After the holidays, some parents are starting to work, some are going to work, and some are staying at home.
In either case, almost all parents have the most heart-wrenching common denominator: What if the child is in bed in the morning?
The child is still in the winter vacation, for the parents who work, if someone takes care of the child at home, this matter does not seem to be a problem.
And if there is no one to take care of the children, this is really a tricky problem. Breakfast made on time cannot be eaten on time, and eating cold rice often can not be good for the body.
For parents who have gone out to work and those who have not gone out to work, the child who is in bed has to face the same problem, eating can not eat normally on time, or eat cold rice, or have parents give him hot meals.
For children, this is really not a good habit, not to mention that once the school starts, it will definitely make parents anxious.
Why do children get bedridden?
First of all, from a physiological and psychological point of view, especially in the winter vacation, not to mention children, even adults know that it feels so comfortable in the bed. There is nothing specific about getting up, not to mention that a semester of studying at school makes them tense, it is difficult to take a vacation, of course, to relax.
Secondly, at the beginning of the holidays, parents did not make a schedule with their children, and over time, lying in bed naturally became a habit.
Third, parents disagree, some people think that you can't lie in bed, some people think you can lie in bed, which gives children an opportunity to take advantage of it.
Fourth, parents themselves do not set a good example for their children in this regard.
For the above reasons, in the face of children lying in bed, we do not need to be anxious, blamed, complained, because it cannot solve the problem.
We don't have to delve too deeply into the past
Just need to start now,
There are four ways to start:
first
First of all, parents should take the lead.
Rest and wake up on time every day, and tell your child in advance. The child is in the critical stage of growing up, and enough rest is for better growth.
Parents can discuss the daily schedule with their children, then write it down and record it every day. Each time you complete it, you can add a small red flag to yourself.
secondly
Encourage your child in a timely manner.
After consulting with the child, it is not easy for the child to succeed in each challenge. Parents should write down or say what they see, so that children can see or hear, and feel the attention and love of their parents for him.
Tips: Focus on saying the specific behavior you see in your child, the more specific the better.
Third
Make a tasty breakfast.
Ensure that the child has enough sleep time, plus the activities of the previous day, if you get up on time, the appetite is particularly good at this time.
If parents are careful, make some breakfasts with full color and flavor in the morning, especially some suitable for children, or children like. This is also a big temptation for children!
Fourth
Arrange a variety of activities.
For young children, they especially like to play games, so let's do some games with the child that he likes, or find some friends he likes and arrange a fixed time to play together every day.
Tips: Playing at a fixed time every day will make your child develop a particularly good habit.
As for the content of the game, parents can let the child decide for himself, or he can search online, or look for relevant books, learn to innovate, and let the child have a fresh sense of the game every day. These are very attractive for small children!
All in all
There are many ways to let children say goodbye to bed, and everyone can combine their children's situation, selectively try, and can also be adjusted.
However, no matter what the method, there is an important premise that must not be ignored:
The parent-child relationship must be harmonious, and combining these methods, the effect will be optimal.
Responsible Editor | Chen Yuanlong
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