Children have the desire to share, in fact, is a very good thing, the desire to share is a desire to have good things in the heart to express to others, there are good things to share together in the joy of the mood, people with the desire to share will also be liked by many people.
It also shows from the side that his parents give him a lot of love, and he lives in a relatively good family atmosphere.
And the desire to share is too strong, in fact, there is no need for too much intervention from parents, after all, it is the child's own will, is his own mode of getting along with his good friends, but to clarify the following points with the child:
Only have the right to dominate their own things, and can not take the parents' things to share, to obtain the consent of the parents in advance, let alone force the parents to buy things to give to the children.
Previously, when I was reading with a mentally ill elementary school student, a child made a pot of pasta at home and brought it to the whole class the next day to share. Then some children go home and ask their parents to take him to cook, give it to the children the next day, and cry when they don't do it.
At such a time, it is no longer a simple desire to share, but a more proportion of the heart. Parents must distinguish between their children's desire to share and compare, and make different responses to different situations.
There is a limit to the price
This should be self-regulated according to the family situation and the size of the child, and establish a boundary for the child that cannot be crossed. This also greatly improves the child's financial quotient, and within the prescribed range, distributes his own property on his own.
Finally, if the desire to share is too strong, we must also pay attention to whether the child is a flattering personality.
Flattering personality refers to the personality that blindly pleases others and ignores their own feelings, which is a potentially unhealthy behavior pattern.
The method is very simple, observe whether the child shares or gives, in simple terms, it is that he leaves a copy for himself. To stay is to share, not to stay is to please. Parents are subject to availability.
As the saying goes, "Good medicine is good for the sick, and good advice is good for the ear." ”
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[Author of this article]: Director Li of Orangutan Village
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