3 to 6 years old is a critical period for children's intellectual development and the establishment of ways of thinking, and parents cannot only look at the superficial phenomena of children's actions.
Sugar Mother's grandmother often said that it is much easier for young people to take their babies now. When children want to listen to stories, they can use mobile phones, computers, and various story machines, which used to rely on the "lip service" of parents.
However, after starting to take the baby, you will find that various electronic products have become "repeating machines" in the hands of children.
Many parents report that when children face various fresh temptations, they often only have a special love for a certain story and cartoon. Sugar Mom feels the same way, because so does the little candy.
The child listened to a story for 2 years, and the back was still not bothered
When Little Candy was about 2 years old, she suddenly fell in love with the story of "Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs". In the beginning, I did the housework and didn't have time to take her and play it randomly to her on a story machine.
She listened to other stories with some carelessness, but when she heard them, she took the story machine in her arms. After the end, he held up the story machine and said to me: "Listen to the princess"!
I didn't react for a moment to what Little Candy was trying to do, so she was a little anxious and pressed the button on the story machine.
I guessed her, probably trying to hear the Snow White story again, and I guessed it. Little Candy was immediately happy when she heard Snow White, and has been out of control ever since.
Listen to Snow White in bedtime stories, and snow white when you're bored. The story machine broke down, so she pulled me to tell her the story. At first, I had to listen to it many times a day, but then I slowly adjusted it to 3 to 4 times a week.
After listening to it hundreds of times, the little candy can already be turned upside down, but it is still not bothered. I listened to it for 2 years before I gradually shifted my attention.
Many kids, like Little Candy, like to listen to a story or watch an episode in the same cartoon. Parents are tired of watching it, but children can always find fun in it.
Children who do not seem to understand flexible behavior are actually good for intellectual development
Parents are worried that their children can't help but be tempted, but when they see that their children are too attached to a certain thing, they will also have doubts in their hearts.
It is normal for a child to watch a cartoon repeatedly, or listen to the performance of a story. It generally occurs before the child is 6 years old, and behind this repetitive behavior, there are many benefits for the child's intellectual development.
First of all, it is conducive to children to exercise more detailed understanding ability
Parents should know that children's comprehension ability is not as good as adults. After reading a story, parents can quickly understand the causes and consequences, and even recite it to their children.
But the child understands a story, may start from a certain subsection, and then slowly be attracted to a character in the story, and finally connect the whole story.
Children look at listening to the same story every time, but they are thinking differently, which is very helpful for intellectual development.
Second, memory is improving
Every time a child listens to the same story repeatedly, he will remember the details more deeply. From a person who listens to stories, to the one who can turn his back and tell stories like a stream.
If the parent tells the baby a story, gets the plot sequence wrong, or says a few words wrong Baby can find out, this is the harvest of listening to the same story repeatedly.
Once, when I was telling a story to Little Candy, because I was too sleepy, I quietly reduced a few words, which made Little Candy very unhappy and asked me to start from scratch. Only then did she find out that she remembered better than I did.
In the "repeated movements", the baby's intelligence quietly develops
For the child, the information, environment, etc. that he is familiar with brings him the most basic sense of security. Especially when he is emotionally unstable, the stories he likes will make his emotions quickly ease.
On the basis of a sense of security, children are willing to do more fresh attempts, and the process is urgent.
And in the process of the baby listening to a story repeatedly, or watching a cartoon, quietly imitating the words in it, indirectly improving the baby's language ability.
In the process of learning to speak, the baby's brain is constantly running, and the intelligence is unconsciously improved.
In the same way, a child likes to do one thing repeatedly, which is also a routine for him to learn. It is difficult for the child to learn a new skill, and his willingness to try it repeatedly proves that the child likes to specialize and be patient.
Therefore, when parents see their children repeatedly listening to a story and doing something repeatedly, the way they bring their own babies should also be changed, so that the baby's intelligence can be better developed.
Help children develop intellectually, and parents should do this
"Repetition" is a necessary stage in the growth of children, and I want to pay attention to the following things, which is conducive to the child's intellectual development.
Accept this behavior from the bottom of your heart. Perhaps in the eyes of parents, the child's behavior is very boring, and some parents will question whether he is stupid, which will bring blows to the child.
Understand the reasons and benefits behind the child's behavior, parents should learn to accept the child's repetitive behavior from the bottom of their hearts, even if they can't accompany, don't stop it.
Answer your child's questions. Take listening to stories as an example, every time children listen to stories several times, they will have different feelings and questions, and may chase after their parents and ask questions, and these questions are particularly naïve in the eyes of parents.
Sugar mom tips, don't perfunctory children, laugh at their childishness. Every time you accumulate a small knowledge point, you can let your child grow insight.
If you refuse to answer the child's questions, or ignore them, it will discourage the child's enthusiasm, and it will be difficult for him to think and learn in the future.
Candy Mother's Heart:
Telling stories to children personally like the older generation is actually a good habit. Nowadays, young parents are getting busier and busier, and the time spent with their children is very small, and the time for telling stories in just a few minutes is a rare time for parents to get along.
The voice of the parent, which makes the child feel more secure than the voice of the stranger, has a better effect, whether it is to soothe the emotions or to coax the sleep.
【Today's topic】Does your child like to listen to the same story over and over again?