Do you know whether you love or coddle with your child? What is the difference between the two?
What is love? Parent-child love is different from other loves, and the purpose of all love is to promote the intimacy and integration of our relationship, only parent-child love is not.
The ultimate purpose of parent-child love is to separate, we hope to help children become independent as soon as possible through the escort of love, even if we leave us, we can live happily, and even when we leave this world, the love and support we have provided to our children can make him live better and happier.
Love and "coddling" are not actually a matter of degree, but of nature, and "coddling" is not love.
Coddling is a characteristic of the relationship between caregivers and children. Caregivers (usually mothers) shelter the child, while also hindering the child's efforts to attempt to act independently. It's similar to the meaning of excessive love.
Any love stems from respect, treating the child as an individual with an independent personality that is forming, not only loving him and hurting her to protect her, but also giving trust and respect.
Simply put, it is not to interfere with the tricks, and to let go when it is time to let go. Love Him only to help Him have the ability to separate from us.
First of all, parents are a safe haven for children and a source of security for babies. We provide regular, reliable and timely care for children and create a stable and warm family environment.
Long-term stable interaction mode and care, let the child believe that the mother can be relied on, and establish a safe attachment to the mother, after which the home becomes the child's safe harbor.
Moms become a strong backer for them to explore the world, and when children are curious about new things and begin to explore the world, this strong sense of love and security is the basis for their courage to explore and gradually become independent.
Do you know how to love children?