Nowadays, there are still many one-child families, because there is only one child in the family, so parents will inevitably have some doting psychology on their children, and this kind of "doting" education will not work for children but will harm children.
The mother knelt down to her 9-year-old son for 1 hour, but was photographed by her son and sent to the circle of friends: happy every day
Recently there was such a news on the Internet, xiaobian read it is also quite angry, the thing is that in a public place, a mother kneels to her son, the reason is just to persuade the child to go to school.
But even if his mother knelt down in front of him, the 9-year-old boy did not think so, but sat on a stool next to him, playing comfortably with his mobile phone.
It is understood that the mother has been kneeling for more than an hour, and the child's father is also standing aside, and the parents have joined forces to persuade their son to go back to school, but the child is still indifferent.
Not only that, during the kneeling period of his mother, the 9-year-old boy also took a photo and posted it in the circle of friends, with the caption: Happy every day.
It was not until later that the boy's classmates saw this scene and came to pull the boy's mother up, and the "tug-of-war" between mother and son came to an end.
The mother knelt down for an hour and was indifferent, during which she also took photos and uploaded them to the circle of friends, which is a very bad behavior.
This behavior of the boy also reflects the degree of doting of the parents on a daily basis!
Here are a few forms of coddling that are harmful to a child's body and mind
1. Easy to satisfy:
The child gives what he wants. Some parents also give a lot of pocket money to young children and primary school children, and children's satisfaction is more easily obtained. This kind of child only knows how to take and does not know how to give, so it cannot become a big instrument.
2. Arranged substitution:
Because of the doting of parents, three- and four-year-old children still have to be fed and cannot yet dress, and five- and six-year-old children cannot do any housework, do not understand the pleasure of labor and the responsibility of helping parents reduce their burdens. This is by no means sensational.
3. Make a fuss:
Originally, "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers", children are not afraid of water, not afraid of black, not afraid of wrestling, not afraid of illness.
After wrestling, they often get up silently and continue to play.
Later, why do some children cry timidly?
It is often caused by parents and grandparents, the child acts panicked when in pain, feels sorry for the child when he encounters a little setback, and the end result of pampering is that the child does not let the parents leave a step.
These children have been marked by cowardice since childhood.
4. Protect in person:
Sometimes the father manages the child, and the mother protects: "Don't be too strict, he is still young." ”
Some parents teach their children, and grandma will stand up and speak: "You can't ask for too much, he will naturally be good when he is older; when you are young, you are far from being as good as him!" ”
Of course, such a child can't be taught!
Because he has no concept of right and wrong, and there are "protective umbrellas" and "shelters" from time to time, the consequences are not only the distorted personality of the children, but also sometimes cause family discord.
In addition, there are many ways of parental coddling, now here is not to list with you one by one, as parents should be vigilant, we must use scientific love to protect the healthy growth of children.
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