Some people say that marriage has two kinds of appearances, one for the rest of life and one for partnership.
Indeed, life is only with people who love you and whom you love.
Because marriage not only needs to live a life, but also needs to have spiritual resonance.
If two people are together, just to make up, there are no festivals in life, no surprises, no touches, no love, no care, no romance, no communication...
Then this kind of day can only be called - partner.
And those who understand you, know you, love you, hurt you, protect you, are willing to listen to your distress, give you enough security, and make you laugh are worthy of you - the rest of your life.
In a partnership marriage, two people are like roommates who share a house.
Even if they sit together and eat, they also eat their own meals, play their own mobile phones, they are too lazy to communicate, too lazy to quarrel, too lazy to care for each other, as long as the children thrive, the elderly are healthy and long-lived, and it does not matter if they make up with the wrong people.
But there is a line in the movie "The Greatest Father in the World":
"I thought that the worst thing in the world was to end up alone. Not really, the worst part is to end up with people who make you feel lonely. ”
Life is not easy, life is not easy, if you live the next half of your life with a partner, your hardships, he does not care, your preferences, he does not want to understand, your grievances, he can not see, your pay, he does not know how to cherish, how wronged.
The most beautiful thing in the world is not the scenery, but the feelings that can spend the rest of your life together.
Before I thought that love was love at first sight, then I thought it was a long stream, and then I thought it was a sense of security, it was companionship, it was dependence, it was unbearable to put it down, and now I think love is, when I love you, you also love me, it's as simple as that.
The stumbling of fate, the struggle of the years, life has too much involuntariness, when a lot of helplessness is placed in front of us, we can only bow our heads, pick up the cigarette in our hands, take up the dull bitter wine, swallow the most hurtful and hurtful pain in life, to meet tomorrow's sunrise and sunset...
At this time, in fact, what we need most is just a confession, a listening, and the pain in our hearts can be reduced by a few points as long as someone understands.
A hug, though simple, is the warmest to rely on; Listening, though ordinary, is the best comfort.
Marriage, the last thing you need is to settle, no matter who you marry, in terms of choosing the marriage partner, I hope you will not settle.
If marriage is about to begin, then all happiness after that cannot be discussed. Life is short, there is no need to stick to the pain.
It is better to be lonely than to go against your heart, and it is better to regret than to settle down.
A lifetime of saying short is not short, saying long is not long, to be kind to yourself, only with the right person, can you live up to the rest of your life.
May you have the privilege of meeting your beloved and spending this life with him, and if you haven't come yet, wait a minute.
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