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"The poor are in the downtown area and no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains."
Money is a mirror that can illuminate the true face of everyone, and can reflect the coldness of life.
When there is no money, acquaintances may not know each other.
Yang Dai said: "Only in the humble place, the most organic opportunity to see the truth of the world's human condition." ”
Money is not a panacea, but it is impossible without money. Although it is only a piece of paper, this paper has a human temperature. As long as people are poor once, they know that the world is cold and warm.
01. No money, no love
Love is romantic, and everyone wants to have it. However, love is also realistic and ruthless, in the society of paper drunk fans, rich people are surrounded by beautiful women, and people without money are hungry for love.
Although there is enough to drink water, it is not that there is no human fireworks. Two people in love, and every commitment you make requires money to pay for it. Even if it's buying a movie ticket and having a cup of milk tea... It all takes money to pay. And what can represent your sincerity is more than a dozen yuan movie ticket and milk tea?
So, it's really hard to have love without money.
I had a high school classmate, Xiao Man, who had a lot of suitors in school because of her outstanding looks, and finally she was chased by a boy with the same appearance as her.
The two fell in love and got married after high school. Because of their young age, parents are also worried about the lives of their two children.
As parents worry, after boys get married, because they have no academic qualifications, they run into walls everywhere looking for jobs. Girls can't leave their hands at home with their children and can't go out to make money.
Over time, their lives were defeated by money, and the two quarreled every day because of money. A year later, they divorced, and Little Man returned to his hometown alone.
Later, Xiao Man remarried, and her husband was the owner of a physical clothing store, and the male and female appearance were just right.
Love can make people lose their minds, and it can also make people's IQ zero. When in love, two people do not care about money and can come together. But once you come into contact with the chai rice oil and salt in the day, love will change from passion to flatness. If at this time, there is no money to support life, the marriage will be filled with gunpowder. Divorce will take place over time.
Therefore, for marriages that lack money, it is difficult to maintain for a long time.
Without money, there is no love, which seems incorrect, but it will subvert everyone's cognition. Life is inseparable from material things, but material things are inseparable from money; love can only be long-lasting if it is provided for a long time.
Money can give people peace of mind and make people worth relying on. Marriages with enough money will last a long time.
02. No money, no connections
In this society, having money is the last word, and when you are destitute, anyone who sees you will hide far away. I am afraid that you will affect their lives and become a burden to their lives.
And when you gain power one day, those people will climb the dragon and phoenix with you and find a way to pull a relationship with you. Because, they want to dip your light.
Olympic champion Quan Hongchan was destitute in his family before he won the crown, and he was the poorest family in the village, and the door was snubbed. After winning the championship, relatives and friends from dozens of miles away will visit.
In this regard, Quan Hongchan's mother said: "I never knew that my family has so many relatives. "How ironic.
When asked about the reason for Quan Hongchan's crown, 14-year-old Quan Hongchan, at a young age, said: "It is to make a lot of money to treat her mother." ”
When people are poor, there is no economy, the family will be very despicable, of course, no one will be willing to contact you. Therefore, the network will also be very narrow.
Sima Qian said: "The world is bustling, all for the benefit of the world, the world is bustling, all is for the benefit." ”
If you don't have money, even the people gathered around you will disperse sooner or later; and if you have money, the vast network of people can be obtained effortlessly.
People are realistic, and no one wants to run miles away to drink a sip of cold water without picking up the gold under their feet. In the face of the cold of the world, we will always have friends who are hot and cold, and there will also be relatives who are drifting away.
There is a saying: "Recalling the past, who lacked firewood and rice, who was willing to send charcoal in the snow, and saw that there was wine and meat in the present dynasty to add icing on the cake." ”
When you have no money, this sentence is so deeply into your heart, not only makes people lament the beauty of the world, but it is sprinkled with human feelings and sophistication everywhere.
03. Without money, there is no confidence
Maugham said: "Man is certainly not after wealth, but he must have a life sufficient to maintain dignity, so that he can work unhindered, can be generous, can be cheerful, can be independent." ”
If you don't have money, it means that you have no choice, and at the same time you have to endure all kinds of suffering, and having money will make you live as you want. Even if you encounter risks in your life, the numbers in your bank card can solve the problem.
And there is no money, relatives are far away, cold as frost, and even have no confidence in their own survival.
In "Love in the Fallen City", the hostess Bai Liusu is a woman who cares for her family, she is full of trust in her family, and even the money she gets after divorce is spent to her family.
However, when her family ran out of money, she began to taste the suffering she suffered because she did not have money.
After the money of the white tassel was spent by the family, the family's attitude towards her changed dramatically, not only sneering at her, but also urging her to be widowed and seek benefits for them.
Her family said to her very harshly: "Marry the chicken with the chicken, marry the dog with the dog." Since you are married, you are born a person of others, and you are a ghost of others, and you have nothing to do with us. ”
And for such a sneering, mean, penniless white tassel did not even have the courage to quarrel.
She saw through the heat and coldness of the world. Thinking that I can't dock like a drifting ship, my heart is like ashes.
Kazuo Inamori said, "Money is the real bottom of life!" It is a person's greatest confidence. ”
If you have money, you don't have to look at people's faces to borrow money to spend, you can solve your own food, clothing, housing and transportation. Be able to live simply and happily.
Although money is not omnipotent, it can give you the most confidence in life.
Money is like a pair of armor, able to withstand the storms of life, can give people a safe haven. We desperately make money for nothing more than safety and happiness.
From birth to death, there is not a single moment when people are free from their material needs, food, clothing, shelter, food, drink, and lazar... Less money will make you confused, and even survival will become a problem. And with money, even others look at you with a gentle eye. I have to say that rich people, the world will be happy with her.
Money, in a sense, is your "stepping stone", the higher you cushion, the more powerful and tall others see you, the more confident you are to survive.
There is a saying: "Money is a mirror and a measuring scale." ”
Those who flatter and flatter around you when you have money, there is no need to linger, because they have not paid their hearts, and when you have no money, whether you are xuanhe or depressed, the person who does not abandon it is worth your deep friendship for a lifetime.
If such a person can meet, it is lucky, of course, we do not want each other to fall to that point, just need our friends to be able to treat each other with sincerity, with sincerity for sincerity.
Money is a person's dignity and confidence, and working hard to make money is king.
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