Society is developing, the times are progressing, in the traditional concept, learning is the best way out, admitted to a prestigious university for further study, after graduation with academic qualifications to find a stable job. But learning is not an easy task, and some students are extremely resistant and even fight with their parents.
Most parents believe that under the stick is filial piety, the child is not willing to study seriously, then take the stick to beat, until they dare not resist, and then automatically enter the house to learn. But times have changed, and it is difficult to achieve the expected results by educating the next generation of children with the concepts and ideas that were once there.
Never failed to develop good habits, and when they grow up, they will forcibly correct them, and children will naturally resist. Accustomed to playing games and watching movies, days without books, how pleasant. It is really difficult for parents to guide students well, but they want their children to achieve excellent results.
Parents' minds can be understood, all for the good of their children, when they studied in general, they failed to enter prestigious universities, they could only suffer in society, they were unwilling to let their children follow in their own footsteps, they wanted their children to have a better future, and they did not have to go east and west for life.
Do not mention homework, parents and children can live in harmony, once the child is urged to complete the homework, the two sides will break out of the "war", you do not let me I do not let you, the students helpless to cry, accusing parents of deceiving people too much, parents are overwhelmed, can only take the stick threat.
A parent in Liaoning wanted to tutor their children's homework and improve their son's grades, but who could have imagined that the child was emotionally excited and cried helplessly in front of the camera, which made people look sad. The mother, on the other hand, held a stick and accused the child of having a problem with his homework attitude.
In the video, the mother and son are tit-for-tat, the child does not want to learn, does not want to complete the homework, and sees the mother supervising on the side, and the emotions are difficult to control. Shouting at the camera: "Where are you from, what do I shoot?" "I don't want to shoot what you want to shoot, then you shoot."
The two accused each other of this stalemate, the mother held a stick but did not move, the son saw the mother's thoughts, he shouted unscrupulously, trying to get justice from his mother. After the video was released, it caused heated discussion among netizens, and many parents felt the same way.
Children do not love to learn, the results on the exam are average, can not meet the expectations of parents, they want to let the children study seriously. Parents want to tutor their children's homework and accompany their children's growth, but their personal education is limited, and some problems are not clear, and they can only supervise from the side.
I don't know whether the times have changed, or personal concepts have changed, and it is difficult to get correct answers to the current problems with past ideas and solve current problems with past methods. On the contrary, it is forced for students to write homework, which is more likely to be hated, disliked and disliked by children.
Is it inappropriate for parents to be ignorant, not to take the lead, and not to seriously accompany the growth of students, so they want to impose personal ideas on their children? Parents play mobile phone games, failed to set a good example for their children, but let children study hard, why?
Learning is boring, and if parents don't guide them, how can children fall in love with learning? Can the use of traditional ideas to solve problems and the use of violent means to force children to learn achieve the desired effect? Hard. When forcing children to learn, parents will only be rejected.
The mother and son duo in the video, why not us, is this scene familiar to everyone? Without mentioning homework, the family gets along very well, and once the child is urged or forced to learn, what is obtained is the child's "hard resistance" and does not want to hear the nagging of the parents.
What children resent is not learning, but the attitude of parents, the truth is understood, parents fail to strictly demand themselves, in turn to require children, what is the situation? Good education is not made out of sticks, but subtly, with actions to influence children.
After the video was released, some netizens said: "The child is young but out of shape, the parents are not less accustomed on weekdays, when they were young, they did not seriously guide their children, and now they want to manage, it is too late." Netizens are right, but most parents can listen to their hearts?
Will this happen when parents are more restrained when their children are young, play an exemplary role model, and make children fall in love with reading and learning? Blindly educating children with sticks and constantly forcing children to learn will not only fail to meet expectations, but also make people disgusted.
The mother in the video has insufficient knowledge reserves and does not know how to educate her child, thinking that if she scares him with a stick, the child will obediently learn. But who knew that he did not eat this set at all, but instead broke down and cried emotionally, and loudly reprimanded his mother in front of the camera.
Most parents can understand the mother's heartache, want to let the child study seriously, achieve excellent results, be admitted to prestigious colleges, and have a good future, but do not know how to guide. If you can't control the child this time, it may be more difficult to discipline in the future.
Learning is not an easy task, and when children know how to learn independently, they do not need parental supervision. It's just that the boy in the video, the attitude towards his mother is difficult to accept, even if he can achieve excellent results, if he does not change his personal attitude and enter the society, no one is accustomed to him.
What do you think?