Girlfriends are often taken by the leader to participate in various social interactions, do not discuss unhealthy situations, nothing more than several reasons: first, the girlfriend has strong social skills, attending the dinner can solve some problems that cannot be solved in a serious environment for the unit; second, the girlfriend is beautiful, participating in the social can reconcile the caution and vigilance of the unit being socialized, which is convenient for the leaders to break through; third, the girlfriend's social, ability and appearance are outstanding, forming a situation of excessive dependence on the leader in the unit.
These three reasons that cannot be refuted, the "boyfriend" is dissatisfied, but does not know how to solve it, which is a considerable number of men who are "unhappy and messy" entanglements. If your income level is not enough for your girlfriend to ignore the job, you may be comfortable adjusting yourself a little in the following three aspects.
Start by asking yourself if you trust your girlfriend 100% of the time. If the trust index can convince yourself, then lower your posture, your girlfriend comes back late, treat yourself as a private "housekeeper", flush honey water, 38 degrees hot towel to cover your face, soak your feet in hot water, anyway, you can relieve fatigue just say hello. Do not feel inferior to these things, "male outside the female inside", this thing can vary from person to person.
Second, take the initiative to establish a sense of "de-machismo". Society has long been not a period of "male superiority and female inferiority", the previous "husband singing women with women", can also be modified to "women singing with husbands", female ministers and female bureau chiefs, female generals, female scientists, female astronauts are not new, "master husband" is of course also a product of the times. This point should be learned from the Ala Shanghai man, why the chairman of the board of directors is not the chairman, going home is the wife's hearty "subordinate", the knife in the sky can not change this.
The last point is particularly critical, think about it, the reason why you are worried, is it not confident that your girlfriend has met someone better than herself in countless social interactions? This is not that I don't trust my girlfriend, it's just that I am a little unconfident, after all, my girlfriend is too good, and it is inevitable that someone in this world is a little better than myself. In this case, it is a bit of a wrist, how to say it? It is to find a way to make the girlfriend completely and completely dependent on herself, and if you can't do it in many ways, then specialize in one direction.
This is not a joke, you think, why do patients trust and rely on doctors? Why can a girlfriend make the unit leader rely on her? This is the "skill has a specialty", the doctor relies on his superb medical skills, your girlfriend relies on the social skills of the spring wind and rain and the pleasing high-value conquest of the workplace, what ability do you have to make your girlfriend die for you? You think, think about it, everyone must have one or N different strengths, that is, their invincible specialty direction.
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