Personality matters? Or is grades important? A lot of people don't understand!
There is no contradiction between personality and achievement, and they complement each other. The only difference is that personality depends more on cultivation, and achievement depends more on intelligence!
If the personality is cultivated well, the child's psychological quality is good, the attitude towards learning will be more correct, and all abilities will be exerted on the basis of intelligence and the best results of the self-level will be maintained.
If the child's intelligence is also good, the character cultivation is good, the child is more likely to become an excellent talent, the contribution to society is more positive, enthusiastic, full, if the intelligence is good, the personality is not good, it will produce more negative effects, and even cause more bad results.
Intelligence is more genetically determined, it has been decided at birth, this kind of child will have better potential no matter what they do, as long as society does not drag their legs, they can always show their energy!
What can be changed in this way is mainly personality! Although education can play a role in discovering, screening and guiding talents, it is the failure of education not to give talents a good character. The emergence of people with twisted personalities at top universities is the best example.
Therefore, character education is more important than the child's grades.
The family is the main place for educating personality and is the hardest hit area with frequent personality problems. This is what parents should know, and it is also what society should pay attention to.
Good education is not only to screen out talents, but also to let people with good intelligence and poor intelligence have a good character, so that they all have the opportunity to feel the happiness and happiness of life.
Character determines a happy life!
