Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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Meaningless socializing is a blasphemy against life.
Nowadays, more and more winery dinners have become meaningless.
After all, the things in the circle of friends are different from real life. Intelligent and intelligent adults have learned to cover up their sharp edges and do things quietly.
Putting your mind on the circle of friends consumes only yourself, and the impact on others is not important. For those smart people, they give up some socializing and are a timely stop-loss option.
Mr. Yang Dai said: "We used to look forward to the recognition of the outside world, and finally realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others. ”
You are not good yourself, and it is useless to know more people. This is also a true portrayal of the social reality of life. People who have withdrawn from various groups are often the following kinds of people.
[1] People who like to be low-key.
On the road of life, converge on your own sharp edge, and your own ability is clear. Not everyone has a need to share their lives and let their life trajectory be seen by others.
A positive, busy career person, many times, completely without time, to view or run their circle of friends
The more capable people are, the more low-key they are, and they are more authentic and not hypocritical. Therefore, in the face of the bright life of others in the circle of friends, I do not know what I have to share.
Those who have a high profile have a little achievement, they are proud, showing off in the group, and spending their minds to let others pay attention, just to win the attention of others.
[2] People who like to be quiet.
Quiet is a kind of cultivation, quiet is not impetuous, not fluctuating.
Quiet people usually like to be alone, and being alone can keep him undisturbed by the environment. They will have a private space of their own and will not let social groups disturb their lives.
If a person's mind cannot be quiet, there is nothing to be safe, and if the mind is not fixed, there is nothing to keep. Quiet is to live quietly, simply, richly, and fulfillingly. Quiet people don't think about fame, status, don't participate in various groups, don't join in the fun.
So, they will enjoy life quietly and quietly, and will not be in a hurry to show off what they have gained. Because a good life can be enjoyed by yourself, there is no need to show it to the people in the group.
[3] People who look down on the cold and warm of human feelings.
After looking down on the cold and warm of human feelings, looking at the cold of the world, I finally understood that many things are not important, and many people do not have to come and go.
Some people join various groups just to complain, to find comfort, or to complain. In fact, no one can fully empathize with this matter, we do not need to always thirst for the understanding and comfort of others, so there is no need to complain in the group.
Because no one likes people who complain about everyone, you make yourself bitter and vengeful every day, which will only annoy others.
There are always some wounds in this world, and it is necessary to heal them alone, so that we can become a better self
Don't overestimate your relationship with anyone, adult interactions aren't that simple. Not treating every passion badly, not pleasing any indifference, is the wisdom of the world.
Wheat message: Really smart people have long done subtraction for the social circle.
Su Shi once said: "The taste of the world is Pure Joy."
In a person's life, he will only meet three or five true friends.
Adults understand that the circle of friends is not much. For those garbage social parties to do timely subtraction, your life may be a lot less troublesome.
The older you get, the smaller the circle of friends, especially after middle age, and some groups are useless.
People who are really busy and can't stop simply don't have time to refresh the circle of friends. Such people have long since withdrawn from all kinds of groups.
When I experienced it, I felt that these groups were also occupying positions. So, I pushed them all off, leaving only some people in regular contact.
It is a very enjoyable thing to enjoy being alone and enjoying silence. These kinds of people have long since quit various groups, which is really smart.
A girl who likes words, I am glad to meet you in my words, and I am willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.