The fertility experience shared by a post-85 mother on the Internet has attracted everyone's attention.
This mother is 34 years old, she has given birth to 7 children in 13 years, she was only 20 years old when she gave birth to the eldest, and she just gave birth to the seventh child last year, which is the youngest child, and the difference between the eldest and the seventh is 13 years.
Such behavior shocked many netizens and asked why they had so many children, and the answer of this mother made it difficult for netizens to understand.
Bao Mom said that her husband's IQ is 140, which is much higher than ordinary people, and it is a pity that such a good gene was wasted, so she chose to have more children.
Some netizens said that they were really rich and willful; some said that it was difficult to understand, saying that this was not responsible for children, how to take care of them when they had so many children; and some said that even if the husband had a high IQ, the children may not be inherited.
Whatever the reason, choosing to have a baby is about whether you can withstand the pressures of these aspects
Mental stress
Usually a family is overwhelmed with raising one child, let alone taking care of 7. Parents need to pay more energy and effort to ensure the healthy growth of their children.
The family economy is relatively solid, you can ask the babysitter to help take care of it, or the elderly are physically strong, you can also help take care of it, but in either way, parents can not give their children full authority to others to raise, after all, no one can replace the love of parents.
But also to take care of each child's feelings, but there are many children in the family, it is difficult for parents to find details, and they need to spend more time to solve them in the future, and the mental pressure is very high.
Economic pressures
Nowadays, prices are getting higher and higher, competition is becoming more and more fierce, and it takes a lot of energy and money to raise a child.
From pregnancy tests to milk powder money after the birth of the child, miscellaneous expenses and insurance after school, daily food and clothing, etc., are not small expenses.
Raising one is still difficult, and if there are many, the financial pressure of parents can be imagined. If the number of boys is large, they will have to prepare houses and cars for them in the future, even if the children have a job, parents also need to help, and the burden on their shoulders is even heavier.
Educational pressure
Now education is different from the past, many parents in addition to hoping that their children's cultural classes are excellent, but also hope to be versatile, so during pregnancy began to take prenatal education classes to stimulate development, wait until going to school and worry about choosing a school.
Ordinary kindergartens or primary and secondary schools may not be able to meet the requirements of parents, in order for children to go to better schools, parents do not hesitate to buy school district houses, but also to their children to report a lot of cram classes, special classes, do their best to provide them with high-quality educational resources.
In the last century, it was common for a person to have several siblings, but today, most families are only children. Many parents do not have the courage to have so many children for practical reasons, which is also a manifestation of responsibility for their children.
But having a child is a personal freedom, everyone has their own choices and thoughts, but since the baby is born, it is necessary to be responsible for him to the end and consider the child's long-term.
No matter how good the innate genes are, the day after tomorrow is not guided, and the education is not done in place, the child will still become mediocre.
Therefore, do not pin your hopes on the invisible and untouchable tissue cells of genes, but be pragmatic and focus on things that have substantial significance, and help children become talents through education and good habits.