In 2022, people's dailys told us six guidelines for how to behave in the world.
"Don't judge a person lightly". Although the ancients had a saying: "Whoever does not speak behind his back, no one behind him." "However, people who really have the strength and pattern will not say bad things about people behind others' backs." Even if it is to evaluate others, it is not very appropriate.
"Don't easily interfere with the choices of others." Everyone has the freedom to choose, if not a last resort, we should respect the freedom of choice of others, of course, if it is a small child involved in the wrong choice of safety, we should immediately stop.
"Don't always pass on negative emotions to the people around you." Now is a fast-paced society, many people while working hard, but also have anxiety. If you can't pass on positive energy, you must not transmit negative energy outwards, because your negative energy will make people slowly resentful and stay away from you over time.
"Jokes should be moderate". Between relatives and friends, between colleagues, occasionally make a funny joke, that is, you can relax, but also harmless, this is a good thing. However, jokes need to look at the occasion, but also have a generational score, jokes are too much, will make people turn their faces, serious will also not recognize the six relatives.
"Don't listen to other people's privacy" In the era of developed networks, try not to explore the privacy of others, let alone spread the privacy of others on the Internet, and serious cases will eat lawsuits. As the saying goes, rice can be eaten indiscriminately, and words cannot be spoken indiscriminately. The speed of the Internet is spreading faster than you can imagine.
"Don't always want to outdo others in words." The rapid development of the times, a good verification of thirty years of Hexi and thirty years of Hedong, the people around you, you may not be able to see the bottom, Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon talents are often around you, sometimes for a sentence to argue for reason, the mouth is to win, but lost the friendship.
If you feel reasonable, put it away decisively.
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