Every parent wants to have a cute baby who is loved by everyone, who sees flowers, has high emotional intelligence, and can speak the Tao. But such a baby does not come and go, and many parents have wrong views because of educating their children.
Therefore, if you miss the best period for the formation of your baby's excellent qualities, how should such a baby be cultivated?
As the old saying goes, the baby's development is "three points are destined, and seven points depend on hard work." "The headache for parents is not how smart the baby is, but how to educate the baby better."
In fact, the baby is the best period for brain development at the age of 0 to 3, if parents seize this period and find the right way to educate the baby, then educating a baby with high emotional intelligence is not a problem. So how do parents seize this period?
Children at a very young age, the mind is very fragile, if the parents before the child goes to bed with the child to carry out a spiritual communication, then not only can promote the parent-child relationship, but also understand the child's development to the current psychological state.
I have a friend who seized this period after the birth of her child, accompanied by the child's various early education every day, especially the time before the child went to bed, accompanied the child to listen to music, read picture books, play games, tell stories, friends said that through the company of that time, he obviously found that his children were smarter, more lively than before, and their language expression ability was stronger.
From the age of 0 to 3, what is urgently needed and cultivated is language ability, memory, concentration, habit formation and character formation.
1. Cultivate children's concentration
Regarding the cultivation of baby concentration, parents can accompany their children to play with toys, listen to stories, read picture books, and guide children to focus on one thing. Many children between the ages of 0 and 3, often can not sit still for two minutes, jumping and playing this and that play, although it is the nature of children, but the time will also be insufficient concentration.
2. Cultivate children's language skills
With the development of the times, a lot of electronic technology has also entered the lives of babies, and now many babies can speak the Tao, but it is also an art to train babies to learn how to speak, and 17 parents at 0 to 3 years old can read picture books to their children and listen to stories with their children, especially in this period of time, the baby's imitation ability is very strong, and parents should also pay attention to their words and deeds, so as to set a good example for the baby.
3. Cultivate children's memory ability
In this period, the baby's memory is very strong, parents should seize this period to teach children to read more story books, read more picture books, while teaching children to read some ancient poems, guide children to memorize, often in the form of music to teach children to sing while memorizing, in the exercise of baby memory while enhancing children's interest in learning.
4. Cultivate children's good character
Friends' children always love to laugh, understand politeness, and like to play with children, although there are also moments of distress, but they will never cry and make trouble without reason, which has a great relationship with friends who often accompany her children to read picture books.
5. Cultivate children's good habits
First of all, tell the child to be bitter and then sweet, for example, when eating grapes with children, put the big grapes at the end, eat the small grapes first, and at the same time lead by example, teach the children how to be bitter and then sweet. At the same time, we must tell the child that the benefits of washing face and brushing teeth, brushing their teeth every day, taking the child with them when washing their faces, allowing children to interact with themselves, and developing a baby who loves to wash his hands frequently, love to wash his face and brush his teeth.
The development of the baby must grasp all stages, want a smart and healthy people to see the baby loved, not impossible, but need to adhere to the scientific education of children.
Accompanying your child to read bedtime drawing instincts is icing on the cake
1. Parent-child games before going to bed
Friends often learn some small games through picture books, play with children before going to bed, this kind of parent-child games are more parent-child skin and body contact games with children, which will make children feel more secure, know that parents love him, such as riding a big horse, holding high on a train, etc.
2. Communicate with your child before going to bed
Before going to bed, friends said he would mostly ask children what was happening during the day and what they thought of something. At this time, the child is in a relaxed state, he will tell the parents what he thinks in his heart, and the child will also try to recall the development and problems in the story, which not only exercises the child's logical analysis ability, but also strengthens the parent-child relationship.
3. Cultivate children's good habits
There are many anime characters in the book, brushing teeth and washing face and bathing on the toilet, the child's imitation ability during this time is very strong, through this picture book, you can let the baby know that brushing teeth, washing face, bathing and going to the toilet is a very important thing.
4. Tell stories to your child before going to bed
Some experts have found that listening to stories before children go to sleep helps improve comprehension, imagination and memory, because children are constantly thinking about what happens in the story and the logical relationship. Friends said that his child began to tell stories to children when he was seven months old, the stories in picture books, let the children look forward to it every night, before going to sleep, once the friend reads wrong, the baby will correct, the friend also said that through a period of time of story reading, found that the child's logical ability and language ability is indeed much stronger than before.