"Chicken baby" is a popular word on the Internet in recent years
Refers to parents giving their children "chicken blood"
In order for children to read good books and get good grades
Keep arranging learning and activities for your child
The act of constantly letting the child fight.
Have you ever seen a child reverse "chicken mother"?
Recently, a mother usually arranges her child's spare time to be full, and she loves to play with her mobile phone at home. The son who is dissatisfied with the "double standard" uses the old money to buy the same book of the same "Parent Success Study" by taking pictures to find the same model, hoping that his mother will be more gentle and enlightened. In this regard, the father said that he would also join in and become the pride of his son with his wife.
Netizens laughed and said:
"Don't let my child learn this trick"!
Confucius said, "He is upright in his body, and he does not act according to orders." His body is not righteous, although he does not obey. "
Family communication is a two-way street, and education is not as good as teaching by example! Contemporary children are more intelligent and autonomous. In the past, simple scolding instructions could no longer deter children, but would cause children's dissatisfaction.
Parents need to convince their children by leading by example. If parents often let their children learn well every day, but they are playing with mobile phones on the side, they will make children have a strong contrast, sincerely feel unfair, and cannot convince children and consciously study well.
For children, parents are close and admired people, so children will imitate some of the behaviors of adults. This will make the child develop in the direction of excellence more than forcing the child to learn.
The growth of children and the efforts of parents are a two-way process. The cultivation of children's excellent qualities is inseparable from the parents' example, and the parents' efforts are also for the children's expectations and the healthy growth of the children. The joint efforts of parents and children are a win-win condition for a harmonious and happy family.
A netizen named "Nian Qing" shared the things that his grandfather had a profound influence on him on Zhihu, one of which was:
Grandpa would write a brush every night before going to bed, and almost every day he would write and then go to bed. Except for illness or New Year's Day, I did not write it.
The impact this has on me and my family is that we all consciously do our own thing, write our own homework after school, and never need to be urged by adults.
Self-disciplined parents do not need to face their lives every day, or even wield sticks, they only need to influence their children with the power of words and deeds, which is more influential than other educational means, and it is far-reaching and lasting.
Source: Synthesized from Mammoth News, Weibo, Qian Zhiliang Studio, etc