Breaking up represents the end of the relationship between two people. After some people break up, they will delete all the contact information of their ex, and there will be no contact with the ex, because the two people have seriously loved each other after all, and have experienced so many things together, so it is impossible to be friends again, but some people will still take the initiative to contact the ex after breaking up.
For men, they will be more sensible about feelings than women, and when they break off feelings, they may be more desperate than women. Some women know that two people are not suitable, but they are still reluctant to cut off, but men have decided that after they decide, they will not go back. If a man not only did not delete your contact information after breaking up, but also kept contacting you, most of them hid these 4 "careful thoughts" in their hearts!
1, there are still feelings for you
The two people broke up because of gambling, but in fact, the man did not really want to break up with you, he agreed to break up in a hurry, but his heart was still reluctant, so he still contacted you. Because he doesn't want you to forget him, he also wants to test your attitude to see if you are still willing to reconcile with him.
He doesn't mention reconciliation because he's afraid that he'll make you angry again and make you ignore him completely, and he wants to wait for a while for the relationship between the two of you to ease up a bit, so that your anger with him will subside, find a suitable opportunity, and confess to you again.
2, treat you as a spare tire
Although the two of you have broken up, he is still lusting after your kindness to him, and the man's heart is very clear that you still have him in your heart. He knows that you are actually reluctant to him, so he is using your psychology to take the initiative to contact you.
He knows you're not going to ignore him, he keeps in touch with you, makes you his spare tire, and thinks of you when he's not accompanied. He doesn't have a relationship with you as a couple, he feels more comfortable, and such a man is the most greedy.
3, has not found the next one
Some men's feelings have always been seamless, and he has just finished a relationship and can immediately invest in another relationship. If he doesn't have someone to accompany him, he can't accept it, so after he breaks up with you, he will take the initiative to find you, because he has no next goal, and he doesn't want to live alone.
When he has a new goal and finds someone who can accompany him, he will not contact you again, and women should not be deceived by such men.
4, you still have use value for him
Some men start with you for an impure purpose, it may be that you are helpful in their work or that they may be able to benefit from you.
Although you have broken up now, you are still useful to him, so he will still bother your life. He has always only wanted to squeeze you, never appreciate your kindness to him, such a man is the worst, women don't want to be deceived by him.
Someone once said that you can't be friends after a breakup because you want to have it again after one more look. Some people have said that breaking up is not a big deal, and it is not a bad thing to be able to accompany you as a friend.
After the breakup, if the man is still in contact with you, the woman should not sneak joy first, thinking that the man can't let go of himself, compounding is a matter of minutes, you must observe carefully, carefully consider the man's attitude towards himself and then make a decision.
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