was born, her parents wanted to live a full meal, which was a luxury, and Kew Garden, helplessly, became a premature baby.
It's just that the conditions at home are difficult, and the parents are very fond of the angel baby that has arrived.
A good family, whether rich or poor, as long as the husband and wife have one heart, the days will be harmonious and beautiful.
Qiu Yuanyuan's parents are like this, although the economic conditions are not very good, but Qiu Father and Qiu Mother support each other and work together for their daughter.
Qiu Yuanyuan looked at her parents' love and deeply realized the importance of loving someone.
It was also at that time that Qiu Yuanyuan knew that if you like a person, you must go hand in hand, pay for each other, and be able to share happiness and suffering.
Qiu's father and qiu mother watched their daughter grow up day by day, and their hearts felt happy and stressed.
If you want to give your daughter better living conditions, you must leave your hometown and go outside to work.
Soon after, Qiu's father and Qiu's mother took Qiu Yuanyuan to their grandparents' house, and the two went to other places to make a living.
Unable to live with her parents, Kew Gardens often loses her temper, and as she grows older, Kew Gardens gradually accepts this fact.
So every year in the month of the New Year, it is the most anticipated moment in Kew Garden, and she looks forward to her parents going home and reuniting with them.
But in The heart of Qiu Yuanyuan, there is always a tangled emotion, she understands that it is not easy for her parents to be outside, but on the other hand, Qiu Yuanyuan has an unsound character because she does not get more love and more attention.
In the eyes of outsiders, Qiu Yuanyuan is like a big grinning boy, with opinions and very strong, but no one knows that under the tough shell of Qiu Yuanyuan, there is a fragile heart.
Although she had all kinds of thoughts in her heart, she never told anyone else.
02.
After graduating from the third year of junior high school, Qiu Yuanyuan saw the profession of the host from the TV set, looked at the bright and beautiful people on the stage, and Qiu Yuanyuan's heart also followed.
Since then, Kew Yuen Has often fantasized about being a host.
In order to get close to the host industry, Qiu Yuanyuan was determined to take the college entrance examination when he was in high school, and he could enter the university of the host industry.
After the end of the college entrance examination, Kew Garden was admitted to the Nanguang College of the Communication University of China, although this is a three-book private college, but Kew Garden, has been very satisfied.
Only after enrolling in school, Qiu Yuanyuan saw the gap between himself and his roommates, and the people in the same dormitory were dressed brightly, but they were a little difficult to integrate into.
At that moment, Qiu Yuanyuan knew that fate was in his hands.
College life has a very good taste, many people are busy making friends and falling in love, busy celebrating youth, but Qiu Yuanyuan feels that he can't do that, only by making good use of this university for four years can he get ahead in the future.
So in school, Qiu Yuanyuan is always three o'clock and one line, sleeping in the dormitory, eating in the canteen, studying in the classroom, and going to these three places every day, has not changed.
Qiu Yuanyuan's every move was noticed by a boy named Zhang Qixuan.
Zhang Qixuan and Qiu Yuanyuan are in the same class, like a leather monkey, often causing trouble, for especially like Qiu Yuanyuan, Zhang Qixuan came to be interested, and even Zhang Qixuan directly told Qiu Yuanyuan that he liked her.
In order to chase Qiu Yuanyuan to his hand, Zhang Qixuan was like a dog skin plaster, sticking to Qiuyuanyuan every day, whether it was in class or eating, Zhang Qixuan followed inseparably.
In order to please Qiu Yuanyuan, Zhang Qixuan will also think about what girls like, often buy some trinkets, and stuff them into Qiu Yuanyuan's school bag.
Every exam week, Zhang Qixuan knew that QiuYuanyuan had troubles, and without saying a word, he dragged Qiuyuanyuan to the park to play and relax.
However, because of the appearance of Zhang Qixuan, Qiu Yuanyuan rarely took the second place in the final examination.
Such a result made Qiu Yuanyuan very angry, and when Zhang Qixuan appeared, Qiu Yuanyuan accused him: "I blame you, I just want to study hard, find a decent job after graduation, you don't bother me anymore." ”
But when Zhang Qixuan heard such words, not only was he not serious, but he also made a joke about Qiu Yuanyuan: "You are so cute, don't put on a face all day." ”
When Zhang Qixuan said this, Qiu Yuanyuan instantly blushed.
03.
Only later, the two did not separate, Zhang Qixuan still followed Qiu Yuanyuan to class and class every day, there were people around him who cared, and there were people in life who took care of him.
Slowly, Qiu Yuanyuan became accustomed to the existence of Zhang Qixuan, and even QiuYuanyuan began to rely on Zhang Qixuan, perhaps because of the lack of love in childhood, so once there was a feeling of being loved, Qiuyuanyuan fell into it.
So in the company of Zhang Qixuan, Qiu Yuanyuan fell in love with this persistent boy, and the two fell in love.
But in the senior year, Kew Yuen-won began to worry a little, because after graduation, everyone had to run their own things.
Just when Qiu Yuanyuan was thinking wildly, Zhang Qixuan made his attitude clear: "Yuanyuan, will you go to my hometown to develop after graduation, come with me." ”
Thinking that there would be no Zhang Qixuan around in the future, Qiu Yuanyuan was a little panicked, so under Zhang Qixuan's questioning, Qiu Yuanyuan agreed to go to her boyfriend's hometown to develop together.
With a nervous heart, Qiu Yuanyuan came to Zhengzhou.
The Emperor did not pay off, and the four years of study at Kew Yuen University were not in vain.
At the age of 22, Kew Gardens has become a host of local TV stations with his professional strength.
Soon because of the ability to stand out, Kew Garden was appreciated by the leadership, and the career was upgraded again, and a program called "Who is the Winner" was picked by Kew Garden.
In the program, Kew Garden's kind, gentle and generous style was loved by the audience.
On weekdays, Kew Garden treats colleagues with humility and courtesy, and at work, Kew Garden is even more conscientious.
The career development of her boyfriend Zhang Qixuan was not as smooth as imagined, and Zhang Qixuan worked hard for more than half a year to become the host of the New Rural Channel.
Compared with Kew Gardens, there is a big gap.
04.
In 2012, the fifth year of Zhang Qixuan's love affair with Kew Garden, in order to speed up the progress of life, on November 25 of this year, Zhang Qixuan married Qiu Garden back home.
Zhang Qixuan gave Qiu Yuanyuan a dream wedding, and the Qiuyuan Garden at the wedding was full of happiness and envied others.
At that time, Qiu Yuanyuan felt very satisfied, the career was smooth, the lover was with him, recalling the hardships of the early years, and it seemed that it was not a thing to come to the present.
After getting married, Qiu Yuanyuan and Zhang Qixuan lived a sweet little life.
Good things came in pairs, and The hosting ability of Qiu Yuanyuan was also favored by CCTV, and CCTV issued an invitation to Qiu Yuanyuan.
CCTV is a platform that Qiu Yuanyuan dreamed of, and it is impossible to go there to do work, and the future is unlimited.
But before going to CCTV, Kew Garden is pregnant, on the one hand is the future, on the other side is the family, between the two, Kew Garden must make a choice.
The child she carries is the crystallization of her love with her husband, and being a mother is also one of Kew Garden's wishes.
So after several hesitations, Qiu Yuanyuan chose to shelve her career and wait for delivery at home.
After all, no unit is willing to accept an employee who needs to take a long vacation after working for a long time.
But it is almost impossible to give up this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity and want to enter CCTV in the future.
For Qiu Yuanyuan's decision, her friends around her advised her: "Yuanyuan, such a good opportunity, it is really too undeserved to give up." ”
Qiu Yuanyuan caressed the baby in his belly and said, "It doesn't matter, I have this child with my husband, it is providence, since he came, I will let him be born safely, Qi Xuan wants to be a father quickly, and can't wait." ”
05.
After becoming a pregnant mother, Qiu Yuanyuan's body has a lot of not very good symptoms, other pregnant women have babies, and their weight is rising, but Qiu Yuanyuan is different, she is becoming thinner and thinner.
In some parts of the body, it is often painful and unbearable.
As the days passed, Qiu Yuanyuan would confide in her husband because of some uncomfortable situations.
But Zhang Qixuan was very impatient when he heard his wife's broken thoughts: "Day by day, how do you do so much, others are not necessarily like you as a mother." ”
Qiu Yuanyuan couldn't stand her husband treating her like this, so the two quarreled, and Zhang Qixuan didn't want to face it, slammed the door and left home.
Kew Gardens is disheartened and falls into a cold war with her husband.
At night, Qiu Yuanyuan did not see her husband go home to sleep, while Zhang Qixuan on the other side was drinking outside and buying drunk.
A few days later, qiu Yuanyuan came to the day of the maternity examination, she came to the hospital for examination, but encountered a big change in her life.
As soon as the test results came out, the doctor informed Qiu Yuanyuan that he was suffering from a malignant tumor.
Even the doctor explained that Qiu Yuanyuan's physical discomfort during pregnancy was due to the compression of the tumor, which led to the pain of the organs and the weight loss, which was also the tumor at work.
Hearing such results, the 26-year-old of Qiu Yuanyuan was doomed to be difficult.
After returning home, Qiu Yuanyuan did not want to say anything, and she locked herself in the room and silently wept.
And the parents and husbands kept advising Qiu Yuanyuan outside the door: "Yuanyuan, we are still young, obedient, first cure the disease, the child's business, and then talk about it later." ”
But Qiu Yuanyuan was troubled, if he received chemotherapy, it would cause great harm to the child in his abdomen, but without treatment, his life may not be saved.
Thinking back on the past, Qiu Yuanyuan made a decision that everyone could not accept: "I married Qi Xuan, and having this child is a very happy thing, I only hope that the ending can be beautiful, if I must choose, I choose to give up chemotherapy and give birth to the child." ”
In this way, Qiu Yuanyuan did not accept the treatment method of the hospital and allowed the cancer cells to spread in the body.
The condition is getting more and more serious, and Qiu Yuanyuan's stomach is getting bigger and bigger every day.
Lying next to Qiu Yuanyuan lying on the bed, he has always been accompanied by her husband, but the longer the time, Qiu Yuanyuan began to talk nonsense, often falling asleep, and her body was not as good as before.
When the pregnancy reached the eighth month, Qiu Yuanyuan could not stay up, for a time, the family and husband were very anxious, helpless Qiu Yuanyuan could only cut the abdomen and give birth to the child.
After the child is born, it is particularly thin, weighs only three pounds, and the health condition is somewhat bad, in this way to the world, the child's future life is destined to suffer a lot.
06.
On the other side, Qiu Yuanyuan, also because of this child, paid too much and endured too much.
After the child was born, Qiu Yuanyuan was particularly weak, because he did not receive chemotherapy, and his whole body was already covered with cancer cells.
Doctors have no choice but to take a conservative approach to treatment, and the process of chemotherapy is very painful.
After the first chemotherapy, Qiu Yuanyuan vomited up and down diarrhea, because he could not bear the pain, and the wailing of Qiu Yuanyuan spread throughout the corridors of the hospital.
After fifteen days of treatment in the hospital, Kew Yuen's condition showed signs of improvement, and after the doctor's examination, surgery could be performed.
Only after the operation, Qiu Yuanyuan's physical condition was even worse, she began to be emotionally unstable, and her mental state was extremely abnormal.
And the husband saw that the beautiful and moving wife of the past had become like this, and gradually lost patience, there were children to be taken care of at home, and there were wives to take care of in the hospital, Zhang Qixuan was somewhat intolerable, and he had a resistance psychology.
At the time of the collapse, Zhang Qixuan became angry with his wife in the hospital bed.
After the quarrel, Zhang Qixuan turned away, and this situation happened repeatedly, Zhang Qixuan became unloving to come to the hospital to take care of his wife, and even when Qiu Yuanyuan's body was almost unable to bear it, Zhang Qixuan also claimed that he was busy and did not want to come to the hospital to see his wife.
One day in December 2014 was the 100th day of the birth of Zhang Qixuan and Qiu Yuanyuan's son.
When the child's 100-day feast arrived, Qiu Yuanyuan endured the pain of his body and returned home from the hospital bed, but her husband, Zhang Qixuan, did not know where to go.
Throughout the 100-day banquet, Zhang Qixuan did not appear, and the child's father was not present, which really should not be.
So Qiu Yuanyuan took his mobile phone and dialed Zhang Qixuan's phone, but in the mobile phone, there was a sound that the phone you were making had been turned off.
Qiu Yuanyuan couldn't stand it, so he lay down on the bed to rest, watching the time pass by minute by minute, Qiu Yuanyuan repeatedly asked his parents: "This point, qi Xuan has arrived home?" ”
At this time, QiuYuanyuan was already somewhat unable to support it, listening to the family's words have not returned, Qiuyuanyuan is a little desperate.
Slowly, Qiu Yuanyuan found that the things in front of him were becoming more and more blurred, and his eyes began to disobey the call, only to see that the surrounding area became a little dark, and tears slid down his cheeks, Qiu Yuanyuan closed his eyes and went to heaven.
After only 100 days as a mother, Kew Gardens was taken away by the disease.
And the child, who is only three months old, will not see his mother in the future, and is doomed to suffer loneliness.
07.
At the last moment of his life, Qiu Yuanyuan could not see her husband, and later everyone learned that Zhang Qixuan could not arrive at the child's 100-day feast in time because of his work.
But all this is not an excuse, in the darkest moment of Kew Gardens' life, the person who once guarded her hid in the corner and refused to appear.
A few days later, at the funeral in Qiu Yuanyuan, Zhang Qixuan's figure was still missing.
And some bad news, also came out, a lot of information pointed to Zhang Qixuan, saying that Qiu Yuanyuan refused treatment, insisted on giving birth to a child, Zhang Qixuan was outside to mess with flowers and grass.
It's just that there is no evidence, and there is no following matter.
Husbands face the death of their wives, but they are unwilling to send her last journey, and many people condemn Zhang Qixuan's behavior, which is too unmanly, no sense of responsibility, and no conscience.
08.
Soon after, Zhang Qixuan met another woman, and they quickly ripped the evidence and began a new married life.
To this day, Zhang Qixuan's life with this new wife is as sweet as honey, and the children born before Qiu Yuanyuan gave up their lives have been growing up around Zhang Qixuan.
For such an ending, many people are upset for Qiu Yuanyuan, thinking that she refused treatment and gave birth to a child, saying that it was for her husband to be happy, but in the end, not only was her husband not grateful, but she was also disliked by her husband, which was really not worth it.
But at this point, what Zhang Qixuan did, Qiu Yuanyuan could no longer see it.
Perhaps the most important thing for Qiu Yuanyuan, who left, is that the child will live a safe and happy life for a lifetime.