Grandpa had been buried, and my dad seemed depressed. My grandfather died and I was buried in the sixth grade, and then my father stayed in Shanghai to deal with the accounts with his brother and sister. My dad called me last night and listened

Grandpa had been buried, and my dad seemed depressed.

My grandfather died and I was buried in the sixth grade, and then my father stayed in Shanghai to deal with the accounts with his brother and sister.

My dad called me last night and could tell, he hesitated.

"Your grandfather left you ten thousand dollars, do you want it?"

"Don't."

I refused, because I knew that the so-called ten thousand pieces that I had given me were about the inheritance of my grandfather, between the four of them, no, three children, and my father actually wanted to use this money to eliminate the intimacy between me and my grandfather, but he did not know that the intimacy between me and my grandfather was probably because I did not like my grandfather's attitude toward him, the kind of charity that I did not look up to my son, so much so that my father had been in a whirlpool of seeking his father's approval all his life, and he had not been able to come out to this day.

Speaking of my grandfather's reluctance to see my father, I guess it was because he took my uncle and my grandfather to have a head-on conflict, when my father was fifteen years old, my uncle was thirteen, two and a half years old boys because my grandfather beat my grandmother, they bravely rushed up to fight, of course, there was no egg use, how could a man who could eat a bathtub of turtle king eight be afraid of two children, and finally my father had a mouth and nosebleed to end the fight, this thing my uncle said, I asked my father for verification, he only said that it was not so miserable, I guess from then on, this son who wanted to resist should not be treated.

This kind of not waiting to see directly transferred to our whole family, my mother is a northern Jiangsu person, my grandfather is not able to see, as I said before, my father even married furniture is raised by himself, about my grandfather can not look at the northern Daughter-in-law of northern Jiangsu This matter is actually still strange, that will not be much better than northern Jiangsu, after all, in 81 years my mother's family will have been connected to running water, my grandson who speaks Northern Jiangsu is naturally not to be treated. But I didn't feel this when I was a kid, I just thought my grandfather was harsh, although I knew he didn't do that to my cousin, his eldest grandson.

Let's talk about the things I was beaten that summer, the reason why I went to Shanghai that summer was because before that my cousin told me that Shanghai was very fun, Grandpa took him to swim, go to the zoo, go shopping to buy water guns, etc., these are very heartwarming for me, although my dad did not agree to so that I did not give in to the gesture to beat people, and finally I did not give in, and finally I was happy to go, and as a result, because I had a fever, My grandmother let My grandfather send me to the hospital, but My grandfather wanted to play cards and refused to send them, and the two of them clashed - the so-called conflict was actually a one-sided beating by Grandpa I went to stop and was slapped, four. The last little essay said this, many people say that I hate my grandfather because of this, this is very ridiculous, I was beaten by my father no less than a hundred times when I was a child, and I was beaten the day before I got married, will I hate my father for this? No, father and son would reconcile, but my grandfather didn't. #How miserable are children who are rejected by their parents#

That year's water gun swimming zoo became a luxury, and I went home after I got well. After my father learned that my grandfather would not take me to the hospital with a fever and beat me, he was furious and incompetent at home, and finally summed up my trip with "Tell you not to go to Shanghai, when can you listen to a sentence and die".

My mother told me another thing, about my four or five years old kindergarten winter vacation, grandpa took me to his construction site to play, he is an eighth-grade worker, very good, his own single dormitory, he took me, taught me to wash dishes and sweep the floor, a five-year-old little nanny, who found this? My hands were frostbitten, my grandmother asked me, I confessed my daily work as a little nanny and hungry Grandpa ate in the cafeteria, and I nibbled sugar cane at home. Grandma was furious and went to theorize and was beaten again. #Shanghai Headline#

My mother told me this when I graduated from junior high school, and my cousin talked about the Huangpu River by the sea and the Bund, and at that time these things had lost their attraction to me, not to mention that I already knew that my cousin and I were different, the water gun swimming zoo, the beach Bund Huangpu River, these had nothing to do with me, otherwise I would not let a five-year-old child wash dishes and nibble sugar cane, or have a fever at home.

I don't say this to say how bad Grandpa is to me, no matter how bad it is not a few times, after all, he is in Yangzhou in Shanghai, but the trauma of these two things to my dad is obvious, he blamed himself many times because he failed to protect me, and he never had the opportunity to improve his relationship with Grandpa, so when I got married and bought a house, Grandpa borrowed ten thousand, my dad's sense of happiness is imaginable, but this happiness bubble because Grandpa sneered, "This grandson is useless, he can't afford to buy a house to borrow on my head, the grandson is useless because his old man is useless, A lifetime is a small worker". This had a big impact on my dad, probably he had never known that grandpa thought of him this way.

A few years ago, my father retired, the first thing was to run back to his hometown to take care of his parents' living, clean the duck coop, strengthen the chicken nest, plough the land to plant vegetables to repair the house, do a lot of things, but also spent a lot of money, the result of one day father and son chatting, and then by the grandfather ridiculed "Who has the ability to earn money outside, what do you want you to do?" I've been a worker all my life, and I can't even find a serious job when I retire", my dad called me that day, and he actually choked up, and I was a little overwhelmed. Recently, watching the world, Zhou Bingkun's reconciliation with his father makes people cry, and the saying of "raising the mouth and the mind" in the play makes people warm their hearts, but the reality of nourishing the mind is more important. Grandpa's attitude made him deeply suspicious and worried about what I thought of him, and he had been guilty of not protecting me before, and he had not dissolved himself. All his life, he was proud of me, but I never told him it was important to me.

Yesterday my dad called me and actually tried to make up for the image of my grandfather in my heart, and I really wanted to laugh, but I couldn't laugh. I remember a few years ago, because I was working in Suzhou, I would go to see my grandparents in the Mid-Autumn Festival, bring some gifts, and once the neighbor happened to be there, and the neighbor said that your grandson came to see you, so happy. My grandfather said, well, he's not bad, but the old four children are more powerful, doing big business outside. The neighbor said that the big business was his, not yours. So Grandpa this kind of pulling, this kind of disdain in the bones, doesn't need any reconciliation, just need to break free on his own, I came out, my dad didn't.

Later, I called back" Dad, money doesn't matter, you matter most, be your son, it's good." "#Essay on the World#

Pictured: Yangzhou Canal Sculpture, and for the gui