After the Spring Festival, kindergartens across the country will gradually usher in the opening of schools. For children who want to go to kindergarten, they will enter a new and completely different educational environment than before.
When a child enters the "society" for the first time, parents should understand their children's uneasiness and anxiety, and at the same time help their children prepare for the following.
New arrivals can prepare these items
1. A small school bag, make a small mark that is easy to identify
Small markers can be personalized, write the name of the child, or use stickers of the small animals that the children like. The school bag doesn't have to be too fancy, it doesn't have to be too big, you can put down one or two pieces of change of clothes. The school bag is prepared to cultivate the children's feelings of going to school, packing his own things, it is best to let the children sort out by themselves.
2. Prepare a spare set of clothes, pants, socks, etc
Children love to move, it is inevitable that clothes are easy to dirty or punctures, young children will also have situations such as peeing pants, parents can prepare a set of spare clothes and pants, in order to change after an emergency. At the same time, it is recommended that parents prepare a clean towel for their children to facilitate their children's scrubbing.
3. You can bring small toys, dolls, picture books, etc. that children especially like
In general, kindergartens allow babies who have just entered the kindergarten to bring one or two toys that they particularly like. With something familiar in your hand, your baby will have a certain sense of security. You can also share it with other children to alleviate the anxiety of entering the kindergarten.
4. Prepare 6-7 personal avatar photos of children
These avatar photos will be posted in the bag cabinet, seat, tea cup slot, towel slot and other places to help children find their personal belongings as soon as possible.
5. Quilts and bedding for kindergartens
When the school starts, you can take it home in advance, mark it and help your child wash and dry it.
Help your child adapt to the new environment and avoid anxiety when entering the kindergarten
A kindergarten director said: "Material preparation is one thing, more importantly, parents should be mentally prepared for their children's schooling to avoid anxiety when their children enter the kindergarten." ”
Before children enter kindergarten, 2-3 years are with their families, suddenly have to get along with strange teachers and children, and eat and drink in an unfamiliar environment and take a nap, that kind of change is still very huge for children.
Parents should try to help their children alleviate the anxiety caused by the tension of unfamiliar environments and stranger groups. For example, tell more interesting things about kindergarten; take your child to the kindergarten to familiarize yourself with the familiar environment, so as to stimulate your child's desire to go to kindergarten. Before entering the kindergarten, ask the teacher who is in the same class with the children in the same community, and let the children become familiar with it in advance, so that the children will have their own small partners after entering the kindergarten, and they can naturally transition.
Develop good habits and avoid getting sick every month after entering the kindergarten
In fact, children's living habits and life skills have enough time to cultivate before entering the kindergarten, these abilities and habits can allow them to make the least changes after entering the kindergarten, life before and after entering the kindergarten is easy to connect, the baby has enough energy to adapt to the new life of the kindergarten, which is conducive to the baby to have a good mood, and also to reduce the "January disease" after the child enters the kindergarten.
1. Cultivate children's eating habits by themselves and matching with kindergartens
From the first day of entering the kindergarten, the most concerned question for parents is whether the child is "full" and "eats well", so from now on, exercise, let the child learn to eat by himself, let him feel that eating is a happy thing.
On the other hand, adjust the time and structure of the child's diet in advance, and the closer it is to the kindergarten's dietary arrangement, the better. At least the gastrointestinal tract does not need to be re-adapted, which is conducive to digestion and absorption.
breakfast
After entering the kindergarten, he got up earlier than usual, coupled with the fact that the baby did not want to go to the kindergarten to lie in bed, the morning time seemed particularly rushed. So I suggest you start simplifying your breakfast now: drink milk mainly, supplemented by eggs, a small amount of bread, and make it similar to the kindergarten breakfast. Try not to prepare rice stir-fry at breakfast time.
Lunch and dinner
The kindergarten lunch time is about 11:30-12:00, and the dinner time is about 4:30-5:00. Now start preparing as much as possible according to this time. Kindergarten around 4:30 to eat is not too early, dinner children too late, but easy to make children digest poorly, stomach discomfort. After dinner, you can prepare some yogurt and fruit to promote digestion.
2. Before entering the kindergarten, the child's work and rest time should be adjusted appropriately
When the baby is at home, the mother can also intentionally arrange the baby's activities according to the kindergarten schedule. If you help your baby establish appropriate nap habits, the general kindergarten nap is arranged from 12:00 noon to 2:30 pm. The morning admission time is around 8 o'clock, and the evening sleep time is preferably not later than 9 o'clock.
3, exercise the baby to take a cup of water to drink water
Don't let the child use the small kettle because it is convenient and worry-free, because most of the water in the kindergarten drinks water is a water cup, and letting the child drink water from the water cup can also exercise the child's two-hand coordination ability. It's okay to sprinkle it a few times, it's important to sum up the experience with your child and find tips for not sprinkling. Aligning with the kindergarten lifestyle helps children adjust to kindergarten life.
4. Independent toilet
Independent toilet is the most basic skill of children's self-care, it is related to the establishment of children's self-esteem, children who can go to the toilet independently, after entering the kindergarten, more relaxed, the transition period is shorter. From now on, do not help your child take off your pants in advance when you go to the toilet, and try to encourage your children to do it themselves.
5. Exercise your child's ability to seek help through expression
Everyone has things they can't do, and so do teachers. It is not shameful to ask others for help, and tell the child that the teacher, like the mother, is willing to help her. Only when the teacher understands the children's ideas will the problems become less.
A few words to teach your child:
When you feel thirsty, say, "Teacher, I want to drink water." ”
When there is a urge to urinate/defecate, say, "Teacher, I want to urinate/poop." ”
When you are not full, say, "Teacher, I still want to eat." ”
When you are uncomfortable, say, "Teacher, I feel bad. ”
Let your child be brave enough to express it when they need help.
"Don't fight the battle of being unprepared", the same applies to the child's growth path, in order to start the upcoming kindergarten new life, do a good job in the child's psychological and skill construction, is a compulsory course for every parent!
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