[Children do not love to go to school during the rebellious period, they have to go out to work, how to guide parents correctly]
Recently, the news that Jiangsu guys were forced to draw blood by an online fraud company in Cambodia and caused a critical illness has attracted the attention of netizens.
The "blood slave" incident has brought Cambodia's online fraud industry into the public eye again.
According to previous reports, Li Linpeng is an orphan, grew up in the welfare director, once did a small business in China, worked as a security guard, and currently has no relatives at home. In June 2021, he was tricked by a friend to work in Guangxi with a monthly salary of up to 20,000 to 30,000 yuan, and was abducted and sent to Cambodia. Speaking of this, he is also because he only wants to make money, but how to make money has no ideas! And because of the refusal to participate in network fraud, Li Linpeng was resold by the fraud company many times, in the past half a year, he was "doctor" brought by the fraud park every one and a half months to draw 3 infusion bottles of blood, a total of 7 times was drawn blood, was rescued when he was in danger.
Because he is an orphan, his life has lacked a lot of warmth since he was a child, but he still has a kind heart, under the torture of various whippings, hanging up and beatings, he still chooses to refuse network fraud, and then becomes a "blood slave", fortunately he met a kind person, and was finally rescued and sent to the hospital.
I believe that the parents who have recently seen this news are very sad, you can think about their children, how to distinguish between true and false friends in the future, where is the career exit for future children?
We may often hear such words as "you are not studying well, grow up to pick up garbage", and even parents have to take their children to "suffer", but when a series of hardships are eaten, in the face of learning, children are still irritable when they learn, and they still can't find the motivation to learn?
Why? The correct answer is because he does not know why he learns, the child is young and his mind is not mature enough, so unlike these people who are our parents, they know that learning and his future career, quality of life, and social level are closely related, and he does not know that his current efforts are to realize his future career dreams. If you have your own career dreams, you will not be easily fooled and deceived.
If your child wants to be a doctor, if he wants to be a teacher, it's just an idea, and the idea can't generate motivation. What is your career dream? It is the wish, and the eagerness to fulfill the wish will be motivated.
So the question is, does your child have career dreams? If he doesn't have career dreams, where does the child's motivation to learn come from? If we are sure that there is none now, how can we make our children accessible?
The next step is for you! On the dry goods, remember to like the collection, so as not to use the time to forget!
The following three points you have to carefully taste to find the answer, and your child's learning status will also be greatly improved.
first
Dreams come from ideas about the future, and the more ideas for the future arise, the more likely it is to produce dreams.
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Ideas come from opportunities, and the more opportunities there are for children, the better the ideas will be.
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Opportunities come from the social practice we give to children, and children who have experienced a lot can really open their horizons.
Do you understand? Parents who understand will explain it to you in the comment area, and I would like to ask, does your child have a dream? To learn more, please open the link to learn more about "26 Psychological Methods of Disciplining Children" #This is family education ##Early childhood education Everyone says ##畅谈家庭教育 #
