Marriage is like a boat, and two people in a marriage are like water under a boat. If two people run well and gradually become one, then the boat can naturally float smoothly on the water. If two people have their own ideas, they refuse to back down, collide with a large wave, and eventually overturn the boat.
If the boat overturns in this water, as long as it is repaired, it can still float in another body of water. You can't get along with this man, but you can always meet a man who can maintain peace with you. For a divorced woman, she has seen how big the splash can be, so she is more eager for a stable life and will be more cautious about her next marriage. Divorced women, remarried are more willing to choose these 4 kinds of men, see if you choose the right one?
1, do not dislike the man she lasted in marriage
Since a woman is divorced, she wants to say goodbye to the past completely and want to start a new life. These things that have happened in the past are things that a woman cannot erase, and she cannot change.
As long as life does not come to an end, then people have the opportunity to choose again, and they have the right to pursue happiness again. When a woman remarries, it is as if she is born again, so if a woman wants to marry, she must marry a person who can accept her past from the heart, and only by marrying such a person will she be happy.
2. Men with a sense of responsibility
Marriage is not about having children, but about being dependent on another person and yourself. If a man has no sense of responsibility, then such a man cannot bear the burden of a family, marriage is just a game in his eyes, if he is bored or tired of playing, it is possible to end this game at any time.
A woman who has been divorced once will be more eager to get a stable life, after all, no one is willing to toss and turn all the time, and she is not willing to joke about her lifelong happiness. Therefore, if a woman remarries, she will definitely choose to marry a very responsible man, so that a man will know how to be responsible for women and will know how to be responsible for the family formed.
3, the man who can give her a sense of security
For divorced women, she does not want surprise and romance, nor does she want that kind of vigorous love, because she knows that only ordinary life is the longest. After experiencing the failure of a marriage, her heart will have some shadows, and even some fear and resistance to the new marriage.
Because the word marriage makes her feel uneasy, she has lost once and does not want to lose a second time, so if she chooses to remarry, she will definitely marry a man who can give her enough security, this man can soothe the pain caused by her previous marriage, can make her calm her heart, can make her have the courage to believe in a person again, and have the courage to start a new life again.
4, a single-minded man
In fact, marriage does not make people grow, nor can it make men with flowers accept their hearts. They don't give up the opportunity to mess with the outside world for the sake of marriage.
Therefore, divorced women, to choose to marry a dedicated man, such a man knows how to take feelings seriously, he will not do those things that are sorry for women, he can resist the temptation of the outside, while restraining his heart. The most important thing in marriage is fidelity, and if men can't even do that, women don't want to marry.
This society is not tolerant of women, and if a man is divorced once, it will not have much impact on his later life. If a woman is divorced once, then the society will have a great prejudice against her.
Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, so women don't have to care too much about the eyes of others, and their own good life is the most important.
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