Kindergarten is to standardize children's behavior, adapt to the preschool education of collective life, many children will be sent to kindergarten by their parents for education at the age of school, but the first time the child leaves the family, leaves the parents to a completely unfamiliar environment, it is inevitable that they will not adapt, resulting in some uncontrollable behavior.
Jiajia (pseudonym) has a 4-year-old son, has reached the age of entering the kindergarten, in order to let her son grow up healthy and happy, as well as lay a good foundation for future learning and life, Jiajia has made every effort to choose a school with a good reputation and close to home for her son.
The first time the son left the family, there was a serious separation anxiety disorder, sending his son to school every morning was a huge project, the son's crying was not stopped, and the mother's non-let go made Jiajia troubled.
In addition, the son's situation in school is also a problem, the teacher often reflects that the son does not listen to the lecture in class, always crying, does not participate in activities with his friends, always alone and shouts to find his mother, for which Jiajia is very worried about her son's school situation.
On this day, Jiajia received a call from the teacher, saying that it was lunch break, other children were asleep, but their sons did not sleep, the child was noisy, afraid of affecting others, so the teacher carried it to other rooms to comfort, did not expect the child to struggle badly, a tear broke the "gold necklace" on the teacher's neck, and scratched the teacher's neck.
When Jiajia heard it, she immediately apologized to the teacher and said that she would make compensation, and when her son returned home from school, she immediately carried out education and said to her son: "The mistakes you made, you have to bear the responsibility, you broke the teacher's gold necklace, you sold your tablet to the teacher to buy a necklace."
So Jiajia sold her son's tablet, bought an identical gold necklace for the teacher, and took the child to apologize sincerely to the teacher, and the teacher was deeply moved by Jiajia's approach.
When netizens learned of this matter, Jiajia's handling method was praised as "the best rich support", and some netizens said that Jiajia "has good parenting and is worth learning".
For the son to make mistakes, Jiajia's way of dealing with it can be described as a textbook approach, for the son to make mistakes, Jiajia is not blindly accusing the child, nor is it directly taking responsibility for the child, but letting the child learn to be responsible for his own behavior, this practice is worth learning from us.
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