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In feelings, choosing a person is actually choosing a life. Especially for women, what kind of person you choose determines your happiness for the rest of your life.
In marriage, choice is more important than love, and no matter how much you love someone, you must recognize the other person's true appearance.
I have to say that with what kind of man, what kind of life will be there, you know, different people bring you completely different feelings.
Therefore, if you want to be happy, you should make the right choice and try to be with these three kinds of men, so that you can be considered married to the right person.
Know how to respect
I've always felt that respect and trust are the foundation of a relationship. Only on the basis of mutual respect will feelings become more and more harmonious.
If you say that with a person, the other party does not even have the minimum respect, it is useless for you to love, and there is no point in giving more.
Only people who respect you and care about you will make you happy.
If a person does not know how to respect, in the end it will only be you who will be wronged, and no matter how good the other party is, it is his business, and if he does not respect you, those good things are superfluous.
Only with someone who knows how to respect you will you feel valued.
In fact, respect is at least a manifestation of love, because loving you will respect you, care about your opinions, and follow your wishes.
Good feelings should be like this, neither asking each other, but also respecting each other, letting each other be themselves, such love will last.
Choosing to be with such a person will at least avoid a lot of unnecessary contradictions.
Willing to listen
In fact, in the world of feelings, I think understanding is more important than love.
True happiness is not to prove how much this person loves you, but that he will understand you, know your inner thoughts, and be willing to listen and accompany you.
If a person just says he loves you with his lips and doesn't do anything, then such love is too cheap.
In this long life, having someone by your side, listening to you, listening to you complain and sharing, this is probably a kind of happiness.
True happiness is that there is someone who understands your desires and stops, understands your silence, and understands the entanglement and pain that you can't tell.
When a person is willing to calm down and listen to you, it is actually the greatest happiness.
Compared with what romantic love words, I think I understand you and are willing to listen to your inner voice, so that such talents can come steadily and reliably.
Therefore, since you want to get married, you must choose someone who is willing to listen to you, which will be very happy.
It really hurts
For many girls, what they want is just a person who will really care about themselves from the bottom of their hearts and feel sorry for themselves.
There is a person who will put himself in his heart, will be afraid of his grievances and sadness, and it is a great happiness to be fortunate to meet such a person.
If in the married life, the other party only cares about themselves, does not consider your feelings, and does not know how to hurt you, then you pay more and do not help.
Only when a person feels sorry for you from the bottom of his heart will he not let you suffer and suffer, but as much as possible to bear and make you happy.
And a person who only comes according to his own wishes and does not know how to hurt himself will be very tired and unhappy.
Life is not long, to choose a person who is willing to pay for you, really hurt you, then the second half of your life will be valued, put on the heart, do not have to be wronged.
summary:
What kind of person you choose in life is really important, and it directly determines your happiness for the rest of your life.
No matter how much you love a person, you should recognize the true appearance of the other party, do not be fooled by superficial rhetoric, only the man who really does this is worth paying, so that you will be happy.